Today I turned 23. I am glad that I am healthy, I have an education, a job and friends, a good social life ... But I can no longer endure without love - I am constantly sad, without mood, even in the evening I go out reluctantly. I wanted so badly to have someone by my side today, but this is another birthday I'm alone ... despite everyone around me. They tell me not to despair that there are passengers for every train, the person will show up for me when I least expect ... Well, I haven't been waiting for anything for a long time, I'm so used to always being unattached ... And according to my friends I should even be glad that I was not hurt and that I did not lose my feelings - and I no longer know if I am capable of having them. No boy wanted to have a relationship with me, my feelings were never shared and there was no one to fight for. This has made me so insensitive over time that nothing makes me happy or touched anymore, lately I just prefer to stay home, watch a movie and cry to relieve myself. I always think where the guilt is in me, because I know that there must be one - everyone else can't be to blame for me, obviously I'm not doing something right ... And I want the most normal thing - someone to love and feelings us to be mutual. It turned out that so far I have achieved everything else, but not to be able to find a man for myself. Give me advice on what to do, what to change so that something good can finally happen to me ... that there should be one - everyone else can't be to blame for me, obviously I'm not doing something right ... And I want the most normal thing - someone to love and our feelings to be mutual. It turned out that so far I have achieved everything else, but not to be able to find a man for myself. Give me advice on what to do, what to change so that something good can finally happen to me ... that there should be one - everyone else can't be to blame for me, obviously I'm not doing something right ... And I want the most normal thing - someone to love and our feelings to be mutual. It turned out that so far I have achieved everything else, but not to be able to find a person for myself. Give me advice on what to do, what to change so that something good can finally happen to me ...
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you know ... the new generation doesn't seem to care much about intimacy, falling in love, love ... living at a fast pace, don't despair girl, once you have a good heart you will find tenderness and love ... just be yourself you are ...
Yes, it's naughty when you're alone, but on the other hand, there's no one to harass you and make him jealous all the time and think about him non-stop. This is the bad side of love, the beautiful one, you know who it is ... Unfortunately, I am of the opinion that very few people are left who appreciate love and when they fall in love with someone, they love it with their whole being. Most I guess you know what they are ... so I prefer to be alone, I'm better.
Thank you :) Actually, I don't know anything about love, because I haven't experienced it ... no one has ever shown me that they have feelings for me. I'm always waiting for a person to show up with me to experience what I'm obviously missing ... And although I don't set it as a fixed idea and just have fun and live my life, loneliness weighs more and more on me over time. And what is this life in which I no longer even find meaning ... But you must be right, if I had seen the bad side of relationships and love, I would probably be praying now to be in my current situation.
:( So am I. And I see where my problem is-I'm very shy. But I can't change that. The others don't understand me. I'm 20 and I don't believe that I will ever have a girl who loves me Even if it's true to me. I don't even study anymore ... I think I'll repeat this stupid first course again :( Precisely because I can't fit in anywhere. Because of the stupid shame :( I'm depressed and I don't know when they will recover I don't know what I'm alive for ... If I'm going to be alone all my life, what am I going to be alive for ?? Without love ?? I hope people like us can meet and meet in life and make friends and so things will work out :) But still someone decent will be in the company of oligophrenics and there is no way to understand and that's where the problem comes from ... A boy of 20 years.
5, I'm not shy at all, I've finished my bachelor's degree and I'm working, and in the fall I'll be enrolling for a master's degree;) What causes this shame - there must be a reason? I personally do not see what I can do for myself, because I look good, I play sports, I am constantly among people and I do not miss dating and going out. Despite all this, I do not find a person for a serious relationship, it weighs on me and I can not rejoice in my other successes ... Obviously, all good things take time and patience to happen, or to understand what I need to change in myself si :) And you do not lose motivation to study, because this is your chance to find yourself in a new environment through internships, work and relationships with colleagues from the university. Forget shame as a disadvantage and start working on your strengths - this way you will become more confident and people will notice it too; ) In my opinion, finding love, your partner is something different from social life and the environment in which you are. Success!
Author, in today's world, and before, I think it was not much clearer, true and pure love between two people is very rare. Personally, I do not know a couple with such a relationship. In most cases, either the two use each other, or one uses the other, ie their love is for people. It doesn't matter if it's for money, image, because there is nothing more suitable on the horizon or something else. It's just that selfishness is at the forefront and everyone looks out for their interest, without caring especially about the person on the other side. Of course, I believe that love has not completely disappeared and I am still looking for it myself, even though I am already 30. In the beginning it weighed on me as much as it did on you, but after several failed relationships I suffered. Now I prefer to be alone than with a muffin next to me. Calm down and live your life, things will get better. You say that you look good and are intelligent. In that case, there's no way a man can't turn around you. Another question is whether you will like it.
Why don't you try to talk to someone? After all, we don't live in the Middle Ages, you don't have to have a man grab you by the hair and snatch you away.
As I read things, you really have to wait to get on the right 'train', because if you make a mistake it will get even worse in my opinion. But there is also an opportunity to miss the 'train' :)
Dear girl, don't worry. In time, you will have other problems with work (maybe), the gray everyday life and so on. I am as hopeless as you. Now these student years the relationships are ignorant up and down. But maybe in time there will be people who will appreciate you for who you are. It and things change after college. n. Just don't become a careerist. M 27
:) I'm almost 30 and I'm so hurt that I don't love anymore :) So I refuse to look, want and wait, give and receive love :) Officially :)