I am 36 years old and the man I live with is 42. I need more sex, but I don't get it. I think I'm free enough in sex. We did everything we wanted without hesitation. I refused only three. He claims that I give him everything he needs, but lately, while we are doing it, he has not taken his eyes off porn. There are moments when I don't seem to be there, he doesn't even touch me. It makes me feel terrible. We have sex maybe once a week. I talked to him that I wanted more, but he replied, he couldn't very often. Otherwise, he gets aroused often and quickly, but without a sequel. I'm very confused now and I can't figure out what the reason is. If it matters for 2 years we are together. I love him very much, but I am beginning to doubt his feelings. We understand each other well - there are no scandals and quarrels. We treat each other with respect. The two have a second marriage and we have one child each.
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Bad situation, you have already made a mistake once, a second one is emerging ... You had to take a younger man, what else can I tell you. Things will get worse. Once a week, then once a month, then Christmas will be more frequent.
In second marriages, the thrill is often quite sluggish or disappears. Everyone is drawn to his problems, his child and becomes one ... it is difficult in these marriages. Hope to adjust, otherwise everything will fall apart. It's a pity, but in most cases it is.
You want sex - find a lover if your husband doesn't give you what you need. You want love - keep it and love it. If you want both in one ... find another :)
I think the problem is in porn - I understand that you watch during sex. Sexuality with porn is distorted.
In fact, it was his wish to play porn. It's not a problem for me to ignore it while having sex. I don't mind porn, but I don't like what he does. I even thought of doing the same to make him feel it. I will lie on my back and watch TV and let him see what he will do.
No porn during sex! It's like you're the hole and his imagination is there. I would end the act immediately or I would turn to porn with healthy, big niggers and I would scream for fun staring at the screen, would it be ok for him ?! Apparently you took a porn maniac and he managed to function more or less with a living woman next to him for a while ...
I think I may not be attracted to him anymore, but he doesn't want to admit it.