Hello! My boyfriend and I have been a "couple" for 2 years, we have been living together for the same amount of time. I say "couple" because I'm not sure if that's the case anymore. The problem is that he has 1 kidney and we haven't had sex since we were together. Neither he nor I are virgins, we are almost 30 years old. He satisfied me with a finger, and I made checks on him, but we never had sex. When I asked him why he didn't want to, where the problem was, he replied that it was early, he didn't want to hurry, etc. I already doubt a few things: Isn't he a virgin / even though he told me he was had sexual intercourse in the past /, whether he is not impotent, whether it has anything to do with the fact that in the past he got pregnant by one of his girlfriends who had to have an abortion. Sometimes when he touches it harder he says it hurts. Please tell me more informed, what could be the reason? I still think it's related to one of his kidneys, but I'm not sure. At the same time, I know he's watching porn, or at least he's watched it before. Thanks in advance everyone!
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A person needs a functioning kidney to be healthy. This is not the problem. There are also people on dialysis who are sexually active. I think he's virgin or impotent, but you may not be sexually attracted to him
I think he's a virgin, the only sensible solution I think is to sit down and talk, that's the only way to solve your problem, not to ask strangers. Success!
As number 1 said, you can live normally with one kidney. pf and you mean you haven't had sex in 4 years? Or at least not with him? Somehow it will be strange for me to be faithful to him for so long. -to be a virgin, a little doubtful this would not be a reason not to want to have sex. Why should he lie to you about the previous ones, especially since one of them was pregnant by him? to be impotent at this age is still a little doubtful, but there is no reason not to have sex .. I would ask you if his dick fits, but if you did his cock should. -The fact that someone was pregnant by him is still not a reason, because I guess he knows that there are ways to prevent this from happening again. I doubt more whether you know him well and whether he is not gay? And the other thing, which is doubtful if he is not sick with something else - syphilis, gonorrhea, if you will and spin-HIV. For me, that would be the reason I don't have sex with anyone for so long. Whatever the reason, I doubt you know this man at all. In any case, he shouldn't be hiding it from you for so many years. I would break up with him for lying to you. How many more years should pass without sex and without children? Sun.
Isn't he disguised and uses you only as a "screen" in front of people? I think it's not normal, let alone at this age .. Think seriously, it's unlikely anything will change, you better beat the jester from this relationship and find a decent partner while it's time ....
Sex without a relationship - probably. The opposite - not at all. ;): A: Oh Two years and still early? !! Girl, there are some big problems here, fuck you!
What haste ...? !! You have been together for 2 years. Definitely not normal, just talk, clearly, without detours, without shame or any guilt. You need to clarify things while it's time
From the Author: Thanks for all the comments. I forgot to mention that he lies a lot. I caught him lying to me about things that were very important to me. I don't believe he has AIDS or anything like that and that's why he doesn't want sex. We tried, but it was soft. When I made checks for him, he wasn't very hard either. The other thing is - he always ends up on me, on my ass, on my back, but I never watch him do it. I definitely don't think he's gay, he seems interested in women.
Well, you think he may not be gay, but a lot of men don't show it until they admit it. For so long, why do you put up with lying to you, whatever the problem, I think it's not worth dealing with him, as he can't tell the person he supposedly loves to beat him.
Lately, it seems that many such individuals have become full, which they are missing for nothing, like the second man, very unfortunate ...