Hello! The title suggests what the problem is. I have perhaps one of the most common sexual fetishes among men - footfetish fetish. I love the beautiful gentle feet, especially the feet, and if they are with thin socks ... I go crazy. And now the problem: At this stage of my life, I don't have a woman by my side with whom I can share my fetish. Clearly, I can pay a "lady" to play with her legs, but that's not what I'm looking for. The pleasure will be much greater if I know that the woman also likes someone to massage, kiss, etc. her legs. And so ... once you understand what it is about, suggest how I could REMOVE foot fetish from my thoughts? At this stage, this is terrible torture ... Please, no attacks. I know that for some people, this fetish is incomprehensible, for others stupid, for others disgusting, etc. Thank you :)
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I am a woman of 24 years. , I have the same fetish, but so far I do not come across such a man, and I go crazy to fulfill my fantasies. My advice is to unload with such porn, not to forget it. If you like it, there's nothing wrong with that, but focus on other things in life.
Oh, you can't. That fetish is innate in you. :)
It wasn't me, it's not disgusting, we have a lot of men, even women. Why do you want to remove it?
Your so-called fetish even looks cute to me personally. It is not something perverse. I don't know how you can "remove" it, but I don't think it would be a problem for most women to give you pleasure that way. It doesn't seem like it costs a lot of "sacrifices" on the part of the woman. You may just be unnecessarily worried about telling the girls next to you about it. Relax, you don't want something bad and scary in the end. What kind of fetishes do people have ...
I am a person who has several fetishes. There is no way to remove a fetish if you already have one. I've tried, but it doesn't work. The solution is to find a wife and confidently share the fetish with her without caring about her opinion.
I have such a fetish too and I don't think it's disgusting.
I consider your fetish to be completely normal. Years ago I thought it was disgusting, but now I like it. I'm a 22-year-old woman and I used to make my ex-boyfriend smear cream on my feet and kiss them and put his tongue on them, he did it, but it didn't excite him, he did it just so I wouldn't grumble. My current friend disgusts him, even when I wash my feet and varnish them, he doesn't want them because they are feet. I have cute little feet, but he doesn't want to do it and I'm sick of him not doing it, so there are women who love it, you just haven't met one.
Don't bother removing it, I think. I have been drawn to my legs since I was a child, when I squatted under the table and smelled my mother and aunt's feet. It was insane. Subsequently, with 3 women I fulfilled my fantasies. Now in the summer I become squinting when I see beautiful legs in sandals and heels. For me, kissing, smelling and licking beautiful feet is paradise. I haven't done it in a long time and I can't stand it. But I do not know if it is treated, except for a consultation with a sexologist. There is hardly anything else.
Your fetish is normal and I have it, but the bad thing is that women know about it and deliberately don't wear thin socks to make me sick. I would also be happy to get rid of this fetish.
To number 11: Why is your wife doing this to you? Why doesn't he satisfy your desire, but he wants you to feel sick? From the author.
Number 1 and author, I'm a woman and I have it too. I wouldn't even call it a fetish. A fetish is when one cannot be aroused in any other way. I don't see anything perverted, dirty, disgusting, etc. in this. I like to rub my husband's feet with massage cream after a bath. It's extremely relaxing and enjoyable for him at the end of the day, and it turns me on. He likes to caress my ass all the time, he just likes it. We do everything we love. Once, while we were playing, he inserted his big toe into my vagina and brought me to orgasm in this way. It was super! But I don't think it's a perversion to even "clean" it. Just have fun! We take him so naturally that once, when my mother-in-law was visiting, he had put his feet on a stool while we watched TV. His mother remarked, that he was not brought up to do this in front of two ladies. And he said to her, "Why? My wife likes my feet very much, but if it bothers you, I'll take them off."
And a fetish - it's quite normal. I'm a woman, I have small feet, I like them a lot and therefore I love to play with them. I always keep a pedicure and the skin there is soft - my husband goes crazy by putting short socks under his ankle and started to tease him. He caresses me and rubs and kisses my legs, and I, as a prelude, do a footjob. I also find it just sweet, not something perverted. And as number 6 says, it's not like it's burdening me or costing me any special effort, on the contrary. It's just nice for both of us.
From 11 to the author because she is selfish but it is for her, I believe that one day I will find a woman who likes it and I wish you to find such a woman.
Thank you very much to everyone for their opinions and understanding :) From the author
There are women who like to play with our step, we are not even small.
I had no idea this would turn me on so much! I literally get wet in a matter of seconds when mine starts kissing and licking my feet and toes ... Given that I don't like my feet, even my own, it was like hitting my face with a wet rag! In the summer, it's just a nightmare when I see women or young girls whose heels are cracked, rough, or dirty under the nails, crooked or incorrectly cut nail plate, or peeled / peeled nail polish ... And there are men like that, but for women it is a striking sight! Anyway, I deviated a little from the topic. It turned out that my husband has this fetish, and after the first half year of our relationship he shared it with me. To my surprise, I like it too. In my opinion, this type of attraction is completely normal as long as you don't hurt anyone, you don't hurt anyone, and possibly someone to share them with. There is no way to "remove" the fetish, but if you feel dependent on it, and it interferes with your daily life, or burdens you emotionally, seek a psychologist. They are not that expensive at all, and can really help you control the fetish. Success!
There is no way. And I have a fetish with which I have to live and practice, if my partner does not share it, well ... sorry, to look for happiness elsewhere ...