Hello to everyone who visited my topic. I have been in a relationship for 2 years, but things are not going well in bed. I work in a very dynamic environment only with young people, almost all of us at work understand each other except for my relationship between me and a colleague 9 years older than me. From the very beginning we did not understand each other and lately it has become personal. There is a lot of negative energy between us, we generally create a hostile environment for no reason from the very beginning, we just don't like each other and we tolerate it. There have been shifts that I have been horrified by this man just by his speech. And come to think of it, he's not a bad boy, he has a lot of fans. My story happened a month ago when our boss had a reason to treat (including alcohol), so my colleagues and I drank some of us a little more. The colleague in question came in the middle of the shift and offered me another kind of alcohol out of kindness, of course I refused, but the situation was repeated several times with the words "come on, I don't like you either". It wasn't long before we both looked at each other with dirty eyes. Around 4:30 p.m. in the morning I received an sms waiting for me in the office locker room not to linger too long. And then I had sex I had never dreamed of before. I never imagined that with this person I would feel so much fear as if we had said everything we had kept silent so far, but not in words :). This happens several times a month, even in his home the last 3 times. Lately he's been telling me how much he wants me for himself, etc., and I feel so guilty in front of my friend. Would you break up with your partner in this situation? Again, I say that sex doesn't work for us at all, and lately (6 months) it's gone. that he was waiting for me in the office locker room not to linger too long. And then I had sex I had never dreamed of before. I never imagined that with this person I would feel so much fear as if we had said everything we had kept silent so far, but not in words :). This happens several times a month, even in his home the last 3 times. Lately he's been telling me how much he wants me for himself, etc., and I feel so guilty in front of my friend. Would you break up with your partner in this situation? Again, I say that sex doesn't work for us at all, and lately (6 months) it's gone. that he was waiting for me in the office locker room not to linger too long. And then I had sex I had never dreamed of before. I never imagined that with this person I would feel so much fear as if we had said everything we had kept silent so far, but not in words :). This happens several times a month, even in his home the last 3 times. Lately he's been telling me how much he wants me for himself, etc., and I feel so guilty in front of my friend. Would you break up with your partner in this situation? Again, I say that sex doesn't work for us at all, and lately (6 months) it's gone. This happens several times a month, even in his home the last 3 times. Lately he's been telling me how much he wants me for himself, etc., and I feel so guilty in front of my friend. Would you break up with your partner in this situation? Again, I say that sex doesn't work for us at all, and lately (6 months) it's gone. This happens several times a month, even in his home the last 3 times. Lately he's been telling me how much he wants me for himself, etc., and I feel so guilty in front of my friend. Would you break up with your partner in this situation? Again, I say that sex doesn't work for us at all, and lately (6 months) it's gone.
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Well, what should we applaud? You can't stand him, you sleep with him. I do not get it.
Instead of solving the problem with her boyfriend with a conversation..with a romantic dinner ... with passion ... with sexy lingerie..with an arousing blowjob..with the words "dear I'm doing an enema tonight I'm all yours ... I want you passionately from behind "., .... our daughter-in-law decided to give him a pair of long horns and for him to have a badjanak from above ..... and to define himself as the lowest (.......).
You say absolutely nothing about your relationship except in bed. You only talk about your colleague and seem to be hoping we'll tell you to reunite with him. Infidelity is an ugly thing and makes you an unpleasant person. We cannot give you advice on what to choose, knowing only one of your choices. USA
The first time is a mistake, the second time is a choice. The way out of the situation is clear. You know, the greater evil is to stay with this person and lie to him. Leave him a little dignity, you found a tramp who I emphasize you hate (my God logic). Infidelity has been and always will be, but put a little morale into the whole thing, at least remember that this person was with you at least in a difficult time. At least a little gratitude not to lie to him in the eyes will be useful.
What do you want us to choose for you? Could the reason for the lack of good sex between you and your boyfriend be in you? Could you be bored with him, like another, or treat your colleague like you? If you have a problem with the closest person, sit down and talk to him, not to the strangers on the site, who don't care who you live with and who you fuck. Banal business sex romances like yours are in every office, in every company, especially after banquets, holidays and team building, usually do not last long and only cause gossip and ridicule. After a while, this one can send another colleague to another banquet. I hope you're not so naive as to think he didn't do it before he fucked you? If you have at least a vague idea of what morality, humanity and honesty are, leave your friend, let him seek his happiness elsewhere, and you have as much fun with your colleague as you want. Or rather, as long as he wants you.
What friend? Grab the new one and let the boy find another one. And it will pass you by, you are just fucked up now, you will get bored of that one in a period of time and then you will remember that you need a person to protect and love you, etc.
"The colleague in question came in the middle of the shift and offered me another kind of alcohol out of courtesy" How so alcohol in the middle of the shift. Does this boss give you alcohol at work?
Fiction squared.
The title breaks! :) Otherwise you should fix your relationship with your friend, not put pressure on your colleague.
Fuck at will until you're young, but don't lie to your boyfriend! With the colleague in question, as far as I understand, sex is great, otherwise you are on a knife for everything else ... Well, it is clear - there will be only sex until he finds another to fuck! M. 32g.
Instead of making love to your friend, and create offspring. You spread your legs and let another man fuck you whenever he wanted. I do not know what advice you want, continue in the same spirit and in time you will understand. What you did to yourself and the devil can't do. I hope your friend understands and beats your jester.
What you are doing is very unfortunate, even you do not know what you want! You obviously don't love your friend, go tell him that you are no longer the same, and that you don't love him. But cheating is disgusting! That's why women used to keep them at home as housewives so they wouldn't do such things for sure. I can't stand women like you, since you don't have CHILDREN, you have nothing to do with this man, tell him you don't love him anymore, whatever. reason. I am against sex with colleagues, where you make your living, there is nothing else. Did you hear that? I think you are very naive and you will reap the fruits very soon. Maybe the whole company will find out about your action, and there will be laughter, laughter and laughter again! Well, at least break up with your boyfriend, tell him you don't love him. You can also tell him about the infidelity, a terrible deed, just ... A fallen angel
In short - a pathetic story. The author is another light girl who was beaten up with a hard fuck and now she feels justified in cheating on her boyfriend because he doesn't fuck her the way she wants. I don't understand just why the boy is lying, I miss the fact that he is lying to himself that he is a commodity. The "colleague" will say whatever he likes just to put her to bed, in another month he will say goodbye.