Hi, I'm a 29-year-old woman. I am married, but I can hardly wait for caresses from my husband, once every 10 days for three minutes. I can't, I don't want to or what else I don't know, I've been trying to talk about it for almost a year, but to no avail. I'm tired of praying for sex. We are supposed to be young people, but we live like a brother and sister most of the time. Sex is still on my initiative after many grunts, pleas, seduction and so on. He is good at everything else - he works, takes care of the children. Meanwhile, something unplanned happened at the service. I don't fall in love easily, but I am fascinated by a colleague who is almost 30 years older. I thought about the risks and decided to "play with him" because I like him and because I need sex, at least as a temporary solution - I will not go to bed with her and bury her after my husband does not give me what I need. My question is different - I have never cheated, I have not communicated - I mean personal relationships - with a man with such a big difference and I do not know how to approach. I also wondered what it was like to have sex with a 55+ man. Someone share experience on the issue. How do you get rid of such a man - intelligent, with a lot of experience and a big difference? I'm worried that he will be very reserved with me, even though I need physics and capacity to impress men ... PS - Please don't read my morals. I will not spoil my family, nor his if he is married. I just want sex - be a temporary solution while I work on my husband's behavior. I had 10 months to torment myself in doubt and decided that I would not enter a monastery after all - and I am a man. To hear the advice of people who have experience in such relationships .... I have not communicated - I mean a personal relationship - with a man with such a big difference and I do not know how to approach. I also wondered what it was like to have sex with a 55+ man. Someone share experience on the issue. How do you get rid of such a man - intelligent, with a lot of experience and a big difference? I'm worried that he will be very reserved with me, even though I need physics and capacity to impress men ... PS - Please don't read my morals. I will not spoil my family, nor his if he is married. I just want sex - be a temporary solution while I work on my husband's behavior. I had 10 months to torment myself in doubt and decided that I would not enter a monastery after all - and I am a man. To hear the advice of people who have experience in such relationships .... I have not communicated - I mean a personal relationship - with a man with such a big difference and I do not know how to approach. I also wondered what it was like to have sex with a 55+ man. Someone share experience on the issue. How do you get rid of such a man - intelligent, with a lot of experience and a big difference? I'm worried that he will be very reserved with me, even though I need physics and capacity to impress men ... PS - Please don't read my morals. I will not spoil my family, nor his if he is married. I just want sex - be a temporary solution while I work on my husband's behavior. I had 10 months to torment myself in doubt and decided that I would not enter a monastery after all - and I am a man. To hear the advice of people who have experience in such relationships .... How do you get rid of such a man - intelligent, with a lot of experience and a big difference? I'm worried that he will be very reserved with me, even though I need physics and capacity to impress men ... PS - Please don't read my morals. I will not spoil my family, nor his if he is married. I just want sex - be a temporary solution while I work on my husband's behavior. I had 10 months to torment myself in doubt and decided that I would not enter a monastery after all - and I am a man. To hear the advice of people who have experience in such relationships .... How do you get rid of such a man - intelligent, with a lot of experience and a big difference? I'm worried that he will be very reserved with me, even though I need physics and capacity to impress men ... PS - Please don't read my morals. I will not spoil my family, nor his if he is married. I just want sex - be a temporary solution while I work on my husband's behavior. I had 10 months to torment myself in doubt and decided that I would not enter a monastery after all - and I am a man. To hear the advice of people who have experience in such relationships .... I just want sex - be a temporary solution while I work on my husband's behavior. I had 10 months to torment myself in doubt and decided that I would not enter a monastery after all - and I am a man. To hear the advice of people who have experience in such relationships .... I just want sex - be a temporary solution while I work on my husband's behavior. I had 10 months to torment myself in doubt and decided that I would not enter a monastery after all - and I am a man. To hear the advice of people who have experience in such relationships ....
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and mine does not want me I have the same problem, it is best to relieve yourself with the gentleman in question sex will be great, however, he is years old, he has experience, he will be kind, considerate, etc. I will also cheat on mine because it does not last without sex at least give me a vibrator twa animal
Leave your colleague alone. Get in your husband's position. There may be some problems that you can't see.
I loved a man of 50, and I was 29! Everyone is different and you have to feel things yourself and choose the approach to it. Be yourself and don't get off him! Our sex, by the way, was great!
I quote: I will not spoil my family, nor his if he is married. I apologize a lot, but since "sex" with another does not spoil families. Apparently you're just like all the other apologetic "whores" who throw that job back and forth. You better realize it before you get in trouble. I can tell you that sex with a 55 is like a plane without fuel. If you sleep with this "colleague" for me you will be like all other rags. But you decide where your life is after all. Poor boy, if he only knew what was going on in your mind ... it's still like for a 29-year-old woman to sleep with a 55-year-old man on the subject, it's like a 10-year-old paw sleeping with her grandmother. You decide.
Hello, be honest and direct with him, I say what you want calmly and boldly, with feminine charm, he will not refuse you, he is more embarrassed than you m. 67 vinarsko
Just tell him what you want, without any worries. Last year, a woman took me down to 23, now to 24. I had set a lower limit of 28, but after her insistence, I agreed without commitments, both for her and for me.
I don't think you will be wrong at all. Something supreme awaits you!
I will never cause this !!! Won't you be disgusted? !! Horror with some old man! No, I'd better die, but I'll never do it even if they offer me money!
I don't know how you put up with it ... He's obviously having sex from elsewhere, or he's nervous, or you're tired of him. Talk to him for the last time ... tell him directly that you haven't been happy for a long time and you think he has another one or you're tired of him. And if so - you better separate ... And if he doesn't say anything again and doesn't do something - it will be really good to separate. I understand that there are days when you do not have sex, but not being intimate for months is not normal for me. It is more than obvious that you are bored, fed up with each other, or he gets sex from each other. Q. Satisfy yourself with a dildo, or do it with another ... while you wait for yours to dress up, you will grow old. And we are still young ...
If you want healthy sex, change the age range.
Oh, adult partners can be great! Gentle, patient and really want to satisfy the woman next to them, to give her everything; they know how to make her feel wanted and sexy ... Of course, their erection is not like 25, but they still have fingers and more importantly - they like to lick and caress everywhere. Show him that you want him and that you like and appreciate him. Be honest, it's time for games. He probably knows exactly what he wants and how to achieve it. If it's you - I will be very happy for you :-) My partner is 36 years older than me (26 vs. 61) and I have never been happier and more relaxed in bed. Success!
Emmy just safe sex, then his semen has become couscous, it will not become a nuisance. Just make sure your husband doesn't know he's going to laugh.
Another whore. Her husband works and she cheats on him. Where is the love beeee - do you even know what that means ??? All women are the same - just waiting for someone to rub your "plum" (with an apology). Your trying to achieve something in life, you with an old man .... You do not know what love is - just a passion. If you love him, leave him. You will not change. And I had a girlfriend ... But she cheated on me, because of what - that every day I brought her a few orgasms, gave her money, worked, took her everywhere, kissed her, I was not jealous of her, we argued, but ... cheated on me. I ask her why, and she tells me she's in love with someone else. And after 1 month she called me to come back because he couldn't stand her. You're the same, but most (but not all) you are, sexss and that's it
It seems to me that some adult partners advertise the sets and hope to shine them. Chick at 26 to go with a 61 year old, how not.
I support number 11 talk to him for the last and if there is no result split up. Amam from such men, There is no point in cheating on him, just separate.
Number 21, who and what do you call? What do you think he should do to stay with this mold, which does not know how a woman is satisfied and so until when? To grow old dissatisfied and unhappy?
author: I asked someone with experience to share the approach ... not the kids to read my morals. Not everything in this life is so black-and-white-or-or. My husband and I can't part - we have a child. However, I'm tired of praying for sex too. I'm nice, I'm supported, I break to work for the family ... I have the right to personal happiness, period. Safe from impotent men - how many women have this problem, safe ..
Author, I sincerely regret you. I can't understand women like you who don't watch you get married, have children and then be unhappy all your life and for what - to meet public expectations. I'm your age, but I had more intelligence in my head. Instead of listening to the local gossip, I waited and did not compromise. Today I am married to a man 25 years older than me. We have terrible sex without aids, we even do it twice a day sometimes. At the age of 19 I went with him, but I waited a long time to test him, and I believed that I would get bored and his sexual power would decrease with age. Nothing of the kind. Today he is even better because he works less and has more time for himself. It happens to us that even more comes to me. Despite our long relationship, we have very cool sex, he never said no, he respects me, he pampers me in every way and is proud of me, instead of killing and humiliating me, he goes to my mother for every problem like the husbands of my friends and relatives. They made fun of me at the wedding and gossiped about me, but now they envy my family because my husband is at home, looking after his family and taking care of my sexual needs, we go on vacations and in general - I don't need a lover while they are they went for lovers and the worst - not only for sex, but for money and gifts, because their husbands are not able to feed their own children, but they have alcohol and relatives. So it could have gotten worse. My friend not only does not get sex from her 30-year-old husband, who hangs out in pubs every night, but also sleeps with a 55-year-old man to have firewood, winter clothes and clothes for her child. Hey, that's it. And these people laughed at my wedding, that he was my old wife. But I'm not angry with them. and I advise you to do what you decided to do with the mature man - you will not regret, to look after your child and who knows - you may find motivation to beat the jester of your "husband".
Author, the fact that you have a child from this suprig is not a reason not to divorce and not to take your second chance with someone else. The child is not happy when the parents are not happy either.
Try 40 years older, sex is even stronger.
And what should I do, a 59-year-old man. I like a 38-year-old woman. I think the feelings are mutual, but I dare not take the decisive step. What if he rejects me?
31 - Well, I won't tell you a guarantee. Such questions are also asked by the pimply children on the site here. Bear fear, you not fear ... she decides in the end. Otherwise, as an age, I don't see that you have a problem - it is also no longer the first youth, it can't give a man with a child, so to speak, and it is quite natural to focus on the older ones who have other goals already.
Everything is strictly individual, a lot depends on you how you will attract the man to you, and how he will treat you, if you do not have mutually good personal and human relationships does not seek love or respect. If you are not the most important for a man - dump him. Does not deserve you. In the end, it is difficult to give advice. Open your eyes and do not be deceived in unsolicited love. It's all in your head, subconscious, intuition, ... First take care of yourself, love yourself to be alive and healthy, happy and then be useful to others who deserve your love. WHO APPRECIATES YOU - HE DESERVES YOU.
If you are looking for a tramp, hardly anyone 55-60 years old is the best option! Someone your age will do much better ...
36 - do you speak from experience?
To such a woman I recommend someone younger than herself - someone 20.
"Come to your uncle's chick ..." ;-)
Author, I'm 28 years old. I had 2 "connections" with people around 50. Details, I do not write and comment. I liked sex with both (there is something very perverse) Of course, this is something very relative and it is up to the person himself, we can not put all under one denominator. I liked not only the sex, but also the attitude - opening doors, handing over a coat, talking, etc. This is up to me, and the choice is yours personally. Good luck.
Hello author, I am 26 years old and I have a relationship with a man who is 50 years old. I'm also married and I have your problem - sex is already a myth ... If I ever believed I could ever do it. But it happened. The first time was stunning. And from there once a week. Ohh, what can I tell you .. Try and you will understand. By the way, we haven't been on better terms with my husband - I don't grumble about sex and we get along so well. I haven't ruined my family, and neither has he. Good luck and still remember - infidelity is for the strong. If you are 100% sure do it ... And of course write so we know ...
Hi 42 - it's not bad that you sleep with an older man, my husband is also 50 years old and I am 27. The problem is that you are MARRIED and he is married. Your families are broken by definition, what to spoil. You're only 26, couldn't you wait that long until you met the right man, and you had to get married and get a lover?
many moralists, many connoisseurs of the soul, stop everyone knows himself. when something is missing at home, it is outside. I am married at the age of 45, and why should I go to bed to die when I am made love, I emphasize LOVE. to the author, enjoy, no one is to blame ...
44, no one has forbidden you to make LOVE. Divorce like people and make as much love as you want. My friend did so instead of lying to his wife and making fun of me. Try it - it will make you feel better! Lie legs are short!
Unfortunately, no one shared any approach to this type of man - over 55. And as for families - it is naive to think that if there is no sex in a family - the solution is divorce. Especially when there are children, a common home and so on. There is just a man for a "solution to the problem" and that's it. A lot, a lot of families live like that, unfortunately there are a lot of young men who can't. However, it is one thing to look for sex, another - a relationship. I hope that adults understand the difference. I personally do not want another family, but I will not enter a monastery - many young people have this problem, unfortunately ..
Author, there are hardly any universal recipes for how to get rid of a man 30 years older than you. I had a relationship with one who was 22 years older than me, but the initiative was his.
to 28: I have no words kaka ... it's not bad to have sex with an older person, but to comment that others have caught simple men who could not feed their family? !? Not everyone is an uncle's money and not everything depends on money.
A distinction must be made between sex and love. As long as we're all human, we all have sex, that doesn't mean we have to fall in love.
One tip: before having sex with such an elderly man, first ask him for the latest up-to-date PSA test, only then (unless you have been vaccinated against HPV). Almost all older men carry latent HPV cells, they do not always get sick, but they can pass it on to their partner. And if she ever has a breakdown in her immune system, it can happen. A condom is a great thing, but in the elderly it can't fit perfectly
Despair leads to desperate thoughts, and proportionate actions .... Look, I will not judge you! Don't you just want to know why your husband doesn't want sex? I would assume: there is a problem / s that I do not share, and you do not try very hard to understand what; or you're not good in bed - which of course you can change yourself. or he's gay / perverted and you don't know. What I want to advise you more precisely is: why don't you try to live normally and look for a lover? it will be difficult and depressing for you too. to make love to one and return to another in the evening ... If this happens in my relationship / marriage: or I will do everything incl. SEX to go normally, or I'll just leave. Success! M28
Up to 44, very precisely, I would write absolutely the same thing. Dear author, I wish you to experience a unique experience, it will happen, you just have a charge in you who is looking for someone to entangle him? For moralists, you stand in front of the TV and watch TV series, what are you really entering this site for, aren't you moralists? No one came in to seek advice, but to receive morals from the Puritans.
to 1, howl now, bad in the absence of section, bad in the attitude, animal ... and do you perceive yourself as a bitch? are these expressions used for humiliation, and in other cases excite? If it is next to a vibrator, ask for it, there is nothing shameful, it is a question of maturity. I wish you happiness. WHERE
Up to 48: On the contrary! It's all about money, let's not be fooled. I witnessed a colleague and husband with the data of a model catch up with a distributor who did not look like anything, fat and bald, who took her on vacation in Thailand. And she told her husband that she was studying in Varna. So don't explain these to me!
I see that the topic has been open for a long time and I don't know if the author is still following it. But since I'm in a one-on-one situation, I decided to join the discussion. Oh curiosity. To find out what happened and whether it was all a mistake according to the author (because I think she still indulged in the adventure ... I'm 29. I have a seven-year relationship with a man at 33. And the third person, the man, who turned my head is 55 ... But for me, things are a little different. I've had only one man in my life - the one I'm with right now. When we got together, I was still untouched by a man. Yes , there are still such women. We have been together for 7 years, but we still don't have children. We haven't started trying. And probably because of that (at least I think so) and because we haven't got married yet ... between us they started problems occur. We became hostile to each other, aggressive, suspicious ... And this, of course, had an impact on sex. We still love each other and I believe we were made for each other, but ... One sunny day I started a new job ... And in this new job I met a handsome, intelligent, gallant, spirited, FAMILY, 55 year old man. At first he tried to flirt with me, but I quickly cut him off because I was adamant that I didn't want to cheat on my husband and change the fact that he was the only man who knew my body ... But over time, I I got to know that 55-year-old man more and more and fell in love with him more and more. Yes, for me it's not just attraction. I just fell in love. And I shared that with my husband. Because I think he should know ... But besides this love, I feel a pure ... how to call it ... maybe animal instinct. It's as if my body wants that person, not me. It's as if it commands my mind and my emotions. And the strange thing is that I have never, absolutely never looked at older men. Even more men with money. This has always disgusted me - little girls to carry white-bearded grandfathers with full purses. And here the same thing happened to me. But money was not the reason I fell in love. And he himself. It is important to clarify, the old man I am talking about does not know about my feelings. Or maybe he knows, I don't know. He probably guesses from the silly smile that appears on my face when he is close to me ... And the bad thing is that I feel that he falls in love with me too. You will ask how I know. Well, female intuition ... At the place where we work we are under constant video surveillance. In other words, I seem to be in front of his eyes non-stop. And I know, I feel like he's looking at me secretly sometimes. Sometimes obviously - he calls me ostensibly at work, as if to tell me to do this or that. Still, I feel that his attitude towards me is different ... I spread a lot (that's how I thought it would happen, I'm a human writer). But in summary, I would ask: Would it be a mistake to succumb to this impulse? Won't I break up my future family this way? Won't I break his too? And should we break them? And one more thing, given that for me it is not just a physical attraction, but also feelings ... what would be the consequences of a possible infidelity? Wouldn't it make my head spin even more? Or on the contrary - I will calm down and return to my husband remorseful and broken, begging for forgiveness ... What do you think? I spread a lot (that's how I thought it would happen, I'm a human writer). But in summary, I would ask: Would it be a mistake to succumb to this impulse? Won't I break up my future family this way? Won't I break his too? And should we break them? And one more thing, given that for me it is not just a physical attraction, but also feelings ... what would be the consequences of a possible infidelity? Wouldn't it make my head spin even more? Or on the contrary - I will calm down and return to my husband remorseful and broken, begging for forgiveness ... What do you think? I spread a lot (that's how I thought it would happen, I'm a human writer). But in summary, I would ask: Would it be a mistake to succumb to this impulse? Won't I break up my future family this way? Won't I break his too? And should we break them? And one more thing, given that for me it is not just a physical attraction, but also feelings ... what would be the consequences of a possible infidelity? Wouldn't it make my head spin even more? Or on the contrary - I will calm down and return to my husband remorseful and broken, begging for forgiveness ... What do you think? that for me it is not just a physical attraction, but also feelings ... what would be the consequences of a possible infidelity? Wouldn't it make my head spin even more? Or on the contrary - I will calm down and return to my husband remorseful and broken, begging for forgiveness ... What do you think? that for me it is not just a physical attraction, but also feelings ... what would be the consequences of a possible infidelity? Wouldn't it make my head spin even more? Or on the contrary - I will calm down and return to my husband remorseful and broken, begging for forgiveness ... What do you think?
well before you try there is no way to know what will happen .. there are so many different scenarios
don't listen to the fools' comments here. a man of 50 or 60 is not an old man and such men are much better than 20 or 30-year-old pickles, I only sleep with such men and for a moment I do not regret whether I liked a man of these years I flirt and almost never had anyone to be exposed
Up to 58 I wonder how old you are, darling. When I was 60, I had a girlfriend of 28. And she was after me. Although I was neither rich nor an athlete. Because I've never had sex with a woman I didn't love.
Experience speaks for itself .... I am 19 years old, I have a 2-year-old serious friend who is 21 and loves me and is in love with me, he tells me about family and children .. But I am a person (selfish) .. I think only about myself, since I've been with him I haven't stopped breaking, I've been with both young and old! With a lot for my age you will probably say that I am a whore ..., I opened at 14! But I can tell you from personal experience that today's young people are useless ... for 3 years I have had an intimate relationship with a married man of 47 years. Before him, I didn't know what the pleasure of sex was, how to have an orgasm ... It's all a woman needs in bed .... Durable, with a big cock that fills me to the core, knows where and how to touch, abe absolutely everything! He is my closest friend after the family, he gives me the most valuable advice, he treats me like a daughter ... In addition, I have been several times for variety with boys my age once and others ... But I have never met anyone like him and I will not find one. So my advice to all women is just do what you want while you're young, because then even if you want to, you can't. And make a difference between love and sex ... Love is the family, the beloved, the family hearth, the children, the man, and sex is something normal and human that every living being needs if the husband does not give you the necessary pleasure or you to him , everyone has the right to find it elsewhere, but sex should not break the family or vice versa! I hope I have been useful to you So my advice to all women is just do what you want while you're young, because then even if you want to, you can't. And make a difference between love and sex ... Love is the family, the beloved, the family hearth, the children, the man, and sex is something normal and human that every living being needs if the husband does not give you the necessary pleasure or you to him , everyone has the right to find it elsewhere, but sex should not break the family or vice versa! I hope I have been useful to you So my advice to all women is just do what you want while you're young, because then even if you want to, you can't. And make a difference between love and sex ... Love is the family, the beloved, the family hearth, the children, the man, and sex is something normal and human that every living being needs if the husband does not give you the necessary pleasure or you to him , everyone has the right to find it elsewhere, but sex should not break the family or vice versa! I hope I have been useful to you everyone has the right to find it elsewhere, but sex should not break the family or vice versa! I hope I have been useful to you everyone has the right to find it elsewhere, but sex should not break the family or vice versa! I hope I have been useful to you
From №61 I just want to clarify that my friend gives me enough sex, but the problem may be in me! I have never had a thrill, and I have never had fun with a boy my age. It has to be bigger to attract me. Maybe the barracks are also having an impact, now that they've removed it, there are no more real men.
He really made me laugh № 62 :) You are not a 19-year-old girl, but an old uncle who wants to praise him and his sets so much that you just saw, you believed. The figure of 20-30-40 years difference disgusts me! It doesn't matter if you are 20 or 50 to have good sex! Nothing can give you an old man or an old woman! Fashion, with the great striking differences between men and women, will never go out of fashion. The complete degradation of the 21st century! I'm not in the mood to write more ... -Bloody Mery-
Up to № 64 - dear, do you even know what you are talking about? You contradict yourself in every sentence. For the rest - in essence - I have already written. A man, if he is healthy and has not wasted his body on inferior "masters" with the corresponding venereal consequences, can fly the plane and take off not only at 50 or 60, but also up to 70 years. There are exceptions, of course, I've heard of 80-year-olds.
Something I can't understand this logic that the older one has better sex. So a person can get a higher education in five years, but for good sex the difference must be two or three decades? I do not believe.