Hello. I am married and have a child by my husband! I love it, it's all for me, but it doesn't satisfy me in terms of size ... I don't know how to talk to it and I don't want to hurt it ... we try poses in which to clean it, but the pleasure is minimal ... please you if anyone has been in such a situation to share their advice. thanks
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Well, you can find a lover younger and more gifted. If you are from Plovdiv, I am 17 and I am 19 cm. We can try if you want.
How old is he? If it's 10 cm I understand, but from 14 upwards you can't complain
It sounds to me like you're preparing the ground for your conscience to start looking around. There are vibrators, there are thickeners, extensions, dildos, all kinds of sex toys that are a solution. You don't even have to tell him he's small. Think of a way to present it delicately. For example, you want to experiment with new things, not that he is small.
Don't tell him directly that your size is small, he can't change it and it will only get more complex. Try all poses, satisfy you orally, toys, anal. Try double penetration, vibrator in one hole, he in the other. When the two holes are filled, they narrow each other, and even so you will have a good excuse to put something big in front. You can try Kegel exercises, to compensate for its small size with greater tightness in you. Of course, whatever you do, you will probably feel this deficit, there is no way. There will probably be people here to attack you, but every woman knows what the difference is when the whole thing is done, and the sight of a big member is something else. But you married this man, you have a child, you love him. And that's why it's worth trying the things I've listed and whatever else you can think of.
Hahahaha. I'm sorry, but isn't it a little late? After all, you are his wife and you have a child by him ... And what exactly will you tell him? "Honey, you're very small and you don't satisfy me" and he will answer you "What my wife didn't say, I'll make it bigger" .... hahahaha! I read ... You can make him experiment in sex and take a huge silicone plug with a belt, so that he can put it on and fuck you with it, and with his small plug he can penetrate you and the veil anal .. There are also silicone extensions that are placed on his small ch * n and it is made with a 20 cm beast, it will work well for you. The other is a healthy FISTING, but to crush you again and the "veil" .. Let's write later .... Let me just say (after all, I'm a man) that there are no small dicks, only deep pussies. Good day.
I do not see where the problem is, if you really love him, you would not write here dear. At the moment I am with a man who is about 8-10 cm and this is not a problem for me, I am always very nice. I only melt at the thought of him. Sex is not just penetration, there are other ways to satisfy each other. The man is not only a genital organ, the man is also hands and lips and tongue.
Well, it's late. What took it if you don't like it ?! By marrying in front of people, you will bear the consequences!
Number 1, intrigued me :)
What about your wife ????? Well, at first, when you were boyfriends, where were you, didn't you see that he was short, but you took him, you have a child, and now you're complaining.
"we try poses in which to clean it, but the pleasure is minimal" Well, if you can't clean it, get it dirty - let's make you happy;)
Horror debauchery, it can be crazy, but to hit the bottom
For Christmas, order a vibrator. It will try it on you ... For example, I finish my culture and it has nothing to do with the size
Thanks to those who responded and commented normally, and to most moralists, as there is nothing meaningful to say, you better not speak! If you know after a woman gives birth the shape changes down there! And those who complexed very clearly that they will say that there was no small penis but a big vagina: D complete nonsense! I have tried some toys but honestly I do not like them and the pleasure is zero! We tried anal sex ... I like it but I feel like I'm missing something! And for the haters who wrote that I use this as an excuse to stare, you did not know! If I wanted to by now I would have cheated on him! I don't stare and I've never flirted even if I had the chance! I just wanted to hear normal advice, not reproach! You are very sinless, but only you know! And the lady with the 8 Centimeters, I don't know what pleasure you feel, but it won't be what most women experience;) thanks number 4 for the great comment. Nice and pleasant evening to all
It was up to the author Bravo, from 1 session he listened to everyone and determined which haters, which moralists and which for a liar because the 8-cm penis of the man is enough !!!! You are not honest with yourself, let alone honest with us, supposedly "I love him, he is everything to me" and yet you are looking for a way or advice to find someone with a huge and huge penis (WHICH I GUARANTEE YOU AND FILL YOU TO THE THROAT AND THERE IS NO WARRANTY THAT YOU WILL RECEIVE A SUPER ORGASM OR A UNIQUE PLEASURE). You are making my mistake, and when I gave birth to my second child exactly 4 years ago I started to feel very wide from below and even my husband mentioned that he doesn't feel anything anymore, I tried different toys and other things but the problem was not in them but in myself because I kept thinking that, in the end he left us and went to live with his parents and only came to see the children because he was crazy about them. Despite everything, and seeing that my family was going to hell, I kept looking for someone with a huge and huge penis, I was never a whore or slept with different people, but I always knew from my friends who had how much and what, and so I knew two of them. and they were very surprised because they know that I am very honest and I love my husband very much, but they did not refuse me because I am really very sexy and beautiful, no matter that I had two children. I will not go into details about how the sex with them went, the rumors about their huge size turned out to be true, but I did not imagine it as it happened, and with both it was a complete disappointment really, after about a month of sex with them only then woke up and I realized what a huge mistake you were making, but alas, it was late and my husband didn't want to hear about me, the children are still with me and I pray that through them I can make him come back to us, because I know very well that they are his weakness and he can't live without them . I can't tell you if he'll come back, and if he does, it's unlikely things will work out the way they did before, my temptation is over and my family is broken, please don't do it either.
Remembering how some women gain 90-100 kg. after birth ... then they complain - he doesn't want me anymore, he's small. However, women, you really don't assume that he has deep and wide vaginas, so there can be a man with a small penis, but with a big vagina he can't? Someone tells you something about it and you immediately label him complex. I don't know why you married him ... no matter how much the shape changes, you hardly felt it perfectly before you gave birth when you said he was small. Also just to add that I have noticed that women who talk the most about large penises and sizes, when it comes to sex begins - not the whole, it hurts, slower, slower. Apparently they only have sex tigers in their heads, but when they see it, they lose their grammar. These women who are silent are literally tearing you apart from sex, not you them, but those who are always wrong and to be with the most perfect man, go to bed and wait for the wonderful sex to happen. Then, of course, they find flaws.
Also, whatever they try, it's too late when it comes to this topic. I can't like him again once he "fell in the eye". Once the desire for someone disappears, there are no fixes, you will find 100 flaws. And looking at the author's writings, as someone said above, prepares the ground for conscience. She has already decided.
Hello author, I'm the n5th sense of humor don't you have? Not only do I help you with tips for better sex, but you will attack ... If I wanted to be 5 cm, I still would not be complex, for the simple reason that I am quite perverted in bed. Aman .. You are doing well and they are shooting at you .. Good day.
For a start, take a vibrator and ask for it while you are elsewhere. It will be good for both of them. Sooner or later you will reach someone more gifted, so accept this thought :)
I don't know how many cm your husband is, but mine isn't big either, about 15 cm, but my girlfriend ends up with this size vaginally. Either you're mega wide down or he's 10 cents. If you have a child and kill the thought of infidelity, after all, a man does not make a man his job. Buy a toy, it will help you. As a man, I am personally far from the thought of my wife, if she has small breasts or a wide bottom to go for women, there are many important things, such as personal qualities in a man. Good luck in choosing a vibrator!
to 19 not that something, but 15 is not small. Small is about 10-12. 15 is normal.
The information you give is too scarce. What was the situation before the birth? If he didn't satisfy you in the first place, it's your own fault. If it used to be good and it isn't now, the situation is different. There are women who at birth can get tears, injuries and their feelings down there "change". The solution is often Kegel. Google it. Nothing will guarantee that it will be different with another man. After the birth of my third child, my wife had a period of about a year and something during which she felt nothing. Neither with cock, nor with toys, only clitoral orgasms. If your husband is broad enough, suggest that you try a third person, a boy, a girl. You say you don't want to cheat on him, and does oral love satisfy you? If so, point it that way. You may also have a hormonal change, do some research, they are never superfluous. Grandpa Torbalan
Curse me, judge me, do whatever you want. That's why marriage is an absolute fabrication, marriage and relationships are an illusion. He was small. Where are you looking so far? Or tie the man up with a child to make sure you're safe too, and now it's time to live a little, you already have a home. She loved him .. but enough nonsense Man of 25
22 is right, they make children, then they start raging their hormones. Why not marry someone with 20 cm, since size is important to you? They make children, ruin their future because their father was small. Underage pickles, a hoe and digging tobacco all day in the heat will only be in your head then. M36
Leave him when he is little. If he is as you describe him, he will find someone more conscientious than you;) You find someone with a big one and break up from sex. Then you will understand what it means for a man to give you only one goal "hoy";) Good luck!
22, marriage and relationships are not an illusion, and some people are very deluded and unconscious and turn marriage into a fair. But it is not their marriage as an institution that is to blame, but their own.
I support the last comments right on the spot ... well done. (22 to 25)
I'm the woman with the "8 cm" as the author described me, since I'm happy I'm obviously not like most women. Not every man can have the tool at least 20 cm. I am one of those "women" where in order to want a man, I must first make sure that the size of another organ is relatively acceptable, namely the "brain". If you have a problem with size and can't accept the person you love with a small instrument, you should first sleep with men and then decide if you want a serious relationship. For me, the opposite is true, first I am interested in the upper head, then the lower. And on the issue of birth, you confused the person you have to explain to, I gave birth to three children normally in the beginning after the birth, I may have been wider below, but over time things normalize. I don't have any problem with the feeling, I feel it quite well. From the birth of children you complain that you have expanded and split, and you do not complain about the big, huge members. To know, in my opinion, "the master is important, not the tool", what is the use of 20 cm for the man and in fact he does not know what to do with it. My husband arouses me and wets me long before he is inside me and I declare again that I am as happy with his size as other women want to attack me and make fun of me.