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Sex Or Everything Else In A Relationship?

By flower__gun August 01, 2020 14 answers Last updated August 01, 2020

If you can without answers like both, because things are not so simple, and not every man is Alain Delon to have a huge choice. I am strictly interested in what you would choose between the two of you and I will tell you about my situation. For me, sex is leading, yes. I'm not capricious, I'm just sexual, I don't just look at a woman's ass and breasts, I'm not primary, but for me if there is an emotional connection, there must be a sexual one. When I'm without a girlfriend I don't want so much sex, I can endure, and I don't have sex just like that, but if I'm in love - I need it. My last two girlfriends were the following. One was very beautiful, at least for me - face, body, curves. As a great character. Very hardworking and persistent in a good way, optimistic. But there was zero sexuality. It's a shame for me that the man has to ask for himself, I like women who will just lie to me. I got there to beg for sex. Oral love hates, it rules me only on special occasions. Let alone for more perverted things. She wouldn't let me lick her either. He made shapes for me. It was never on top of me, so to speak, we always did the missionary work. No play, no seduction. Like a beautiful doll just. Oh yes and sex with a condom every time.

He didn't want pills, they were dangerous, etc. Before I finished, I always took him out and ran to the toilet, how would I cum on her or on myself and then touch her. And no, I didn't learn from stupid porn, I don't even like fake women there, I just wanted a little warm up. Yes, we broke up because of sex. I can't force her to do something if she doesn't come from inside. And she called me perverted, and I have no such desires except oral love, which is quite normal. I read here what perversions there are, I did not ask for a gram of it. The other one I can't say didn't appeal to me, it had mesmerizing green eyes, but it wasn't unique. Not that I am. However, she was sexual, but also dominant, where are they? Everyone lies and grumbles, allows you to do something and then roars. She was as tall as me, a little bigger and rounder.

She was a little masculine. From the first sex she wanted to tie me up, she said it would be her way, I agreed. I finished 3 times in one night. Twice from French, making my own deep throat and swallowing everything. Then I didn't have the strength to speak, and she rode me one more time (I was tied up after all). I felt like a rag and it was the best feeling of my life. I only fell in love with sex, if you will believe me. Afterward, what we didn't do - role-playing games, outside, tying. As a man, however, it was a horror. Explosive, grumbled, a little lazy. For example, she doesn't want to do a job, I don't mind and I do it, but she looks at me and criticizes me again. Abe narcissus. It was my idea to kill her once, but once she took off my pants in the kitchen with an apology and gave me a whistle, which she adored, how could I not give up? It's just that this woman is a storm, sexual. She doesn't do it for the man, she doesn't do it by force, she wants it and she wants it for herself. And what I liked most was that I relaxed more often and just had fun while she was in control. It gave her pleasure.

Despite the negative qualities, where else will I find such a woman? We broke up because of a scandal on her part, but a month later I came back. It's like a drug to me. In the end, sex saves everything. Sorry for the details and cynicism, but please upload an opinion? Neither appearance,

Answers 14

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bblooker7 answered · August 01, 2020

   Dude, I'm sorry, but I'm sick of your topic. Oral sex is not normal and never has been! A self-respecting woman would never threaten her face in such a disgusting, disgusting and humiliating way. Whistles are the ugliest thing I've ever seen in my life, and the mouth is made for eating, so what kind of normalcy in oral sex are you talking about ??? The only normal sex is vaginal sex. However, if you are not attracted to vaginas, but mouths and anuses, find a boyfriend. Blowjobs and anal are a tradition for the opposite. A decent woman would never pretend to be a whore or gay to please you. You say you didn't learn porn, but that's exactly what you raise doubts about. You have a sick, distorted view of sex and female sexuality. Don't take offense, but from people like you, I run with 300. I like sex, but not pedophile or whore. I swear, I would prefer an absolutely impotent man to one with desires like yours. You perverted men are a factory for male haters and asexuals ... Sorry if I offended you, but that's the way it is.

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xo_princesspeach answered · August 01, 2020

   And to the question in the title, the answer is: everything else in a relationship, but not sex. He is absolutely nothing.

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yelena777 answered · August 01, 2020

   Find a third one who is both dead, beautiful and ambitious, and the bed is not a tree. How to find it? Well ... with experiments.

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meryfoxxx answered · August 01, 2020

   You live with the character, not with the bed.

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hotporn6969 answered · August 01, 2020

   First of all, I don't like anal sex, I'm disgusted, although the latter asked for it once, because she hadn't done it before and it was on top and she put it on herself for a short time, it wasn't anything special, and she didn't like it anymore. we did. I do everything, I just want to be away from this hole and she away from mine. Everything else in my bed is acceptable. But oral sex is the most normal thing, isn't kissing the same exchange of bacilli and microbes? What are you doing to me nuns here? And when I said the second one was ugly (I'm still with her). It's good, I'm just saying that the one in appearance and qualities mostly surpassed her, but sex always saves me. He fucks me very hard and every problem is forgotten. And my thought is how I will let go of this woman, I will never find more passionate. Author

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universal_lust1 answered · August 01, 2020

   Number 1, I am a woman and I do not see anything humiliating, abnormal and perverted in oral love from woman to man or from man to woman. I like to make oral love to a man. And not because I want to present myself as the incredible mistress and keep someone, but simply because my excitement is at its maximum when I see that my partner is happy. For example, I am not a fan of anal sex. I'm not comfortable. However, I do not condemn men or women who like it. I'm just explaining to the person I'm with that I don't agree with it and I would understand if I looked elsewhere. You really don't know what weird fetishes people have. The oral will seem like a toy. In my opinion, sex is 90% important to the author's question. Especially when you are young. I really don't know if there is such a woman as Number 3 described. No one is perfect. First of all, let me emphasize that I do not advertise or offer. Neither the author nor the other men in the subject. I just share my opinion. I have a nice appearance, but I would not say that I am a top beauty. I make my own money. I am intelligent. I have my own home and car. As I explained above in my comment, I am reserved for anal sex, but I do not mind and I even like oral sex with more and more cum in my mouth and swallowing. I like to be slapped, my hair pulled, my dirt talked. I am open to threesomes with another woman for example. As a character, I am more silent and patient. I'm not one of those cocky babes who doesn't split anyone's bass. When it comes to housekeeping, I'm a mean job. So far it sounds good, but the main problem of men with me is that I am divorced with a child and it scares them. So an author, as you can see, always has something.

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cornyjackson1 answered · August 02, 2020

   I'm a woman and I can't figure out where so many women came from who claim that sex is nothing in a relationship. The relationship is between two people and if sex is important to one, then it can not be ignored. Otherwise, there is no way to get things and the countless topics from both men and women on this site are proof of that. Sex is both physical and mental health. Leave the physiological need, but to want a person, to feel wanted in return, to allow him to the most intimate parts of your body, this is such emotional pleasure, such closeness, such intimacy. For me, sex has always been a great pleasure and after that I feel charged and happy. One day I still feel like it. I can't imagine my relationship with a man being complete without sex. If for some reason someone does not need or desire to do so, it is their right and choice. But he has no right to force it on others. Get together with someone who thinks like you, instead of torturing your partner and yourself. Neither you nor he will convince you. To you, author. You have come to both extremes. Extremes are never a good thing. You will never find a perfect one that combines everything to the max. And even if you find, as you say, you yourself are not perfect, and then probably she will not want you. As far as I understand, sex is very important to you. In my opinion, the woman next to you must be sexual. However, try to have a slightly more bearable character than the current one. Since you yourself are not a top, do not aim at beauties, just look for a normal looking girl. Here most women look good, ugly are rare. I think that's how you should prioritize. And think carefully about what you yourself offer.

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halloweenie_sex_doll answered · August 02, 2020

   Well, in the end, this is something that everyone has to judge for themselves. I think the day will come when you and your partner will have small children, you will be tired and you will not always want sex, and also one day you will grow old and sex will no longer be such a priority and then you will be left with only her terrible nature and the scandals that you (and your possible future children) will be forced to endure. In the long run, if you think about it, I would choose understanding. Not that I don't like sex, but as long as it's not terrible, it's just normal, other human qualities are much more decisive for me.

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likingstudent answered · August 02, 2020

   Glad you found a fury woman in bed, not some uncut tree! The trees are scary, the frigid refrigerators / freezers even more !!! A woman open to all sex is a treasure you should never miss, she will make you fly and feel like a MAN!

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lovelyluluu answered · August 03, 2020

   How old are you ? If you are patient, tolerate her, but I think that at some point you will not be OK with her character. My ex-boyfriend asked me for sex, I really liked that and my husband to take the initiative. Now with my husband it's the opposite, I offer him. It also depends on how old the women are, I'm 30 now sexier than 23 for example.

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hotcocktocum4 answered · August 04, 2020

   Do I think that the topic was written by another Mastrubinho. : D Honestly, I can't answer the question. And I ended a relationship because sex was naughty (and other things, but that was the most important thing to me) But I can't imagine a relationship where the only good thing is sex. Balance is needed.

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thosehipsandlips answered · August 04, 2020

   To number 6 out of 1: I find a lot of humiliating, ugly, disgusting disgusting things in the whistles. The radar that detects them is called dignity and self-respect. I was born to be happy, not to be a perverted sexual background of sick perverts with an abnormally crooked notion of intimacy. There is no uglier sight in this world than the whistle. And I love to always be beautiful and I hold on to beauty in all its forms. I haven't read your comment since. It complements me from the first sentence.

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honney_lips answered · August 04, 2020

   14 These men do not see ugly things, they even like them. It's ugly just for you. When two love each other, there is nothing ugly.

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candy_deep_throatdg answered · August 05, 2020

   Author, give the coordinates of the first woman to us non-sexual ones, and you take the green-eyed tigress.