Hello! I want to share what weighs on me. I just want to say it here, to you, where no one knows me. I met my husband 3 years ago. I loved him. I've been childish before, but it was different. As early as 3 months after our acquaintance, we started talking about marriage and a child. We got married and have a child, as we talked about. The problem is that before we got married, his mother was the nicest person in the world, and now he's a person I hate a hell of a lot. She is so powerful. He interferes in everything. He enters our room whenever he wants without knocking. He constantly lies and manipulates his son, commands him. And he was the man I loved so much. Now I'm very sad that I'm no longer sure if I love him, sometimes I even wonder if I don't hate him because he's so uncharacteristic. I have a post here and written earlier - about how she did not let me bathe the child because I did not know how. How crazy we were that at 3 months he had no teeth, and at 8 he could not speak. I can say many more things she has done to me, but I don't have time. The main thing, as I said, is that I'm starting to hate my husband. I hate to be hugged, I hate to be kissed. I don't want to have sex. I just don't want him anymore, and I wanted to be together forever and be very happy with our little boy.
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Get her out of your life. Move to a dormitory like big people ... Don't give up easily.
Why don't you just sit down and talk to him? Tell him to take matters into his own hands and grow!
I guess in your previous topic they told you - separate to live independently - on the crater, take out a loan and buy a house, whatever - just to be in a separate house. If your husband does not want to - you have already cooled down to him - give him an ultimatum, take your child in a crib or with yours. Give him a deadline to finally decide what to do and be firm. I have not read your previous topic, but from what is written here it is clear to me that this woman - your mother-in-law is terrible, she will drive you crazy and will break your family and health. Run away from such poisonous people. PP Would you say the title of the previous topic to look for it?
KILL his mother: D: D JOKE !! tell me how he can still live with his mother and she can command you ... horror ...
I do not know what kind of finances people have in Bulgaria, but at least it is not very easy for me to imagine how a person could repay their housing loan, especially since in the crisis many employers put people in unpaid. I don't know what kind of people give this advice to the author, but it's hard for me to imagine how people say it lightly. Take out a loan. This loan is not easily repaid and lately we are witnessing seized properties and others. property.
I don't know what new advice and comments you expect. Everything important was said in the previous topic.
The previous topic was "How to deal with his domineering mother and his selfish sister."
:))) ... ... "how she wouldn't let me bathe my child because I didn't know how. How she made us crazy that at 3 months she didn't have teeth and at 8 she couldn't speak. She did it to me, but I don't have time. The main thing is, as I said, I'm starting to hate her husband too. to be together forever and be very happy with our little boy. "... it's as if I wrote it, only 23 years ago ... Don't hope to change it, the person next to you is just a mother's son. .. Wherever you go, "mom" will always be between you ... Find the strength to move forward, how - the decisions you have to make for yourself ... g 50 ...
I agree with 8 ... I don't want to say this, but I can't lie about the experience I had in my marriage. It will not change. It reminds me of my already "ex" husband, who did not have the courage to stand on the side he should. There are very few men who will "growl" at their mothers and tell them to stay away from the young family. Don't wait years for it to change, it won't happen ... You will always stay in second place with such a man. Life is one and we should live it the way we should. Not to live stubbornly or in fear. Make the right decision, don't wait years and regret the time ... F at 48