Hello, I am 17 years old, I live in a village. Two months ago I met a very cool boy from the village, he was constantly taking me down, we were having parties, he was coming and it so happened that one night we slept. THE PROBLEM is that he doesn't want to admit about us to his friends - a "village defender", no matter how small the village would be. When he meets me, he passes me !!! Sam told me he only wanted sex, but didn't specify until after sex. In other words - "use me". Now he's looking for me and he wants us to do it again, I'm in love with him, but I don't want to be a sex toy. I told him, he pretends to be a little crazy, keeps passing me and after a while he pushes for sex again. At the same time, another boy from the village took me down a lot. He is serious about me, he wants a relationship, but our people would not approve of him. What to do except the option that I have to look for a third person. thanks!
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That's how it starts! And then the third and the fifth ... and the village is small, you know ...
And what is this "secret sex" !? Don't you think that we in the city have sex and then go and tell everyone !?
Look Now, if you listen to me it will be good because you will not make a mistake !!! I am studying the 3rd year of psychology and I already know the psyche and thinking of People quite well. and so on .. Given that the boy in question wants you and is looking for you only to sleep with you and hides from others that something has happened between you, it means only one thing: DOWN IT !!! Do not hesitate even for a moment! you say you have feelings for him okay but i will tell you only one thing: you can't love someone who uses you and only uses you! You yourself said that you are not a toy and you have dignity, you should maintain this dignity;) the third option you mentioned at the end of your article is the most appropriate and good at least in my opinion because you need a serious boy who really cares about you and to share your feelings! in the sense of not using you but to surround you with Love and to feel happy with him;) just the fact that he hides from everyone about you does not lead you to think that there is something rotten in this work because if someone has serious intentions to a person he does not hide this connection and even publicly shares that he has a friend who loves, etc. So be a heavier girl and in no case do not allow yourself to be used like that;) It is not fair to yourself and you will be famous for being a light girl and then even if you find a serious boy no one will want you because the rumors about you will be very bad and believe me for a girl your age is not at all flowery to say that it is .. you remember what ?!
Everywhere people go crazy, but the village is smaller, everything is understood very quickly. Think now about the lessons and less about sex and the boys
After the secret sex comes the secret abortion - and so several times! It comes to your mind, but it's too late to correct the mistakes! The boy is hiding about sex with you because he is ashamed of this relationship. The lover declares his love to the whole world! you like to be supported on the walls at night - your problem!
So in the villages the boys are simple, come to the city :) we may be simple here but at least we are many and you still have a better chance to come across someone decent like me.