Hello. I am a 19 year old girl. About 2-3 years ago I had anal sex with my ex-boyfriend for the first time, but apparently then he didn't know how to do it properly and it became very sharp and very painful and dry, I think he tore me apart, a few days later there was and some mucus, and also to the touch feels softer, and in appearance different, and before it was tight. I think there was some blood, too, but I'm not sure. I don't lose, I can hold back, but will things change when I get older, will I start dropping or not? I'm very worried. Thanks in advance.
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Do the Kegel exercises and you will recover.
Don't worry, darling! I think you're too fixated on that. It seems that you did not like the first attempt and now, as it were, you are sorry ... Purely physiologically, the back muscles are adapted to withstand stretching. Every day, people with a slower stomach are convinced of this. And nothing happens to them. Neither now nor in many years. Even if there was some superficial rupture, it was 2-3 years ago. Do you know how fast abrasions heal, for example? You've had plenty of time to repair any injuries. And a friendly tip. Try to focus on the pleasant experiences with your current or future friend. Make it good for you now, without scrolling through the old movie. What happened in some past period has remained there. Nothing real has happened and will not happen.
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Don't worry ... maintain your usual daily hygiene, apply some non-irritating cream and it will pass. And if you say you did it a long time ago, go to a doctor to tell you if you have any problems with this place in general. Otherwise, everything is in your head. This is done more carefully and if you find a person who knows and knows how to give you pleasure there, you will even be fine.
From the author: from time to time I let go of sudden movements, for example by laughing, and is it loud that one of my anal muscles is torn due to this?
Dear author / my dear checker /, this story is the fruit of your sick imagination;) The anus can not release mucus, dear creature. It releases only if and sometimes blood. Read some books;)
do, do, poke whatever falls behind you, then you will regret, as I have regretted for 20 years. Dear girl, the anus is designed by nature to bring things out, and it is not thicker than 3 cm, and not to put things in it. Stretching and injuring can not only destroy the muscles and then relax for life, but also destroy the nerves that send the urge to defecate to the brain. Without them, you can no longer defecate normally. And that stays for a lifetime! You can do without a leg, you can do without an eye, but you can't do without an anus! Don't play with nature, because this body is the only thing you have.
It would be best to go to the doctor and it would not be bad for anal adventures to find someone who knows how to do it. Anal experiences are great as long as your partner knows what he's doing.
Bravo number 8 !!! Someone has to tell these perverts that they are playing with nature, which has set this place behind to be for defecation, not for sex and such nonsense, but most are super ignorant and consider themselves Great Understanding. They don't even think about how dangerous and harmful it is there, but what can you explain to morons who think that when they poke their wives in the back they are big men, safe from such ...