Hello! I have been working in a new place for 1 year. There are a total of three people in our room - me, another colleague and the colleague in question. She is almost 40 years old, but she is quite beautiful in the face, and her body is also quite tight for a woman her age. In short - it's sexy. We sit every day at less than two meters from each other. Sometimes I could feel her staring at me, other times she seemed to touch me by chance when she came to my desk to watch something together on my monitor, she literally peeked at me, and when she did something business together with other colleagues and had to look at their monitors don't get that close to them. In general, sometimes he behaves quite relaxed with me, other times a little colder and gives me different signals. In our company, only the two of us are not bound to it. However, I am 6 years younger than her and a possible relationship with her is not so much to my taste, we are even more colleagues, there will be talk and intrigue. What I feel for her is a strong sexual attraction. Sometimes I feel like just looking at her and starting to get aroused. And in the moments when we are closer to each other or we touch by chance, my sexual attraction to her intensifies even more. At the last Christmas party, she got drunk and came to cuddle. But he did the same with other colleagues. That's why I'm confused and I don't know if there is anything specific about me. As I wrote, we are both single, I definitely miss sex, she - I think so too. I wonder how to act and how to show her that I am attracted to her. The situation is quite delicate, we work together every day and in case of its refusal, it would be quite awkward afterwards. What do you think I should do?
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I think only you miss sex, but wait a little longer until someone shows up to take it, then at least you won't think about it. Someone has very keen senses, you immediately have thoughts of elementary things. He gets closer to you than to other colleagues, how did he decide it, did he measure it at all? I have a relationship with a colleague and we didn't even talk while we were at work, I heard a lot of funny comments from colleagues, this one wants me to break it and they from such micro signals. And tighten up a little at 34, don't you know how things work, what do you hope for?
Don't get involved. When she hugs her other colleagues, she gets very tanned. He will accept sex for love, then he will want to marry you and you will wonder where to go. She will become a mother at 42 at best - no, don't. Say you're engaged! This is a super noble lie.
Well, that's how my wife and I met - at work. She is 2 years older. Accordingly, each of us is already on the second and third job after that, but she (that job) introduced us! In my opinion, you are already at an age when there is nothing and when to wait. Hold on to the lady, and if she is as conscientious as my wife, I wish you a family and 2-3 children.