Serious Gay Relationship - Is It Possible?

It's one thing to be gay, it's another to be a pedal. If you're gay, of course it's possible. In a previous job I had a colleague - gay, scary dude. He and his friend were together for something like 7-8 years old. If you're looking for pedals who talk to each other on "bitch" and their only values in life are to swallow piss ... then ... you'll never find what you're looking for there.

I was also impressed that it's harder for gays to have a serious relationship. I have no idea what it is due to and I will be happy if someone answers me.

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I'm a gay woman and I'm looking for the same thing as you - more than just another dunk. Alas, I do not find it. I also don't know why they claim to be looking for a serious relationship when they don't care at all and don't put a gram of effort into it. I had an affair with three women - the first dumped me and went to prostitution, now the whole city knows her, the second chose to get married (in which there is nothing wrong) but not for love, but only because he had money. She gave birth to a child, now I look at her, she is at least 10 years old, why? And the third, the third deceived me for two years, we parted, we got together, and finally she found another. And he was making plans. After her second passed to the third, fifth and so on to this day. Now I stand alone and wonder what people are looking for? Material gain, only sex, but if you can without luggage? Why then do they claim and deceive the other half to the contrary?

And I have an acquaintance who has been in a relationship with his friend for 8 years, but they also have many common interests and they are both singers, such details also greatly strengthen the relationship. There is always a way to build a relationship, but you obviously always like the light or you are too good and indulgent, which, as unfortunate as it sounds, is repulsive.

You do it with some men who want to try it once because they've watched that kind of porn and they're excited about it. They may even have a wife and children or a girlfriend and not want a relationship with a man.

Up to number 1, gays are not only interested in grabbing rifles, but also in grabbing theirs (; And next to the author, of course, a brother was possible. It's not about sexual orientation, it's about your value system. I had the same problem and I thought that way. A man, gay or not, if he could use both his heads at the same time, would be a perfect partner. We are few in number, because humanity has yet to develop (: Good luck and look deep (with your head up

Author, I've been looking for the same thing for maybe a year more actively and I really can't find more valuable people. The fact is that we live in a homophobic country and it is harder to find each other live, so I registered on a dating site, where I hoped to find just such people. There, however, things are at the other extreme. Without any meaningful dialogue, no matter how little we get to know each other, the question is "do you have terrain" or "do you care". It is clear that it is impossible to have a serious relationship with such people. There are also many family members or already engaged who are looking for "fun". I'm very glad that you posted such a topic, because it becomes clear to me that they are still here and there and more normal. Number 2, it is not difficult to remember that it is much harder with us, because of the public hostility and for that we are forced to be hidden, most of us. And even if there are more serious connections, hardly anyone will inform you for the same reasons.

Wow, I just asked a question, what did you do so much that you punched me 4 units? I wondered who I was touching. I did not expect such a reaction even on this site.

That's the difference, probably 90% of those who write gay are not really like that, but just to provoke others around them. I've seen a real gay couple, they've been together for 5-6 years, I met them. Em, if they don't tell you, you can't understand, they don't bend the stands, it's like 15 years of muffins, but years ago a "gay couple" always came to my old job "One was normal, but I think the other was pretending to be gay just to annoy others. He wanted yellow paint, but in the sunflower range. You want his laminate to be a wild walnut, because he had more beautiful patterns, he made his colleagues load him 25 kg of cement, his colleague said he was a woman and the rules of the store are his own friend, he raised a scandal to the sky, flew 200, I would write a complaint, I don't know if he wrote, but the next day they came peacefully and shopped gently. And some bends, some stands, a duck face. Try a club or a website?

It is possible, but it is difficult. This is also a problem for heterosexuals. As I look, a significant proportion of people are looking for fun and superficial connections. Gather with people with your orientation and something can come out. I hope you find the man for you.

Be careful what you wish for. I have been with my pumpkin for 3 years. It all started very dynamically, as if we lived 30, not 3 years together. Now I can hardly stand it and I remember more and more often the years when I was alone. I guess he's tired of me already, he's quite gamen ...

People are looking for a boyfriend for the idea or to fight with someone's life, but they have to look for the person.

People and I have a friend who is gay, he is also nice. It makes me feel in seventh heaven. We write to each other on Skype and send each other a heart. abe it gay adventure at least there is someone to share it (I'm 26) if it matters

It's possible. I've had a relationship for 6 years now and we really love each other. For a successful relationship, look for a person who is ready to turn his back on his ego and be ready for the same, that's the truth! You leave with every scandal and with every problem you will jump from relationship to relationship. You should both be aware that when things get complicated, you are asked to fix them, not to run and not expect the other to fix everything. As a valuable piece of advice after such a long relationship, I would say the following: Never wait for a day when you don't talk in a scandal! Always try to look for yourself and clarify things on the same day. If you give yourself enough time to think and get into movies, then fixing things is very difficult. There are monogamous gays looking for a relationship, I'm like that, my boyfriend is like that, we're hardly the only ones. Just search and be open to such people! And remember that there will always be someone more beautiful and someone more promising in every way than the person you are with but don't be fooled! Infidelities and betrayals are not forgiven, and with each new one, you will reach a phase of scandals, problems, and doubts. These things are overcome, not overlooked, in the hope that the next one will not have them. It is!

How can it not be possible - what kind of question at all ??? Just remember Sir Elton John and David Furnish, Jean Mare and Jean Cocteau, and many others. There are also very stable couples among women, perhaps the most famous of which is Ellen de Generis and Porsche de Rossi.