Hello, I am a woman of 30 years and I would say that I do not lack sexual experience. I was provoked to open the topic, given that I have recently been in a new relationship (for several months) and although sex so far "behaves well" - my partner and I fit in preferences regarding technical performance, duration, etc., worries me that things are repeated every time. The love game, the act itself, and the moments of calm and closeness after each time create endless pleasure for both of us, but in general, it is not something memorable. We have found a few poses (maybe 4-5) that we know are not wrong and we repeat them - in a different order and at a different pace, depending on the mood. But I have a bitter feeling that we lack ideas, maybe we lack openness, because we are still a new couple and I personally can't relax to the maximum as with a very, very close person. It seems to me that we bring in various toys early, and I'm not good at all in fairy tales (playful text messages and chats), nor, frankly, do they excite me. I will be happy to advise me how to deal with this, sharing your opinions, suggestions for techniques and poses, drawn from personal experience - I'm sure the topic can become a good "guide" for anyone who wants to learn something new :)
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Accessibility takes away from the charm of everything. Limit yourself in all ways ... For example - on Thursday - no sex! : D Every fifth day of the month you have the right to touch only from the waist down. On the eighth of March he must be without arms ... On the 25th of March (church holiday - the Immaculate Conception) to bring you an orgasm without inserting it - and additionally there is no orgasm for him. And such thousands of restrictions can be invented, including a month without sex just by talking dirty (if you trust yourself not to cheat someone), by celebrating the end of the period somehow ... People make the mistake of wanting the whole experience at once for one "Let's list all the poses tonight, or we'll be boring ..." and then their desire dies. And toys can be used. Not sooner or later for them. But the most important thing is the restriction. Forbidden fruit is called;)
And when we advise you on some techniques, how will you tell them after you are ashamed that you are not too close. You can fuck him, but he's not close, and on top of that you're ashamed to tell him what you want. Take here at length and describe to us in detail what and how you want to do it, but in great detail and we will have the obligation to convey to him your wishes and aspirations. Just remember to tell us how to contact him. I hope that the moderators will be so kind as to release the information about the boy, but here the problem is serious and help is needed.
Write in Google porn free, watch with yours and diversify. Techniques and pins as you want, and professionally executed. Kobilkina could have helped, but now a baby is watching. Aren't we sex lecturers here? :))
If you haven't become close enough with someone to share on intimate topics and sex with them is already boring, don't you think that the problem is in you.
Watch porn .... this is the greatest informant about everything. Try a threesome ... with a woman .. with a man ... with a masseur ... weave .... after all, a lot of poses are related to your physique ... if you are fat, you can do certain poses ... and if you are a cock he is small 10 .. 13 cm is difficult to do for other poses .... try anal .. squirt .... find out all this from porn.
(g37 d) Sorry for the not so discreet question, but how are you with sex in second place? For many couples, this is diversity.