Hello! I have a slightly atypical question. A week ago, my boyfriend surprised me with a gift - a sex toy. However, this is not an ordinary vibrator, but one with a remote control that could be worn under clothes. He wants me to wear it while we're out and control the vibration, but to put it mildly, I'm not sure the idea is good. My question is have you used such toys and if so - is it worth it? Please for serious answers - no nagging. Thanks!
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And I'm not convinced that the idea is good. Especially since I know how most men think, I'm sure he'll use it, so to speak ... not at the right time, and watch you.
It sounds fun and intimate if you're open enough about the idea, but you don't sound like it. Otherwise, there is nothing shameful or wrong, even for some it is very arousing to be under the sexual control of the partner and have to hide their arousal. If he bought you this, then he is excited by the idea. If your problem comes from the planted shame - great, it is surmountable. If you just are not ok with it - a tongue for the gift and money.
I've tried, but not with a remote. It was small, plug-in, anal. A few meters from us I came back and took it out. It wasn't good for me at all, but exciting, not at all.
I have a lot of vibrators, some I bought myself, others are a gift from my boyfriend and now I'm just winding it up to buy such a toy. Well, of course I won't wear it to work, because it would be a little confusing if he decided to play with the phone (the one I liked is controlled by a mobile app even if the person is very far away from you ) while I am at an important business meeting. However, if we both go out to a bar, for example, it can be fun, so it all depends on how willing you are to experiment and of course how much you trust your partner that he will not "guess your number" at the wrong time. However, I think that if you use it as a prelude to the real part it will be great, ie. you are both at home and pretending to do something else, for example watching TV and he decided to warm you up without expecting it. E, then the chance to finish the evening instead of in front of the TV in the bedroom or elsewhere suitable for the purpose is very high. And it's cool! So I think such toys can be super fun, as long as, of course, you use them in the right place.