Good day or good evening people. I am a girl of 19 and I have only had 1 boyfriend in my life. We've been boyfriends since I was 16 in 9th grade. We parted a lot, we fought, there were a lot of lies on my part that I regret and a lot of bad things happened when we were together. Even when we were separated, not many bad things happened, only we missed each other a lot. Bad things always happened when we got together, both in his family and in mine, the sad thing is that they were not just family problems, at school, with friendships and I will not list more because you understood me. We love each other a lot but we still separate. This is our story in a nutshell. I saved a lot of things, but that's enough. The current problem is that he loves me, and we were last together 3 months ago and we said to ourselves that we would not get together seriously anymore and that we had to find other people for us. Now he wants us to get together and I don't know if I have feelings for him. I thought about it and I think we shouldn't get together because we will break up again. I am young to suffer so much, and I am about to graduate and I am thinking of moving to Germany to start my life fresh. Should people move? Should I reunite with my ex? If we're going to get together, I don't need to move.
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You are in 12th grade and there is only one piece of advice I can give you and I really find it useful. Don't let a man determine your future from now on. If you want to go and study in Germany, do it, because it concerns your education and then your career development. Don't change your plans because of a boy you get together with now, then break up with. There is a risk that you will regret it if you get together in 6 months, and you have radically changed your plans for the future.
Well, since you've gotten together and separated so many times, don't you think it will be different this time? Don't, no matter how hard it is for you. But still, if you decide to give it a chance, keep one thing in mind. I used to get together with my friend and for 3 years we got together and separated 10 times and the end was the same every time. He currently has a girlfriend with whom he feels happy, I also have a boyfriend. It's just that some people aren't meant to be together, stay friends, but for a relationship I don't think you're both suitable for each other.
I'm in exactly the same situation. At 19, prom, a boy from 3-4 years ago and a relationship that did not work until 2 months ago. We had separated again for about a year because his father had died and he was still living with him and living abroad. We always fought before because we weren't old enough, maybe. During my time without him, however, I realized that he is the thing that keeps me healthy and confident as if I am part of one with him. I appreciated it and now every day I am grateful that it is by my side. And I cried a lot about it, but I'm not tired because now it's different ... And I realized that everything depends on me - how I will do things. It is up to him whether he respects this or not. The other thing is that I have an offer to go abroad and to a very exotic destination and I haven't even mentioned it to him at all, but the other lesson I've learned is to be grateful for what I have - that my parents are healthy, that I'm developing, that I have something to wear on my back, that I'm not at a dead end like many people around the world. The second thing about this case is that I think one should first try to adapt to the present and look at things realistically, and to start clean is just an illusion. There is no such thing as erasing your past. So we come to the question: are you really ready to cross out the boy who loves you? And do you think that you will be loved in a foreign country? What are you going to do there? Will you set unrealistic goals that you hardly need to fulfill? Are you even willing to sacrifice your current life for an idea? Although I studied a lot and I deserve this training, I decided to stay and give my best here because I have a sense of responsibility to those closest to me. Despite the difficulties they have created for me, I respect them. My last conclusion that I will make to you and it is the most important is that your personal qualities determine your life and you should rely only on them for a healthy relationship and good condition - healthy, financial, professional, etc. A decent man will be able to be at the North Pole as well ... And the shoddy dogs ate him even in the most luxurious barn. Despite the difficulties they have created for me, I respect them. My last conclusion that I will make to you and it is the most important is that your personal qualities determine your life and you should rely only on them for a healthy relationship and good condition - healthy, financial, professional, etc. A decent man will be able to be at the North Pole as well ... And the shoddy dogs ate him even in the most luxurious barn. Despite the difficulties they have created for me, I respect them. My last conclusion that I will make to you and it is the most important is that your personal qualities determine your life and you should rely only on them for a healthy relationship and good condition - healthy, financial, professional, etc. A decent man will be able to be at the North Pole as well ... And the shoddy dogs ate it even in the most luxurious barn.
Talk to him, share your feelings and I'm sure he will respond to them! I'm sure!! And don't go to Germany here you will find everything you need!
At 19 and you can't write a meaningful sentence? You sound like a tiger to me :) I apologize if I affect you, but your way of expressing yourself is the same, and for a girl of 19 it's a pity to say the least. I quote "a lot of bad things happened when we were together. Even when we were separated, not a lot of bad things happened, only that we missed each other a lot. When we got together, bad things happened" generally when you were together a lot of bad things happened, like have you been separated haven't many bad things happened and conclusion as you get together bad things always happen ?? I look and I can't believe my eyes. A 19-year-old girl? In general, your whole story sounds that way, not just this passage. My advice is, you grow up first and then think with who, what you want. So I don't see what you think of him, it became clear to me about your short story, that you are small and your relationship will not last long anyway. The choice is yours when you get together, don't expect that you will have a wedding, you are still young and how many more will pass until you find the right one ... You don't know if you want it, but first find out what you want, for me you go with it, because he wants you because you don't know what you want and in the end you don't suffer, but the person who knows what he wants. In conclusion, don't hurt the boy, look at your life, grow up and then think about some relationships in which you already know what you want :) and the man who knows what he wants. In conclusion, don't hurt the boy, look at your life, grow up and then think about some relationships in which you already know what you want :) and the man who knows what he wants. In conclusion, do not hurt the boy, watch your life, grow up and then think about some relationships in which you already know what you want :)