Hello, I am 29 years old. I haven't been in love and relationships for a long time. I was recently sent on a business trip to London, where I met a Frenchman. He came to me on the street while looking at his map and wondered for an hour how to find a street. At first I looked super weird, but there it is generally so - they come directly and talk, not like in Bulgaria to be passive, to court them and to feel like a man. We went for a walk, drank a cocktail, then went to a second bar and I went home. We spent at least 4 hours together and it was very nice and casual. When I found out she had a high school education, I was super skeptical and didn't want to have a relationship. He invited me to see him. However, we went out a few times, and I was super frivolous. The first time I was 40 minutes late for the meeting, he was waiting for me calmly and when he saw me he said that I looked great and it was worth the wait. The second time it was like that again. Before we left London we had sex, I had refused him at least three times before and he no longer seemed to believe that it would ever happen. But that's how I felt. When I returned to Bulgaria, I suddenly totally missed him. In my opinion, it is because of the sex that brought us closer and the barriers totally fell. We started writing to each other regularly, I kept talking to him super kindly and he to me. We talked on the phone. I'm not very obsessive, he also doesn't keep anyone available to me every day, and we don't see each other all the time. I felt happy and did not think about what would happen. A month later he came to Bulgaria to see me and we spent 4 days at sea. We had a great time. After the sea he went with friends to Turkey again at sea and changed completely. He stopped paying so much attention to me and we wrote to each other often. At first I didn't notice. But once something happened that made me think. I complained to him on the phone and said I had to hang up, but I would call in a minute. I called a minute later and he hung up. I was spinning like that for half an hour and then I wrote, I'll call you in an hour ... Since then our relations have been getting worse. I am an open person. I told him directly that I miss him, he misses me by not keeping in touch, otherwise I am very happy that he is with friends and having fun. In our last serious conversation, he suddenly said that he wanted to hear from us once a week, not every day, and that I should come and visit him in London. Which is kind of like a sex friendship, not a relationship. What do you think is the reason for the total change in his behavior? What he explained to me is that so far he has not had a long distance connection, that he does not like communication only by phone and prefers live. But he only invited me to come for the weekend and said he wanted us to hand it out more slowly. It strikes me that when I treat men humiliatingly and play them (I don't do it on purpose, I just didn't like that he had a high school education and I didn't look at him seriously in the beginning), as they really do with him in our first meetings. on me, and when I'm serious, they don't want to look at me.
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I don't think he loves you, otherwise I see no other reason for such behavior on his part. Although I am a man, I do not have a good opinion of the French - both for women and men. They seem cold and artificial.
A Bulgarian and a Frenchman are trying to understand each other in English, from a distance. It can always happen that someone has said one thing and the other has understood or thought otherwise. The risks of cold communication are also not to be underestimated. He also told you he wanted you to drive it slower. Apparently he felt pressured to do something more serious. After all, you've known each other for too little time, and you went "openly" to explain to him how much you miss him every day ... and I would back off, not to mention that I would just run away. He still likes you and wants to get to know you better. Go ahead, you also need to get to know him well enough before you officially move on to a serious relationship.
I don't know what your education is, but you don't seem to be very smart, since you don't see the obvious. And that is that you are just a woman for sex. Karma is a nasty thing, just don't judge people, treat them well and sooner or later, you will meet the right person for you. I'm not picky ..
Um, of course, yes, I know this, why it's something known in advance. I just think men take you for a light woman and no one wants a serious relationship with you. You open your legs too often and with everyone you meet, and then you expect love. It's just that in this case the guy spins 2-3 people like you at the same time. And you think that almost by letting him go a few times, he must be in love with you.
Do they directly offer sex there as well as talking? And how exactly did you fight that you refused him three times, but goodbye - no. It is not clear how much you are educated? Very often those who trumpet how educated they are are really bad, your case may not be like that. France is known everywhere, and so is the city of London. Even if you are from Sofia (or at least live), not everyone in Europe has heard of it. In France, secondary education is not at a high level, but living in another country probably has much greater ambitions. And at 29 is not who knows what attractive age, unless the Frenchman is 50. "Which is something like a sex friendship, not a relationship." for now? !! I stop guessing, for so much information - so much.
Long distance relationship? What is this for you? The cons are much more than the pros. Drop it. Waiting, crazy thoughts ... noooo and noooo. From experience I advise you - break. It will shake you for a few years and then ...
Something is not behaving adequately for a 29-year-old. I don't think the man's nationality matters in this case. Both so and otherwise? Do you know what you want at all? And no man likes to be played, they are much more direct beings than women. Oh, yes, I had a sex friendship with a Frenchman. He was good in bed, that's all I can say.
Play them, play them ... still play them and then there will be topics "where are the decent men who took me down";)
Hahaha she was educated. I have the feeling that a fifth-grader wrote the topic. You are almost 30 years old. You can hardly find a normal man anymore. You have become selfish and selfish. I had such a very educated woman, but her mouth smelled like a dead dog. I ran away from her and never looked back. You who are supposedly very educated don't seem to have time to drink your mouth. Puffff
But are they still sending a 29-year-old Bulgarian woman with a higher education on a business trip to London, who can't find a street on the map of London for an hour. And how easily he distributes sex. Do not believe her that she refused him three times, everything is fast with her, only the search for the street takes an hour and she probably did not find it alone, but it happened with the help of the Frenchman, but she has to pay for the service with sex. Bulgarian women are like that. Forward with proudly raised legs to victory.
"11. But are they still sending a 29-year-old Bulgarian woman with a higher education on a business trip to London, who can't find a street on the map of London for an hour." I bet that her boss who sent her on a business trip was denied sex 3 times ?!
I'm sorry :) The man, even if he had serious intentions, just saw you for what you are, you're not smart, you're both very confident and easy to cover. Even after the first delay, he said to himself that he would teach you, he would let you fall in love, and that's how important you are to see from the sides how much you cost. :) Men love to play with your stones - on your heads! He probably aimed at this after waiting for you so long. He saw that you were bloated and he decided to ... make you fall in love and then he would dial your number. It often happens that when you play with people, you get burned. But in life it is like that, you play but you come across a playful person and they show you how to play. My friend fell in love with a "lady" like you and, and dialed the same number. He got angry and said he just wouldn't give up until he put her to bed and got there, to see how much it costs. I wonder why he tried to impress us, he was average - and you can't even find a street. Well done! But to play people and to open your legs even though you don't like them, because they are kind of "simple" - you can, a great sign of reason. Such women deserve it! I'm sorry, but accept him, you played with him, now he's with you. :) Life is like that, remember from me if you play, they will play with you too. How will 40 minutes be waiting for you, if you are not a princess? Either, or whatever called - that's what called. a great sign of reason. Such women deserve it! I'm sorry, but accept him, you played with him, now he's with you. :) Life is like that, remember from me if you play, they will play with you too. How will 40 minutes be waiting for you, if you are not a princess? Either, or whatever called - that's what called. a great sign of reason. Such women deserve it! I'm sorry, but accept him, you played with him, now he's with you. :) Life is like that, remember from me if you play, they will play with you too. How will 40 minutes be waiting for you, if you are not a princess? Either, or whatever called - that's what called.
And because of such young ladies come the statements that "Bulgarian women are like that"! Here is the number 10 he said, to have one and people put everyone under a common denominator - I hope you are proud and happy with yourself Miss "intellect" level;) At least it became clear your level.
Rejoice - you can now easily fuck another. I think that's what you want from the beginning?
"It's generally like that - they come directly and talk to you, not like in Bulgaria they are passive, you court them and feel like a man." If these are your observations about Bulgarian men, then something is lame. I have an acquaintance like you, still 29, good looking. Dozens of men have offered her, including me. I know some of the men - good looking, stable men, serious, etc. He rejected them all and repeated how bad the Bulgarian men were. Finally, she caught a Frenchman spinning her like you.
Men and women are equal in their relationships! If he has withdrawn, withdraw yourself, and if you have no feelings, tell him that you do not have a relationship for sex, and irregular due to the distance between you. If you already have feelings, tell him that you want to be together every day :) And that's how it came. Just be straightforward and honest, you have nothing to lose, you can only win! Success!