We found ourselves on a website, saw each other, talked for 6-7 minutes and did it in the car. I wanted a lot, but I didn't feel anything. The next day I had no emotion, I could barely remember the case. I feel guilty for not loving. That I can't find the person to hold me. I have a great desire to share and a lively temperament, and I am used to being alone at home. Besides, people have become uninterested, they are not interested in anything but a desire, no matter with whom. Married people imitate marital relationships while their minds and hearts are elsewhere. How are you? Do you feel anything like that? Is there a solution to the problem?
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I'm not married, but I'm engaged. I love and am only my partner! I agree with you that people are more "consumerist", but I know very good women and men who are not influenced by the fashion of "life".
Abe also has good practices, my marriage is like that.
Wow, if this topic had been started by a woman, there would have been a storm of comments. Well, you need to find someone with whom you have similar tastes and interests so that you can connect on a spiritual level and be friends. Many people ignore these things, because for them the priority is simply not to be alone, so then in time, as you say, they imitate (marital) relationships ... and at the same time many of them spit on those who do not give up looking what I advise you. It is not easy to find, unless you are one of the lucky people, but without it you still find yourself alone at some point, but in chains. I'm a woman, if that matters.
Find me a girlfriend, is it that complicated? And how do you know what marriage is like when you've never been married?
Boring people are always bored, those emptied of spiritual content have an empty and empty life. Don't blame others, look at yourself. How can you keep a valuable and intelligent woman? With an ad and sex in the car? Whatever knocked, it called, you know. I am married with children and I am happy with my life, I have found a person with whom I am interesting and exciting, I do not need to imitate anything.
Well, that's why sex has become uninteresting, because it's done on a conveyor belt like with whom, without emotion, without thrill ... Have you ever had sex with love? I wish you if you are not! There is no more incredible experience than this ... The bad thing is that this empty love never stays long, it always slips between your fingers even if you squeeze it hard ... I had it and it's gone, and now it's so empty, meaningless and gray and I ask myself the question - does the other make sense? Is a life without love a life at all? Maybe I already understand the people who run away from her like the devil from incense and are satisfied with the easy and safe, because there is no greater pain than meeting your partner and losing her, because it scared you / or both of you / to leave lightly what you have and start over ... the two of you together.
№8 - From the fact that someone you didn't know didn't believe me, I don't feel bad if you feel better when you wrote this comment - ok. And what if I logged into this site? Is it some kind of reserved territory for the unfortunate? Should only negative things be written? If it said I was unmarried, childless, or that my husband was an offspring, would you believe it? The section is not only about infidelity, but also about love and that is exactly what I am writing about, I have found my love and I feel good. Do you believe it's your problem, it has nothing to do with me.
9 - you know how you feel, and no one has asked you. With so much need to explain to yourself, why not start a separate topic?
The comments here do not help me at all. I am writing to provoke answers in order to understand the question and I am not interested in who evaluates themselves how, but in expressing their qualities. For every single issue that people can touch on, there are many others who have the same to resolve, recognized or not. The typical Bulgarian, typical for cattle behavior: "And do you know who I am", we can replace it with opinions on the topic ... "You are you, I am me. Everyone knows themselves. Having a love at home and expressing arrogance and aggression means that this love has not awakened anything in you.
9, but they don't believe you maybe because you explain yourself as 5 years old? Take it to learn a little from number 2, for example.
Author, you can't roll in cars and look for love. It comes with time and meetings, meeting new people. Meet a serious person, then think about marriage. You're just not serious. According to the ad, he slept with a woman in a car and was looking for love. You are of one mind.
Number 3, the topic may not have been released by a woman, but the other participant in the incident is a woman - hahahaha. So if you really think about it, it doesn't matter who released it. Two people were involved in the same thing.