I really want to share what happened, but in advance I will ask you not to judge me, but just to give your opinion! I went to sea with my grandparents and friends. And as you can guess, I didn't spend time with my grandparents. 10 days of parties, fun on the beach ... at 11 on Friday night we went to a disco, at the entrance I saw Velislav, who was a security guard and we met and asked him if there would be a problem to enter since I was 15 and he said that for beautiful girls like me it's even free. Talk to two others who guarded the entrance and let me go before my friends. He came in, walked around, looked at me, smiled at me. Encouraged by my friends, I went to him and we started talking. He told me it would be over in 10 minutes and we could go to the beach if I wanted to. And who could refuse him was terribly beautiful. We went, we went into the water, he was carrying me (I was undressing in my underwear) we started kissing, he was touching me ... we came out of the water and as in the movies it just happened. There is a summer cinema in Kiten, and he suggested we go. I didn't expect it, I thought he would leave. We went, watched a movie, he hugged - it was very nice. He sent me to the hotel, asked for my number, and told me that he would come to see me the next morning before we left. And so he did. He came at 8 o'clock, with flowers and a T-shirt with the inscription summer 2014. He told me that he wanted to remember these two days. For the little time I spent with him, I really liked him. we exchanged Facebook, Skype ... we keep in touch. He's from Montana and we're even considering seeing each other. our difference is big .. he is 24, almost 25. do you think i made a mistake? I always thought that my first time will be at 17-18 and with someone I love and have a relationship with. And not with a man I've known for 1 hour. Should I keep in touch with him, or is it hopeless?
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God, I can't believe you did it with the security of some disco and with a 25-year-old man: ooooooo Girl, I'm 15 years old too. but I just feel like I'm not ready and I would only do it when I like a real boy. But if you yourself were ready, it was not a mistake. And can you imagine having a relationship with a 25-year-old man. - he works and will soon want you to have children or you were just one of his summer pastimes.
Wow, since you've been having sex with people you've known for an hour since you were 15, I don't think what will happen next ...
Emmy ... there will be something to tell! If you haven't made it up, respectively.
Oh no! It doesn't matter how old he is! He is kind, handsome, romantic ... But if you ask me, you may be a little in a hurry to lose your virginity, but with such a man it is obviously not such a big problem. But in 3 years you will be an adult and you have a chance! I hope your people don't understand that you did it so soon. Good luck
If you've been feeling well, you have nothing to think about. The most important thing is whether you used a condom, because he is a big man and he probably spends another 20-30 like you a season.
I definitely don't approve of the fact that at 15 you slept with someone at 25, who, on top of everything, you've known for several hours, but better with an experienced and careful young man than with a mold your age, even after a year or two.
False ....
Goddess, I'm 17 and I think that's kind of manic on his part. Plus, he is 25 and knows that you are 10 years younger, and a minor only makes his situation worse, such are not a commodity. It's straight ... not to mention. I have a lot of girlfriends who have suffered (or still suffer) from such. Don't be in a hurry to think about sex if you like him very much, see you, but if he asks for something more, don't agree! Thinking correctly at 17-18 is better. For girls, virginity is very important, so think about it carefully. A friend has a friend from Plovdiv, your case is completely identical. They are almost invisible, this is her teenage job, another one has lost her virginity at the age of 14 with a 28-year-old ... every day she roars at a teacher because they had a fight. This is not healthy.
Well, why be sorry - you had a good time and that's it. You have neither cheated nor been hurt. If you want something more serious with it, you will hardly get it, but at least you will have the memory of the emotion.
God, the girl asked for advice, and some of you started criticizing her ... What if she was 15? Once she felt ready and determined, no matter how old she was! And why did you decide he couldn't get anything more serious with him? Come on, when he's 25 and he can't get up anymore, he'll just want to sleep with you and dump you ... Nonsense! Not all men are the same. I'm 15 too and my boyfriend is 9 years older than me and just like you (the author) I recently had my first time with him. One piece of advice, don't listen to people and their opinions, you are not small, you have a mind in your head and you know what is best for you. :))))