Hello. I need to share and read opinions on an issue I have been thinking about for a long time. I am a 23 year old woman. I have not missed the attention of men around me, but for 3 years, despite my relationships with men my age and up to 27, I notice that I want to be with an older and more mature man. I look at men around 30-35, sometimes more mature. I am attracted by the fact that they radiate peace and protection, they are financially secure and somehow I feel small and tender in their company. Young boys are attractive, but they do not give me the feeling of protection and peace. For half a year I have been feeling a desire for a family that I have not felt before. I have a hereditary apartment and my own car, I am graduating from the University of Plovdiv this year and the material is not the basis of this desire. I just feel better and I am more interesting with such a man. I will also mention, that my father left my life as a small child and that obviously matters even though I didn't miss anything as a child. I have a question for men aged 30-40. I look good and take care of myself, I have something in my head and I don't start from scratch. Emotionally, I am also stable and ready for a serious relationship. Would you look at a 23-year-old woman as your partner and wife, or do you see them as girls for games and sexual entertainment?
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I see 23-year-olds like plums, ready to split them, split ...
I'm 33 and I'm definitely attracted to women your age, but even if they're mature in mind, not muffins. And these are actually my ideal for starting a family. I'm married, but I speak in principle. If I were single now, I would definitely look for just the type of woman like you. Women your age have another advantage - that they are not yet fully developed as a character and would be easier to adapt to the character of the man, because any long-term relationship requires a certain adjustment (if you will, even in sex), and such in a woman at 30 plus is a little more complicated. And the other is that from sexual ch. I'm definitely attracted to women your age and rarely 30 and up. I'm not saying they're ugly, but they're just not my type. Everyone has their preferences.
My ex-girlfriend, who is 22, and I, 33, had the strongest and most shared love. I will hardly experience another one, but we broke up for a completely different reason, not age. In general, two people for each other, the years do not matter.
15 years difference is not felt in the beginning, but after 10 years the problems grow.
I'm a man of 30. Yes, I would definitely have a serious relationship with a woman your age. The problem, however, is that most women aged 20-23 think that 8-10 years difference is a lot and would not create a relationship with me. At least I was left with that impression. I am a bachelor and when you tell me I started to feel the need to start a family, to have a stable person next to me with whom to share my life and give my love. Almost all women in their 30s are already married, with children, some divorced, others already have a second marriage. On the other hand, for the younger ones I look too big, and not at the age, but as a way of thinking character, etc.
A 34-year-old friend met a colleague at the age of 23 about a year ago. Now they are waiting after 7-8 months, they got married and now they are expecting a child. couple. They love each other very much, I know both of them and I have talked to them separately. You don't even have to ask them, it is clear from a helicopter that they are a couple in love and are happy. So up to 10 years. and in some cases, even 15 years difference depends on the age of the two, not the boy is 30, the girl is 15, and as it is with you, in my opinion, it is not so abnormal.
I am a man of 31. This is exactly the kind of girl I am looking for and I look at them. But they must have mental capacity, not muffins or anything like that.
Are there less than 30-35 normal men left at all? Just some mommy's little sons, lizards and gays with waxed legs - a shame for the male sex. Where are our heroic grandfathers and great-grandfathers, who defended Mother Bulgaria with a weapon in hand and an indomitable spirit? Who built bridges, roads, tunnels, businesses, buildings of labor brigades and with almost bare hands? On the current one "PA!" to shout in their faces and they will fill their pants! Not to mention that they have no idea how to treat a woman, a lady ...
It's good what you think. But I will allow myself to insert you - and you are really emotionally mature, and a real idea of what you are looking for, do you have ...? I mean, in general you sound more serious girl really, but my experience shows me a completely different reality with girls in your age range. You yourself will know best if what you want now is something temporary, that is, because it is new as an interest to you. In other words, in 2-3 years it will somehow sound more real. Because if we have to be honest, a lot of girls your age want such things, but they have no idea that what they want is worth something on their part. I wrote it to you in a bit veiled way, but I don't want to hurt anyone in the least, because it sounds harder anyway, but I say it in order to save some disappointments or to save them for someone else. I think otherwise that more girls need to realize in those years like you, and yet I'm glad they're dating. M33
I am 28 years old. looking smaller and thinking about a relationship with a 47 year old, but he is also young. However, it seems hopeless to me because of the difference in our ages. Between 30 and 40 years old are okay, author, but look for someone close to your age, five years difference is okay if you think about a serious relationship, and starting a family, with more, I don't think anything lasting will happen, but do you know. And how they look at young people, well ... it depends on what behavior you have, they don't look at me seriously until I prove myself to them. A bit like a father and daughter.
№5, after 10 years the problems grow, but after 20 they have already grown and raised them ... So ... That's one litter and one full-fledged family life - 20 years.
Some seem to take it hard that a man might want a woman 10 years younger to have beaten the singles.
Well, here you are, the "men" that even with such huge pretensions ........ The whole world laughs at you.
<19> I don't just want women to claim it;) You want equality, don't you? :) Hey you !! ; Р
Age does not matter, but the person. My boss is with a woman 16 years younger than him. He is 66 years old. - weak, active, party-goer, muscular, and his wife just lies down and is over 100 kilos (56 in the past).
I recently talked to a colleague of mine who told me something interesting. According to her, there was a big difference between men who went to the barracks and those who did not. You can include it in the selection. Too much difference is a problem. By too much I mean over 10 years. A man of that age will only look for you for sex. Just as intellect, no matter how mature you are, another category. That is why it is very difficult to build the serious relationship you want with one. And one more thing: the serious men you target are usually busy. The free ones are not very serious or have any problems. Be careful with them!
Until 22 You, if you decide to be right and meet garbage or find out at a later stage that it is like that and leave it, will you be left alone and will you define yourself as "not very serious or with any problems"? You wrote complete nonsense at the end of your post!
Up to 23 out of 22. I am a man (for the record). Heterosexual.