Share Your Sorrows And Problems

   I have everything, but I'm not happy.

   1, do you have a soul mate? And why do you feel this way when you have everything? Share.

   I have everything I've fought for so far for a long time professionally and that kept me alive and made me keep fighting. Now that I've overfulfilled my plan is empty and dumb and I don't see the point other than the consumer one. Personally, I'm a complete scumbag, I don't have a serious girlfriend and I don't need to spend my money on elite whores to fill the gap in myself and everything generally revolves around the consumption of life for me. Good luck to all empty souls and hope there is always a guess.

   I was not accepted to the university, I can't find a job, I have no friends and I feel depressed, as if something bad is coming, as if I will never succeed and make my dreams come true because it is difficult.

   2, abe everything is 6. I have family, love, children, work, everything. However, I want ... how to say ... whether money, whether recognition, whether personal satisfaction from success. And I have reached the ceiling in my career and above there is almost nowhere to go. To make you understand me better, I will say it this way. When I was little, I played Super Mario. The first time the game grabbed me. I'm such a person that something like that overwhelms me and until I become a specialist it doesn't give me peace. So I grabbed it and in just 2 days I could scroll it whenever I wanted. However, while you are playing, various points accumulate, which in principle are of no use, just some numbers. I rolled it for the first time with 300,000 tons in memory. Then he started telling me to scroll through it with bigger ones to improve my record. And I started as I scrolled through her to do meaningless things in the game. For example, to break bricks that are not needed, to kill turtles instead of just skipping them, just to accumulate points. Each subsequent record brought me indescribable pleasure. I tell this only as an example of my way of thinking. This thinking carried over into every aspect of my life. I graduated from the most elite high school. I fought for every meaningful and meaningless assessment, just like for Super Mario points. I competed in the Olympics, won diplomas, what not. I played all kinds of games, I was also a wrestler for many years. Well, what have I not done, just to have more "Mario" points to accumulate every time. In the same way, I rose to work, but now I have reached the ceiling. There are no more points. I tried a business, I don't become one. Over time, I began to get stuck, dulled by the monotony, the lack of challenge. My thirst for success is like an empty glass. She is thirsty and suffering because she longs for water. As you fill it, nirvana, supreme happiness. But when it is full, there is nothing more to fill, and the dependence on happiness remains. You need to take another empty glass to have something to fill. And so on until all the glasses are over. Then begins the painful lethargy. Stagnation, boredom, lack of challenge. You have to start pouring the glasses to have something to fill, and this is even more painful. In my case, it's to screw up my whole career and start learning something new. I am a recent student. I want to start something new from scratch, just to develop. It's ugly because you've reached a level in the old profession and you have to cross everything out and start from scratch. It is not easy to get a good salary and start again from a student, intern, etc. But I hope to achieve great success there in just a few years. Then who knows - in the combination of the two professions something really beautiful and valuable can come out.

   I found a job after not having it for a long time. I was quite desperate, but my luck smiled. As for love, I have no success. My last relationship was a year ago, from now on. It sucks to see how happily everyone is in love, but sometimes it happens.

   All you need is positive thinking and a new goal. The goals are to achieve and have new ones. I will give you an example: so far I have always planned my life and everything is by water. Half a year before my husband offered to marry him I knew! He decided it long after that. I just kept telling myself that I would be his fiancée then, and that's what happened. I was happy for the upcoming event, even if it was not planned by him. After the wedding: I knew when I would get pregnant ... and guess what. Months after my son was born, I knew that my husband would succeed personally, and now he has made his dream come true. Just have faith in yourself and always but always a positive thought, only SHE will help. A bit of a bonus from me: I've always admired the documentary "The Secret" .... :) From the author

   You, if you are an experienced psychologist, will not write here at all, because your schedule will be full, and in your little free time you will look after your child and husband. I think you're more of a psychology student. And I will not comment on this for the movie 'The Secret'.

   It was the "Secret" that brought me to a state of depression. It took me many years to shake off this nonsense. To dream and "believe" is not for me. I have to act, to do what is my passion and love. But it took me too many years to figure it out. It was only now that I began to study that I realized it. When I solve problems for me, everything changes. Money ceases to matter, so does realization, achievement, happiness, faith, everything ceases to matter. To find a solution to a problem, to invent creative and different ways, that's happiness for me. You see, for me, a bare and abstract faith is not enough to quench my thirst for challenge. I have to feel it, do something real, see the results and progress every day. No faith, religion or philosophy can provide that for you.

   Author, the fact that things have happened to you with "positive" thinking is great, but don't be naive. We live in a multifactorial world and rest assured we ever taste the bitter fruit. Of course, we must not give up, but we must not imagine that if we necessarily believe in something, it will certainly happen. Those who are stronger on the ground live happier.

   From the author: everyone has the right to an opinion!

   Well, 5, you just need a goal - to lose 10 kg, to make your biceps a few cm, to learn Spanish, to travel around all the countries in Asia, to draw Japanese miniatures ... This is not necessarily your profession. , can be just a hobby. And I won't even comment on the positive thinking and the "Secret" from the experienced psychologist :-) If that happened, the psychologists would have died of starvation :-)

   I support my colleague. Those who do not believe in positive thinking to try negative! Then share exactly how you achieved something by not believing in yourself. Safe from empty-headed haters.

   I have problems, but knowing how much worse there is than me, on the one hand I am grateful, and in general I think that there is hardly a person without problems. Things went wrong for me when I was 20. Before that I was taking drugs and at one point I decided to stop. Something like catharsis happened, but stopping the drugs led me into a deep depression that turned things around for me. For many years I pike in hell, but I did not give up, I went forward and still continue. I'm 28 now. In general, my life from 20 to 28 was hard, but I built a character and eventually completely cleared myself of drugs, started training and studying. I changed my life. My problem is that from 20 until now 28, I haven't had a girlfriend. And I tried with a lot of girls. It just doesn't work. Apart from that, I got an ulcer and lost weight. I am now 60 pounds, 1.72. That changed my appearance a little bit, which further complicates me. I don't know if I want advice or just to share, in general I know what I should do. To train (which I have been doing for 2 years), I am learning new things in my profession and I have plans to increase my income and start my own business, I am also improving my English. I started communicating with a lot of people. I think these things will take me in the right direction and I drive forward. If someone thinks of something to complement me, well ... I'm generally unhappy about my failed attempts at women. That's it ... but after each one I gain some experience. I started communicating with a lot of people. I think these things will take me in the right direction and I drive forward. If someone thinks of something to complement me, well ... I'm generally unhappy about my failed attempts at women. That's it ... but after each one I gain some experience. I started communicating with a lot of people. I think these things will take me in the right direction and I drive forward. If someone thinks of something to complement me, well ... I'm generally unhappy about my failed attempts at women. That's it ... but after each one I gain some experience.

   Male 31. I haven't dated a woman in 2 years. Somehow I despaired of women, but also of my approach to them. I am super-critical of myself and others, I am very complex, although I am average in almost every respect, and I am strange in my behavior. I guess the complexes come from my parents' excessive perfectionism as I grew up. But I should have overcome that, right? Here again, perfectionism and self-criticism are calling ... That's it, I don't want advice, I'm just sharing. The problem is that change is difficult, and I have to work hard and get my hands dirty by changing.

   I, on the other hand, think that The Secret is a fundamentally correct concept. Few in this life really think about what matter is and what laws it really governs. Everything, including matter, is energy that has frequency. Our thoughts are also frequency and affect matter. It is simply "denser" (hardened) energy and requires a more concentrated and long-lasting effect. Something like moving in mud. The results depend on the personal energy of each person and on the concentration of his thoughts. The problem with most people is that their thoughts and desires are extremely chaotic and uncoordinated, so they do not see the result of their "prayers" and mistakenly decide that it does not work. Separately, many people do not know exactly what they want. I've done this many times and I've had things happen to me, which I could define only as miracles. Then, taken up by everyday life, I stopped applying the technique and everything went back to normal. When I really want something and concentrate - the results are really shocking and faster ... sometimes up to a day or two. And about whether "The Secret" and psychology have something in common and whether they interfere with each other ... the author will say :)

   Up to 8! Abe is silent! She went to tell people what and how to do with life and their time! And what are these conclusions - men, children ... Someone should not decide, help, for the goodness of his heart!

   Well, the other day I complained about a topic. My damn youthfulness. A while ago, my parents made me buy them beer and cigarettes, and the bloodshotness and grinning of customers and saleswomen immediately began. I'm most angry that I've never gotten drunk or smoked, and people probably think I'm a little geek because of such purchases. They even asked me for an ID card sometimes ... The rest are student problems, but when I look at most people here, their problems are much more serious than mine. Black Sabbath

   The author definitely cannot be an adequate psychologist. I am like that and what has been said so far leads me to the following options: a) the woman thinks she is a "natural" psychologist and can help people without having studied for a year at university b) the woman is a passionate psychology student who does not yet have idea of ​​her profession c) the woman is a follower of the highly inadequate school of psychology, called "positive psychology", which many so-called. personal development counselors use and because of which a lot of people get depressed at a particular time d) maybe the topic is a joke or created out of curiosity

   I am 25 and I have a serious problem with communication, I spend about 10-12 hours in front of the computer. It is difficult for me to communicate with people, in everyday life I often use one-syllable words to answer. Like yes, no, ok, aha, well, there are times when I wonder about dulling

   The author can turn to the topic of a full and short article, and open one for punctuation before playing a psychologist. Psychologists are literate people. Psychology applies with exams in history and language culture, training goes through reading a huge amount of literature and ends with a thesis and a state exam, the profession itself also involves a lot, a lot of writing. So, until a person becomes an experienced psychologist, he inevitably becomes highly literate. At the very first lecture on general psychology, the future psychologist realizes that he is a psychologist only in his office and in the professional works he eventually writes. Not with his family, not with his social circle, not with strangers. Not because he does not want to be useful, but because he knows that the most important prerequisite for successful development of the client is the awareness of the need for psychological help, which is cut in a visit to a specialist, or in reading materials for self-help - the work of psychologists. The second thing that the future psychologist learns in the first lecture is that there is no universal cure. The third thing he learns is that such "toilet publications", as they are called in our circles, are extremely harmful to the mass consumer, as you are told, and commenters detach them from reality and deter them from action and effort. The fourth thing is that there is no such thing as positive thinking. Thinking is a process, it has no sign. There is positive energy, there is frequency vibration, there is collective consciousness, there is meaning in visualization and meditation, only when they lead to active action. Simply put, through visualization one is most clearly aware of one's purpose, experiences emotionally (not mentally) the satisfaction of achieving it. Kind of, man puts its achievement in his path, but whether he will walk this path or sit in the lotus position, waiting for a miracle is a matter of effort and action. What is useful about visualization is that its regular practice maintains focus on the goal, the experience again and again offers the emergence of new ideas for achievement, the satisfaction that a person experiences emotionally, maintains high enthusiasm, raises the vibration and after the experience, the person he feels winged, as if he has just experienced a great victory. This really equips him with strong motivation. But thinking alone, without effort, would not work. Ros waiting for a miracle is a matter of effort and action. What is useful about visualization is that its regular practice maintains focus on the goal, the experience again and again offers the emergence of new ideas for achievement, the satisfaction that a person experiences emotionally, maintains high enthusiasm, raises the vibration and after the experience, the person he feels winged, as if he has just experienced a great victory. This really equips him with strong motivation. But thinking alone, without effort, would not work. Ros waiting for a miracle is a matter of effort and action. What is useful about visualization is that its regular practice maintains focus on the goal, the experience again and again offers the emergence of new ideas for achievement, the satisfaction that a person experiences emotionally, maintains high enthusiasm, raises the vibration and after the experience, the person he feels winged, as if he has just experienced a great victory. This really equips him with strong motivation. But thinking alone, without effort, would not work. Ros it raises the vibration and after the experience, the person feels winged, as if he has just experienced a great victory. This really equips him with strong motivation. But thinking alone, without effort, would not work. Ros it raises the vibration and after the experience, the person feels winged, as if he has just experienced a great victory. This really equips him with strong motivation. But thinking alone, without effort, would not work. Ros

   My problem is that I cannot accept the fact that the majority is morally degraded. Not that it bothers me, but this fact somehow burdens me.

   A 30-year-old man. I agree with 22. The problem is that I hit him with a whore and I joined the group of the morally degraded. I used to think that men were mostly immoral, but what I saw with women exceeded all my expectations. The other problem is that I like it and it's completely non-committal. In a word, you fuck and live day by day. I have been in this condition for 6 months, after I caught my fiancée with a mold. We were getting married now in September, but there was no wedding. And so I don't trust anyone, I don't need a future. I don't trust a woman anymore. I make good money, but I throw it at whores. Emmy, I'm so good. I don't think about anything else.

   Hello, I am writing about me, because I am bored and in a bad mood anyway (I have similar periods in which I rethink everything). I study at a prestigious university and I am quite happy with what I study, I have been training for several years and I am in good shape, I would say that I am quite an adequate thinking person, sometimes I even notice how different I am and the right people notice it, I like to read, I develop spiritually and culturally, I discuss various topics. I would define myself as a very positive and strong person (that is, I'm fine), but the problem comes with girls, I'm quite critical because I've been very hurt before, I'm always myself among girls and I think I stand out, but in no way do they give indications that I am attracted to them, and if there are any, I continue to look at the situation conservatively and pretend that there is nothing (I don't think that I am the predator I must be). I am currently chatting with a very smart and nice girl, she says that I am extremely principled, smart and funny (we have not seen each other), the problem is that I always take everything seriously, I get attached and angry too quickly, from 1 day and We haven't written to each other half because she's just waiting for her to write to me first (I can't always write first, and for the moment she hasn't started the conversation, no matter how much she enjoys writing to each other, when we write we write for hours and increasingly important topics, I notice that we are absolutely always in agreement, but the problem is that when I do not write so I get more and more annoyed-crushed) I asked her once if she wants to meet, and she replied that first would like to meet and then see you, over time he started asking me things that make me think he has some intentions, he asked me about my height, what I train, etc. everything seems right, but the problem is that I quickly lose interest because I'm filming that I either pushed her away or she doesn't want us to write to each other. I don't even know why I'm writing this, but they say it's so easy, and who knows, I might get adequate advice and everything will be fine :)

   Number 16, "certainly" many miracles have happened to you ... I know some, they are already in a madhouse (I'm not kidding). The same nonsense as the author. He and Hitler thought like you, he had a clear goal, but the Russians cut him, you will probably be cut short. There is obviously total chaos in your thoughts, visit a good specialist, I tell you with the best feelings, don't take it personally.

   Number 13, it's one thing not to believe in yourself, it's another to think that your positive thinking guarantees success. You just don't have to go to extremes. Look at number 16, how far it has come. Thoughts were hardened energy ... and with that haters ... a big argument. People are just obviously firmly on the ground and pursuing their goals. Visualization really helps, it's like when an engineer draws his project, but you don't have to go to extremes there either.

   Up to 18 This is not a problem darling, this is bragging.

   I am a man of 26. I literally know 2 and 200 in my life. There was a period when I had a lot of money, and as a student from a normal family I saw myself in money and started spending like crazy. I didn't know what to do with them, I bought branded and expensive clothes for thousands, ate only in luxury restaurants and gave crazy money for anything. I had free time in pain, and women were constantly looking for me because of the money. And that's when I realized that money is not the answer to all problems. I felt so empty, so depressed, that I didn't know what to do with myself. And just then the wheel turned 180 degrees. I was able to count the pennies, the yellow pennies for bread. I melted in a pan with oil and bread because I had nothing else to eat. Betrayal by a man who called me his friend. I also dropped out of university because of poor performance and many missed lectures and exercises. They took out a loan in my name in an unknown way, by fraud and I had to repay it. I took on thousands of other loans to pay everything off, but it took me 3-4 years. Creditors started looking for me every day and threatening me, even going to court. Even for me, not knowing how I managed everything, I paid all a few thousand to friends, rents, loans to banks and even to the landlady, to whom I owed 2000 thousand, that I lived in her apartment without paying for some time. And now, at 26, it's like I'm born again. As funny and strange as it may sound, I began to find pleasure in simple things, such as walking and feeling alive and free without worries. And so 1-2 years in which I enjoyed my peace of mind so far. I work an unenviable job that does not require higher education. It's as if I've just been born and I'm ready to start my life over and over again. The answer is not in the money, but it is better to have it. The invaluable advice I can give you, and I have learned, is to treat people well, because I have allowed myself to be arrogant and to act as if I have caught the Lord by the train. There is karma and what we do returns to our lives even after years. Find meaning in something that gives you pleasure and do not pursue money, but try to be of benefit to society, create a product that brings meaning to you and others. And most of all, rejoice that you are alive. This is the meaning of life, in life itself. There is no point in just rejoicing that we are alive and living here and now. This from me. Good luck to all M26 but it is better to have them. The invaluable advice I can give you, and I have learned, is to treat people well, because I have allowed myself to be arrogant and to act as if I have caught the Lord by the train. There is karma and what we do returns to our lives even after years. Find meaning in something that gives you pleasure and do not pursue money, but try to be of benefit to society, create a product that makes sense to you and others. And most of all, rejoice that you are alive. This is the meaning of life, in life itself. There is no point in just rejoicing that we are alive and living here and now. This from me. Good luck to all M26 but it is better to have them. The invaluable advice I can give you, and I have learned, is to treat people well, because I have allowed myself to be arrogant and to act as if I have caught the Lord by the train. There is karma and what we do returns to our lives even after years. Find meaning in something that gives you pleasure and do not pursue money, but try to be of benefit to society, create a product that makes sense to you and others. And most of all, rejoice that you are alive. This is the meaning of life, in life itself. There is no point in just rejoicing that we are alive and living here and now. This from me. Good luck to all M26 There is karma and what we do returns to our lives even after years. Find meaning in something that gives you pleasure and do not pursue money, but try to be of benefit to society, create a product that makes sense to you and others. And most of all, rejoice that you are alive. This is the meaning of life, in life itself. There is no point in just rejoicing that we are alive and living here and now. This from me. Good luck to all M26 There is karma and what we do returns to our lives even after years. Find meaning in something that gives you pleasure and do not pursue money, but try to be of benefit to society, create a product that makes sense to you and others. And most of all, rejoice that you are alive. This is the meaning of life, in life itself. There is no point in just rejoicing that we are alive and living here and now. This from me. Good luck to all M26 that we are alive and living here and now. This from me. Good luck to all M26 that we are alive and living here and now. This from me. Good luck to all M26

   I am married with three children, my husband has been abroad for two years, he comes home every few months for two weeks. He left because he had gambling debts, he was paid a little less. He sends money to cover his debts and home expenses. For now, I deal with all the tasks related to the family, housework, taking the children to kindergarten and school, paying bills, keeping a doctor, etc. In practice, I have forgotten myself in my daily tasks. I don't weigh a gram, I can spend another five years like that, but the problem is that I feel underestimated by my husband. He realizes very well that without a family there is nothing, but he does not admit that I have merit for something. His friends keep telling him that "there is a golden woman" and that another would not tolerate him for a day, but he does not hear or hear. Worship yourself, we don't go out without children, when he comes home, he always finds excuses, I feel like a babysitter to his children and so on. It never crossed my mind to cheat, because I respect my choice and my children, I don't know, he may have another, although he didn't give me reason to doubt, but you never know. I have decided not to blame myself and to stop thinking that I am doing something wrong, I am looking after my children and that is it, but it is getting harder and harder for me and I do not know how long I will be able to live like this. I am not a naive kid, I have long since stopped believing in people and in love, the only thing I have a heart for are my children. Ж32г I have decided not to blame myself and to stop thinking that I am doing something wrong, I am looking after my children and that is it, but it is getting harder and harder for me and I do not know how long I will be able to live like this. I am not a naive kid, I have long since stopped believing in people and in love, the only thing I have a heart for are my children. Ж32г I have decided not to blame myself and to stop thinking that I am doing something wrong, I am looking after my children and that is it, but it is getting harder and harder for me and I do not know how long I will be able to live like this. I am not a naive kid, I have long since stopped believing in people and in love, the only thing I have a heart for are my children. Ж32г

   I have no one to have good sex with.

   Author, don't make fun of people, because someone can really be tied to the fact that they will receive a free consultation from a psychologist. I have been visiting a psychotherapist for many years and I cannot imagine Dr. J., even if he is familiar with this site, to offer his services and most importantly - to find time to write and answer questions on his schedule. Please understand that this is a very serious responsibility. "Popular" psychology does more harm than good. If you are a first year student, you should already know it. Should a woman who is systematically abused be terribly positive? According to you - yes! If she starts jumping for joy, her husband will stop beating her. Singing and clapping that a train has hit us? If he thinks positively, will the cripple heal? This is nonsense. People have problems. These problems are not solved by ignoring them, and with action. The job of the psychologist is to encourage the SPECIFIC client to prioritize in his mind, to channel his emotions and to make his own decisions that will improve his life. The "experienced psychologist", as you present yourself, absolutely never takes the responsibility to give advice. Never! It simply helps the person find the most effective strategy for dealing with the problem. It is good, author, that you have the dream to work as a psychologist, but first learning and then practice. From now on, you are irresponsible about your profession. Do you realize what would happen if someone here pretended to be an internal medicine doctor and started giving "free" advice and recommending medication to people suffering from diabetes, ulcers or hypertension? Please moderators also pay attention to this possibility! And the writers in this topic - do not be so trusting as to follow the author's mind, because the consequences may be to your detriment. Have fun, share your worries, but by no means assume that the answers come from a professional psychologist.

   27, it's a boast for you, it's a problem for me to be considered a "child", provided I'm a young woman of 21. It's insulting. Black Sabbath

   Why do psychologists charge 50 lebans for an hour of sitting ...

   I write not because I believe that the author is a psychologist, but just to tell myself my torments, haha. I'm an 18-year-old girl and I don't know what I want out of life, I don't have a clear goal and in general some talent or something I'm good at. I enrolled in a specialty that I don't like at all and I don't know how things will develop. Abe, in general, I am extremely disoriented in what I want and that is exactly my problem.

   Black Saturday has the most serious problems. But she doesn't realize that they don't concern her youthfulness at all. And her psyche.

   To brag too! I'm on top of happiness, because "Since Monday - no joke" - as it was sung in that song of the Argirov brothers! Because I'm really going to start working at Cable Tech! I will work for what I have studied! And today I went to get my master's degree in SOST at the University of Shumen! And tomorrow I will go to have my contract drawn up and start work on Monday! The most important thing was that you performed well at the interview - the appointment was for 10.00, minutes before I called the manager, he said he would meet me, then we went upstairs! In fact, most of the time he talked about what salary I would get, business trips and more. And the problem with finding a job is not the education, but the fact that I don't have experience yet, and I'm already 36, I don't even have a driver's license! These are the stumbling blocks when looking for a job! This company is the most suitable, because there are no requirements for internship and driver's license, both experienced people and young professionals are wanted! This Monday I published a CV, with my coordinates and the next day Desimir Atarasov called me to specify the date and time of the interview! As we know, the first impression is the most important, and that is that I came on time! In fact, I waited outside at the bus stop and as the time approached, I called the manager! After the interview, he took pictures of the documents to give to the secretary and we shook hands! Now it remains to bring a criminal record and medical, as well as a diploma, to specify where I will work, as well as transport! Some said above that they have taken out loans, which is very bad - and if you go to court, the chance of getting a job is greatly reduced! Here's another stumbling block! Drugs and alcohol also have a very bad effect and a person becomes incapacitated! And on the second day there is a dismissal - we work in the field, with tools, with mounting bodies and many others! And the boss will not tolerate someone to squat or get out of work, because he is inadequate, as well as to smoke outside of rest time! And with that, the deadlines are lost - let's say that the cables have to be released today, because tomorrow the smoke sensors, the cameras, etc. will be installed! No one can do what he wants if he wants to stay at work and get paid - he has to work with others! Leave these loans, mosquitoes and drugs - they will not give you happiness, but will only turn your life around! I have already realized myself on the labor market, as they say, I am clean everywhere, both before and now, and it will be in the future! And this is one of the few companies that lends a hand to people like me and I would never fail! This is from me!

   One of my biggest problems is that in general I have always felt super lonely since I can remember. It was often and purely physical, but even when I had company and a circle of people to go out and share with, I still felt a great loneliness - a feeling that you have no one close, no one really concerned about you, no one who to like your soul. I'm not adaptable and that plays a bad joke on me when I change the situation. I often feel that I am not good for anything, that there is nothing in which I am good and have a chance to succeed. But I struggle to change it.

   My loved one died soon. This is the greatest sorrow

   I see the alleged psychologist herself writing comments in which she supports the "colleague". Crazy work.

   This topic comes to me just in time. My dog ​​is lost and my grief is unbearable. He was a great friend of mine and now I don't know how to find him. Has it ever happened to someone that a lost dog returns only after a while? For cats, I'm sure, I've had a case of a cat coming back in a month, but I don't know about dogs. I look for it every day, but to no avail. How do you alleviate grief?

   39, yes, and I have now noticed on the hash that 13 is her comment. Not bad, he wants to help the woman, but the road to hell is littered with good intentions.

   35, you first graduated in psychiatry, then speak on the question of who has mental health problems. In this country you have become great experts in everything, without having a mind for two cents. Black Sabbath

   I am №40, today is a great day for me, while I complained of unbearable grief for my dog, I am already very happy, because I found it a while ago and we are together again. This shows that sorrow and happiness go hand in hand. We should not despair, the people who claim that only positive thinking is constructive are right, even with the biggest pessimists!

   BS, we don't have a mind for 2 cents, but you compensate for everyone.

   Heh, you are great psychologists L) But this site has existed since the time when most of you walked straight under the table. Yes, there were good psychologists here, but they stopped writing, perhaps because of the simplification of the audience and censorship. 

   44, if you had a mind for two cents, you would know that mental health problems are not identified on an anonymous site and without the necessary education. Unfortunately, however, nature has harmed you intellectually and you cannot understand it. So it's not me who's compensating, it's you. And you compensate for me, for which I thank you. :) Black Sabbath

   Up to 46 Ugh, your opinion is a laughing stock. People make fun of you and pull your strings to see how you react. It's like having a mentally retarded person in class and doing it on a clown ...

   My biggest grief ... I'm in love with a friend. I am 28 years old, I have had relationships with men all my life, but I like women and I can't share it with anyone. My friends would never accept it, nor would my relatives. I have two lesbian friends, but I can't even share with them because they think I'm super straight and straightforward. They will tell themselves that I have a temporary passion. I feel hellishly lonely. I want a relationship and family comfort, but I can't have it with the person I love ... My whole life is a lie that tires me day after day ... I don't know what to do

   46, if you see someone who experiences himself as Napoleon (for example), will you need a degree in psychiatry to know that this person ... how can I say it more delicately ... is not like the others? Or if someone coughs and has a fever, do you have to be a doctor to know they are not completely healthy?

   48, what if what people think of you turns out to be wrong? What does it matter if they decide that this is temporary or that it is your essence? What if someone doesn't accept what you are? What will change, depending on who accepts it? What if you don't meet expectations for you? Will you live your whole life to meet other people's expectations?