I returned from the sea 2 days ago. I have felt terribly sad since then. I am almost 21 years old, I have had two relationships in my life. The first lasted about 5-6 months, but never came to intimacy. My heart was broken by the boy. After a while I had something like a second relationship, but it was more like 2 meetings and very vain hopes on my part. For intimacy. nothing again. In short - I am a hopeless case. At the sea - people, couples, with children, boyfriends ... happy people who hug and kiss. And I - I'm nothing ... Forever alone, as they say ... All my colleagues and acquaintances are constantly uploading photos with their boyfriends or friends, which I no longer have. I'm terribly lonely ... I don't have anyone to go out with, even in the shops or at coffee ... I don't have anyone anymore, I don't have anyone left. I don't even dare to dream about a kiss and a gentle touch. I am like a bird in a cage with its wings cut off and no chance of flying or escaping from its prison. I don't know what to do, I feel terribly lost ......
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I felt very lonely at 21. Don't worry, everything with its time. You will also meet a man. But do not be in a hurry to throw yourself into the arms of the first person you meet, as I did.
Honey, please don't do that, you just haven't come across the boy for whom you will be his sun, air and water. Don't despair, just don't do it, be strong and aspiring, show that you are strong and brave. Live be happy you are young, life is in front of you, opportunities as much as you want! And I'm in such a period boy I'm 19 but what to do. Head up and go ahead! :)
I am also 19 and I am in the same position as you