I am a 17 year old girl. My mother remarried a year ago and something for a much younger man - 24. In the beginning, everything was harmless, he caressed me from time to time for a kiss, we were something like a normal family. But then things grew into something much bigger. I have an intimate relationship with him for a month and a half we had sex 5-6 times and I gave him blowjobs several times. He swears to my mother that he loves her and that another woman will not look at her but constantly looks at me and I see that she wants me. And I like him a lot, he's a great, wonderful man I've ever known. I wonder if I should admit to my mother about our intimate relationship - because it wasn't just once or "accidentally" the last time was yesterday - should I break it or continue things as they are?
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Make a threesome - so no one will be at a loss and your love remains in your family!
Hey girl, the great and most wonderful man doesn't act so mean. Given that your mother had an unsuccessful marriage, why are you causing this grief yourself. Did the men finish so much that he took his mother. It is best to tell her everything, because sooner or later she will understand, ask for forgiveness, and beware of him. This is a man with 2 faces, a living devil and no life with him. By his very actions you should have understood what kind of person he is. Whatever happens, give it up, because he will do the same to you - be sure. God, what kind of people are there in this world
Is this a fabrication ...?
ooo i would recommend you to finish everything as soon as possible! And I'm not sure you have to tell your mother - it will destroy her after all! This is a double betrayal. Look at "your father" as such! He swears and loves her, and he cheats not with anyone, but with his own daughter - it doesn't matter what a terrible man he is! It's just no wonder! Put an end to this because then it may be too late!
Ole, MY GOD !!! You must be a great debauchery, or rather he ... and the idea of a threesome is not bad. Ma can get a little naughty again with your mother ... I do not know decide for yourself;)
Well, I did it with my mother's first cousin, my uncle told him. He is 46, I am 21. Call me whatever you want but I do not believe this pleasure will happen again. It's all over, now I have a fiancé
WOW .... what are these things? If this is true ... you better tell your lighthouse everything, that when he finds out he will kick you both out of the house ...
God, I hope this is a fictional story !!! Your mother looked after you, I guess the woman herself, and she suffered all her life, because looking after a child without a father is awful, in the end she finds a person she believes in and loves, and you stab her in the back. And what can I tell you about the threesome ... how can you not be ashamed !!! God, what kind of people are there in this world
In my opinion, have sex, customs but secretly.
This is a terribly nasty story! But what a mind you are ... Come on, he's a man, and he's young! I understand it to some extent - once they give it to him, of course he will take it! This is in the nature of men. But how could you be deceived?!? She is your mother for God! You should love and respect her, not betray her so vilely. I don't know ... It doesn't fit my head how you're going to deal with it ... It's that it's for shaking, it's for shaking! But you are 17 and you probably have your own opinion already, and it is assumed that you can judge what is right and what is wrong. So you have no excuse !!! I'm sorry, your poor mother! She thought she was doing something good by continuing her life, and what comes out ...
You have nothing to think about: this is certainly not the perfect man for either! If you don't want to hurt your mother to death, you better not tell her, just try to explain to her that he's making obscene hints to you, and you end any relationship with him and tell him you'd better wash away from your family otherwise. you will tell your mother! Better to leave her without explanation than to find out what happened between you. It is not good to judge, but all this does not seem right to me and it seems better to end as soon as possible.
This is really awful. I'm not judging you, I can't judge him either, because I don't know in what situation the first time you had sex happened! Personally, I am 17 years old and on the occasion of sex with relatives I was invited to my cousin's birthday, he turned 18, we drank all night in his restaurant, then all of us with his friends at a disco. And of course then I will sleep with them because he is from another city. We were drunk, we slept in one room ... from fairy tales to fairy tales I slept only in underwear and a T-shirt, we had not seen him for a long time and to say goodnight to him on the other bed and in the dungeon I kissed him not on the cheek in the mouth .. both of them he answered me .. I went to bed with him for a while and so on .. it wasn't for a while, but now everything continues and to this day I regularly visit him and everything repeats itself .. his grandmother and my grandfather are brother and sister, we are 2nd cousins. We are hiding but the thrill is amazing! In your case, I'm not judging you, but it's not good what you did, you destroy your mother, I didn't interfere with anyone's relationship, and he and I are alone, but in your case, he's in your mother's husband. You need to think a little. And I think it's best to end everything peacefully and meekly! I guess it will be very difficult, but you will soon realize yourself somewhere outside the home, become an adult and you will cope! Good luck!!! And I think it's best to end everything peacefully and meekly! I guess it will be very difficult, but you will soon realize yourself somewhere outside the home, become an adult and you will cope! Good luck!!! And I think it's best to end everything peacefully and meekly! I guess it will be very difficult, but you will soon realize yourself somewhere outside the home, become an adult and you will cope! Good luck!!!
I'm sorry, your mother. She can give up parental rights, but she can't help but be your biological mother
Why don't you have sex with your real father too? What do you say, huh?
If you don't start having sex with both your father and his brother, if there is one ... or be a fan of your brother, cousin or any close relative you whine about there ... I can't believe you did something like that with your mother! And, girl, get your spelling and grammar fixed before you knock anything that moves.
Do you have to ruin your relationship with your mother because of a person who doesn't care about either? It just obviously benefits both, so it's with you. Your mother needs to know what kind of person her husband is. Try to mend your relationship with your mother, because obviously they don't work, otherwise you wouldn't react like that.
If true, this is a dirty pig. Tell your mother and kick him out!
Dear girl, when I read what you are doing to your mother, I wish I never had children ... if people like you are brought out ... God forbid .... (doh)
Girl, realize !!! What are you doing? And what nothingness did your mother bring to you! Confess everything to your mother! Take the consequences because you are 17, but you are behaving like puberty! And get rid of this one! And you ... life is in front of you! Tomorrow, you will really meet the most wonderful man, who is the father of your child and the head of the family, nooooo you are clinging to this nothingness! And if he really loves your mother, he will treat you like a daughter, not like a light woman! Put yourself in your mother's shoes ..... THIS IS DISGUSTING! COME TO YOUR SENSES!
If someone says you are crazy, they will compliment you.
Hey what are you going to judge the girl? If the "father" is cute, I wouldn't do it either..there's a thrill;) I don't know if I would do it all the time or only once :) but it's a fact that it's cool. You ask her how smart she did it ... and her mother? How will she marry such a young man that as they say at this age they put it everywhere..but I don't know but I don't think you should tell her .. iii talk to him :) Come on good luck and calm down :)
Hahah strange situation; and how exactly did the welding work?
уОоОооу. Emmy, I think tell your mother everything :) that's best. Are the men over yet?
Do you think that the most wonderful man will act so basely? What he does is be sexually satisfied with you. I think he uses you very seriously and you have to stop that. YOU CAN'T JUST CONTINUE THINGS AS THEY ARE. This is your mother. Is there nothing sacred left in you people ?! And learn to write before sleeping with your mother's husband at the age of 17 !! With peace ..
Not bad, because he's not your real father. But on the other hand, do you think it's good to be cheated on? Put yourself in your mother's shoes if she finds out that her husband is cheating on her. And you have 7-8 years difference was. Tell your mother about everything that happened. She is your mother after all.
Apparently he's a drummer, as soon as he does it with you he turns out to be a pedophile, I can't figure out how he will sleep with a little girl, it's better to get up right away because it will be too late and if your mother catches you, much younger at your age so give it up if you love it;)
Because your mother does not deserve such treatment, it is your fault that you hurt her. She doesn't deserve such an idiot and a monster for a husband, he will hurt her a lot more in other ways, maybe ... To atone for your guilt (although it is not possible completely) stop this nonsense with him, go to your mother and you complained that he tried to rape you several times and finally succeeded. Present it as a huge trauma for you and play the role well. she will hate him and drive him away, and he - from 2 chairs on the ground ... That's how he likes it. Don't be his personal harem ...
Hello I want to share with you that the same story happened to me I was 13 years old and my stepfather had a great time ... I was adopted ... and years later I find my mother I currently live with them and I saw how my brother who is 16 years old playing with my mother's nipples and wondering if they are not having sex? And these topics excite me and when I saw him I got terribly excited ...
If I was you, I would have sex with him and not tell your mother. But still moderate sex.
Don't judge the girl ..... just have sex, don't fall in love..and slowly back off .. find another dad :)
Well, it's not your fault, have sex when you're fine, just be careful that your mother doesn't understand..Although these things show up quickly..Then it will become unpleasant already ...
We forget that in this case we are talking about a very young and minor girl. In my opinion, there is NO GUILT, and if there is, it is with the gentleman, but he is also at a fragile age, just a big anointing. I think you will experience your "love", but also the consequences and one day you will be able to soberly realize that you are used in the situation, but this will happen in years
Abe, make fun of him, make fun of him, let him have sex, what do you care about, then get pregnant, give birth to a child, live happily and so on, and after a year she can find another mother and try with him !! UNFORTUNATELY SIMPLE INCONVENIENCE, MY EARS CANNOT SIMULATE IT WHORE, WHORE, oh yeah :))) HOSPEH MAAA BUT TO CALL ME THE SECOND TIME;)
According to me, make fun of yourself and don't tell your mother;) because she may hate you a lot or kick you out of the house :)
Well, to tell you the truth ... this man is not well. First, that he is cheating on your mother with you and lying to her in the eyes, second, that you may be in the position of your mother at the moment;) i.e. to have sex with you and use you and have a 3rd girlfriend at the same time .. so you better tell him it's over !!
Hello! I had the same problem .. but a little different .. I will not talk about it now, but I will tell the girl a few tips: 1. If he lured you to bed, you better tell your mother, explain to her calmly, if you have to be a little nervous .. 2. If you pushed him to sex, then it's your fault .. you shouldn't have given up! 3. I don't think it's a good idea to do it with your stepfather ... you can get pregnant and have children, but if your mother finds out on her own, she can really kick you out of the house. 4. Tell your mother when you are both alone! He shouldn't know, otherwise he will overwhelm you with anger, maybe ... Maybe you'll kick him out soon! He might even rape you ... Don't give up sir .. :( :)
Hello! I do not understand why you judge the girl in many of the comments. To number 30: I don't think they'll convict him of pedophilia, because in this case, I think they'd actually be the perfect couple. It's really a little mean of her, but if you think about it, what does her mother do with such a young man? !! I think you have to do what you feel you want. If you are already in love and love to be with him - go on! But if your guilt towards your mother is stronger - stop! I am of the opinion that in none of the cases would it be appropriate to tell her, because you do not know what her reaction might be and how much she cares for him. I wish you luck! !! !!
Think she is your mother, she carried you in her poison, she fed you, and you to sleep with her hope, love, support. Don't cause it! !! !! DISCONNECT WITH THIS MAN AND THAT'S IT! You decide for yourself, but how will you look at your mother? !! Think about your children in time, if they somehow understand? How would they feel? :) You trusted your intuition a lot, but know that she is your mother, she didn't deserve it at all :)! !! !!
Well, it's not entirely her fault, as 42 said if it's not her mother's fault - to get married in 24 years. a young man given that he has a 17-year-old daughter. age? ? ? Too unreasonable from all sides, but they obviously do not think rationally in general and therefore there will be much more to suffer.
Abe, were you normal! ??? Leave the fact that you have sex with this man ... She is your mother !!! How can you not be ashamed to do so with the woman who gave you life and raised you from a piece of meat? Should you not have a gram of respect for this woman. What is she guilty of, that she is with a younger boy, to say that she has not reached the age of majority, but she has it, so that no one has the right to judge the woman ... And how is he not ashamed? Is that why she's with your mother to fuck her daughter? ... Pha puffy :) I'm shocked how you can not have a gram of respect for their mothers, and act so mean ... I just have no words.
I am 17 my mother's wife is 28 she is 37, and if I had the opportunity I would also have sex with him :)
Think if you are a mother how you will feel if this happens to you !!!!
How can you even wonder if you should break this connection? Stop while it's time and think of something to get rid of you and your mother, but by no means tell her the truth !!!! And how can she get along with such a young man.
At first I am interested in incest. And what the author writes about is incest, although not between blood relatives. In short - sex in the family. Some judge the author very harshly, without being aware of the factual situation. The mother's marriage to a man so much younger than her should give us a hint. In such cohabitation, in the daily communication with a 17-year-old girl, every man can drop the curtain. And the girl herself ... he knows what his relationship is with his mother ... In any case, it is possible to get a perfect threesome. But the initiative must come from the mother. I think so. And finally - to apologize to all "moralists" who do not even suspect what is hidden deep in their subconscious.
Who's to blame now ... she's 17, she's in love, she's romantic, she's itchy, wow. Mother and who is the one she brought. Nerez is not a groom in love. I will point the finger not at the author but at one of the commenters. The one where she fucked her uncle and she was goth. I'm going to drift away, people, you bastards
Drive me and don't go back to the site! These are the things of life. There is all kinds of filth in everyone's life, far more horrible than such small pleasures. Apparently things are happening. Because of such moralists, topics are taboo. The anonymity of the site prompts some to share "terrible" things to society, most likely unloading the "terrible" secret. I drift every day watching our disgusting politicians in the news, but what to do is the reality. It is unfair that they intrude on our faces every day by the big media, and we people with our life problems hide on anonymous sites to pour out our grief. Instead of spitting and stigmatizing (and everyone else who does it all the time) - explain the harm, suggest the possible negative consequences, recommend something else positive, to compensate for the "deviation"! Strange, doesn't anyone see the four red dots - rules above their writing window? Shouldn't editors also be more emphatic in their apparent disregard?
I agree with the last comment. I myself feel that I am becoming a judge in some cases because I am sincerely annoyed by the impudence and brutality of some women. This girl seems to me really naive and not very aware of things, preferably rather than some kind of heartless soul who feels nothing. See the advantages are I do not see what but good sex and the moments you will spend with this person. But have you ever wondered, apart from sex, what else connects you two? Meaning you may want something else to like it and as a girl in love want to have your moments memories and so on do you think this will happen is more likely not to happen for obvious reasons he is married to your mother and people know it will not kka to lick together hug to kiss to have fun and so on to do something together outside the normal things that couples do and he besides desire do you think he feels durgo. At least I don't see what other than sex connects you and it's good the rest of the time like your mother is here you'll feel badly guilty you'll care about your conscience if you have one you'll hate yourself you'll feel dirty and I think at some point that will hope over sexual pleasure. And people are right, do you think that this young man feels something serious about you and whether he is a serious person, but his actions obviously do not make sense, he married your mother and lied to her that he loves her and so on, and at the same time he fixes you. Even if they both get divorced and you get together, you have no guarantee that he won't treat you like that, even if he sleeps with your mother behind your back. These are the facts. If before you had some contact before marrying your mother, etc., there is a possibility that no matter how small he was, he became close to your mother and married you, because you may have liked him, this is absurd, but it is not amaze all kinds of people there. But I really don't want to condemn you, but you can guess the pros and cons and the cons in your case. Besides, does it seem like a man to ruin your relationship with your mother, especially if you have a strong mother-daughter relationship, do you think how she will accept it? You have a head of time, do as you want, but I just want to, I think it's best to avoid further problems and difficulties, but this is your life and you decide, I just want you to think and act as your conscience and heart say. reason too
What kind of daughter are you? It is rubbish as soon as it burns you, but should you act so mean to your mother ??? I just don't have words ... Find strength and confess to her! Ask for forgiveness and pray to God to forgive your deed one day! I'm really sorry - you don't deserve anything else ... M24
These are fabrications ... it is evident in the way the "author" writes. But let's pretend not - the one in question still remains as dumb as a shoemaker's hammer. So stealing a boyfriend is one thing, but stealing your mother's "husband" is just ... pathetic, disgusting, to put it mildly stupid. She should throw people like you and this garbage on the street, that's where you belong, obviously. You can become a Gigolo and Shafrantia K * rvovi family, live under the Chavdar bridge, work a night shift on the ring road.
As long as they were worried, this is a fabrication of the sick brain that writes many of the stories here.