Hello! How long did you stay without sex the most and could you last until you met a more stable person? If you can't stand sex without sex, where do you prefer to look for sexual contacts - in bars, discos, with a prostitute, on websites or somewhere else? Do you keep in touch with someone just for sex as "friends with privileges"? Do you have difficulty then creating a longer relationship if you have had many sexual partners, ie do you have a problem with persistence in a relationship after that? My questions are addressed to the male half. It will be nice to mention your age. I will be happy to share your experience.
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I think that everything is strictly individual, and it is easier for women to endure without sex even for months. I don't think it's worth having any relationship with anyone for sex or wandering around the bars for an hour ... no, and if a man is alone and has so much sex, let him trust his right hand or yes visit some sex shop. Everything else is a pure waste of time and takes us away from the possibility of a real relationship, and men who go to prostitutes spend their money on nonsense. There is nothing shameful / bad for a man to be without sex for a long time while he has hands ... I am a woman, but at least according to my husband he has not stayed for more than 2 weeks without sex since the age of 15, and now he is over 50 years
I am a man of 20 years. I am currently studying abroad. I have a lot of opportunities, but just before I left I broke up with my girlfriend, with whom I had been dating for 3 years. So for the last 5 months I've been on hand in general, I just can't have sex with someone casual, there are all sorts of diseases and things. And condoms are not always safe. :)
At 24, out of 24, lol.
Мъж, на 27... най-дългия период беше 4 години. цялото ми средно образование. бях в чужбина, в малко 'нетипична' страна и обстановка. сега го карам на близо година, но ако не се броят мимолетните отклонения с приятелки, повлияни от алкохол, сега съм на 3та година без постоянен партньор. тъжно :( замислял съм се за 'приятел за секс' защото в моменти просто изпитвам страшна нужда, но просто не знам как да подходя и къде да си намеря правилния човек за това. а що се касае връзка... и там желанието е голямо. хубаво ти казват, че много риби има в морето, ама те и моретата са много :D
Две години (от 24 до 26г.). Иначе полов живот водя от 17-годишен. Сега съм на доста повече. Наистина не си струва да се занимаваш, докато не срещнеш качествен партньор, с когото всичко да е точно и сексът да е по-скоро като естествено продължение и развитие на другите отношения. Сексуални контакти по барове, дискотеки и проститутки? Луд/а ли си? Сексът е специално отношение към специален човек, а не бардак и помия с вкус на венерически, ментални и всякакви други буби... Смятам че само много изпадналите, умствено, емоционално и сексуално осакатени или недоразвити индивиди постъпват така. Не мога да си представя, че сексът или някакъв друг първичен инстинкт могат до толкова да водят за носа един нормален човек, че той съзнателно да предприеме някакви отчаяни действия, за да си ги достави... Това по-скоро ми прилича на наркомания, булимия или някакво друго подобно отклонение.
I am a 23-year-old girl and I am not a big fan of sex; I have not had sex for a year and 2-3 months ... I just have no desire ... I no longer have sex but love ...
The longest - about a week, during this time by hand. In spite of № 5, I regularly use the services of escorts. I've been with a lot of them, but lately I've been calling only 1-2 proven ones. Only such girls, however, staggering on highways, Roma women, etc. I have been having sex for 17 years, now I am 29.Man.
I am a woman, but I will still speak, because it is a man (my ex). The longest period without sex while we had a relationship was 6-7 months. To clarify that he had no desire. He always denied having another, so it's assumed that we've both been dry for so long G27
3 years and 9 months. I've had opportunities, I just can't do it without love. I think it sounds banal and cliché, but ... And how I want not to be like that! F, 35
from the Author: I am a woman. There was some confusion, I'm not asking for myself. I have no problems with endurance, I wait as long as necessary. Strange is the period when the man is single. Is it possible, if there are indiscriminate sexual contacts while he is unattached, to judge the man whether he is a stable person or a rascal and whether there are problems with attachment and perseverance after that? Which is more important for men - sex with anyone because of physical need, sexual contact with the person they love or something else? What defines his behavior as unattached? Lately, I only come across men who have some registrations on dating sites for sex or when they have been single for years have resorted to companions. Of course I understand about this later. They have maintained their registrations on the sites for quite a long time, for years. It is strange that such men are becoming more common. I wondered if I, as I could not perceive this as normal behavior, was not repelling a person who could actually be valuable. And don't men reject women for more stable relationships because of that? Because sooner or later these things are understood and people like it or not, they serve it as information about the person you are dating.
I don't know why you think women last a long time without sex. Maybe because I'm young I have a more frequent need, but literally after the 2nd week without sex my eyes start to tingle, I look at non-stop men and my saliva flows when I watch sexy men, not to mention that when I turn on the TV I only hear sex, sex, sex ... and when you're alone it's not the same as when you do it with someone ..
21 years
I personally started having sex a little late with my friends, but in my humble attempt to share that I haven't done it for 4 months! This is my longest period !!
at 22 I am also 8 months at the longest, now I am in the process of finding a serious relationship and the time continues to grow ...
I'm sad to read how young people are waiting for the perfect person :) 1. he's gone. 2nd live your life and have fun (sex) while you are young and do not come across the person with whom you will have fun and you will stay with him, and not then let me have topics: Why don't they "fuck" me anymore ??? I'm tired of my partner, I want variety .... Everyone has a sexual revolution and it's very sad when they experience after marriage ....
Female - 26 years old. I'm more addicted to sex ... obviously, I'm not a fan of "just sex", but so far it's happening. If I sit for more than 2-3 months and get nervous ...
According to Sigmont Freut, lack of sex leads to neuroticism :) Have sex. ps: masturbation is not sex
Hello. I'm a man of 30 and I've never had sex. I'm freaking out. I can't understand why I don't like women.
A 59-year-old man - I was left without sex for several weeks. Nature decides these things - at night. I didn't go to prostitutes when I was young - then and now you can find a fucking object, as long as you're not very pretentious. Sexual intercourse can be sought anywhere. I have not had a problem with perseverance after more partners before. Before I got married, I dated three women at the same time - I chose my current wife. The author's questions are about the male half. And ... hop - right away, the first to express his opinion is ... who do you think? And of course the opinion? is very brief on the subject. The rest are favorite tips for masturbating and qualifying walking with a prostitute. As well as speaking on behalf of her husband ...
My friend is very experienced in this regard. He has been with many women if you need personal advice, he is the man and if you want I can give you his phone number to talk to. Otherwise, on the issue, he is 21 years old and so far he has had 21 girlfriends, I'm 18; d but what to do ... he lasted at most without sex 2 days, so I do not mind doing it with other women while he's with me because I can't keep up with that pace. When it comes to where to meet women, he meets them at the university, on the bus, in the cafe and wherever, you have to be more open and charming. Once even I was present at his next dump, we were together in the cafe and drinking our morning coffee when a girl passed us and smiled at him, I felt that he liked her too, we got along with him at a glance and he ran after her, he talked to her and in less than 5 minutes he came to ask for the key to our common home. Naturally, I gave it to him, finished my coffee and went to work. But I think I deviated too much from the topic. I hope I've been helpful to you. If you want we can see each other sometime;)
I am 24 years old. I started having sex 5 years ago and I mostly stayed dry for about 5 months. It is difficult for me to abstain. I've even done it with friends just because the hormone hits me. Then I regretted the general case. I don't know how it is with others, but I am most excited by each new person and that is why the one-night stand seems very attractive to me, especially if I do not have a permanent partner or things in the bedroom get boring. And for those who say they are looking for the "right one" - are you talking about sex or love? Unfortunately, not everything always goes hand in hand ... So - live while it's time ... :)
25, and how "overnight" will you get along with someone so much that sex becomes really exciting, shaking, etc.? I have the feeling that you only stumble on the surface, and you don't know what real sex means at all ... It's like going to dance with the first person you meet - of course, the first 2-3-4 times you will step on each other, you will be out of sync. .. With less than 4-5 acts you do nothing! Hormones are one thing, but good, healthy, nutritious sex is quite another ...
26 sometimes when you don't know someone it's easier. You don't care about his bad qualities, you only see what he shows you, and everyone tries to like himself on the first date;)