We recently ended a relationship with my ex, we agreed to remain friends and so we are currently in a relationship and going out as friends, but yesterday the conversation went to another topic "sex in a friendly way". We talked after trying to get into a serious relationship, to try non-committal. What is your opinion about sex with an ex? If there is anyone who has been through this they can share their experience.
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I am generally against sex without feelings (non-committal relationships, prostitutes, etc.), because for me it is a symbol of low spiritual level and such people disgust me, but in the end everyone is free, as well as I have opinion. Yes, I know, I'm old-fashioned and congested, but I prefer cleaner people - outside and inside.
Try it, it may be something new, but completely :)) Even if you find new boyfriends, include them.
I don't know a person who has been in a serious relationship, and after they broke up, they didn't wear it periodically. It is as if a person does not know anything else then and wants his own. And I know something else ... that in most cases, this relationship ends worse than separation. Brother.
Girl, these men are in a relationship for sex. Now you will give him what he has always wanted, without being considered his serious girlfriend. If sex with him is so important to you, do it. But don't expect to get back together. You will be his reserve until he finds a new one to fall in love with and beat your jester completely. Don't be humiliated to be his second violin. He can also have sex with you and a few others. Find a decent boyfriend who loves and respects you, not a jerk who uses you. But women are naive.
No way. Without being a fortune teller, I will know that he offered. A typical male number, without affecting men. He just doesn't want to be dry until he finds a girlfriend. Some men are horrified at the thought of not having sex for a while, and the option is to use the former. If you agree, prepare for many emotional traumas. You will meet again, you will sleep together again, without really being a couple. But when he finds a girl he likes, and this will happen, he will lose you as an unnecessary thing, because sex already has a place to get it. Even if you show jealousy or another reaction, he will tell you that you are just friends and that was just the way it was. That he now chooses her whenever another woman appears in his gin, but now as an official friend. And you can stay some deep reserve, which he will look for if a new one doesn't work out. To check if you are still curled up and to scratch your ego with you, supposedly how unforgettable it is. If you curl up even then, he will lose you if they reconcile with the official girlfriend, because he chooses her now, and you are only friends with you. This more or less awaits you. An ex tried to do this trick to me with sex, but he didn't shine because I understood his hidden motives. There are always hidden motives in exes. Some women can have sex without feelings, but I can't. That's what I told him - to sleep with me when we were together, now it's too late. And I guess he is impudent again for sex, but it seems like his girlfriend is angry and keeps him dry. But I cut it, or I don't answer at all, another woman's problem, not mine. This is generally not a job. If you don't mind filling the hole next to the other woman, go ahead. But very often it happens, you just fill the time next to the other friend.
I am absolutely against! Isn't there so much with someone else, so you went to your ex ... You don't say why you broke up, but if it happened, then you're not for each other. What is this friendship, even sex .. For me, the former is a closed page. If we meet, hello, hello, two stories and that's it. Exactly, I will make fun of my ex, alas ...
I think you made a big mistake staying friends. How can you be friends with the person you love? This seems silly to me, even impossible. Are you talking to me about sex? After you became "ex", something didn't work out, why are you dealing with each other AGAIN? Casual relationships, this is not for everyone, these are insensitive people. I am too against doing anything with an ex. Downloaded angel
Tomorrow you will get married and you will still want sex with an ex, supposedly non-committal. From such sex, my ex-wife was left without a husband and without an ex. And in the divorced market, everyone asks her, "Why did you get divorced?" When he hears the answer, he runs away with 300, if he hides the reason, he knows that sooner or later it will be understood and it will get worse. You women did not understand that ex means ex and it's all over. If you have feelings for your ex, just don't fool the next one who is madly in love with you that you love him.
It depends on the reasons you broke up and if anyone still has feelings. If you are not sexually bored, there is nothing wrong, after all, sex is a necessity, and you already know it physically and you know that you will be fine. However, if there are feelings, you should never have more sex, or even keep in touch. Thus, one will simply waste his time and will not be able to break away from a hopeless relationship.
Better new. Why exactly the former is not golden for him? Hold on to your dignity. To be an ex, then there is a reason, and there is a saying "do not spit on the sweep."
If you agree, he will look for you in the future if it doesn't work out with his new girlfriend. He will use you when he quarreled with her. That's why a friend with an ex and sex-never. It is better for everyone to live their life away from each other. If you get caught, hello and that's it. Keeping in touch harms your future love life.
It doesn't sound like a good idea to me. I wouldn't have sex with an ex, as there was a joke, I've already seen what it's like in bed, there's nothing new to teach me: D It will be very difficult, if you think about it, then you have more feelings.
I would refuse. Supposedly to weave on several looms man. Both to look for something else and to be sure of sex. If I have sex and I'm not in a relationship, I would look for strangers or someone just for that. But to be the "unloading doll" of the former - never.