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Sharing What Bothers Me, If You Can Help Me In Any Way, Will Be More Than Great

By little_pussy1 September 08, 2020 19 answers Last updated September 08, 2020

Hi, I'm a 16 year old girl. Now I just want to share with you what bothers me. So I have acne, my whole face is in pimples, which I'm desperately trying to get rid of. 2 treatment options, one helps (currently) very little. I will not try the second one posthumously, because I like my health and I do not want to spoil it, because even then it is not certain whether these nasty pimples will be removed. This is a very big problem for me. We threw a lot of money to the wind and nothing helps. I'm already desperate. I am currently writing and roaring. And with the medicine I'm anointed with and the tears flowing, I feel like my skin is burning. I am already sick of it. I have no self-confidence and I am not sure of anything. Even my little brother doesn't want to kiss me on the cheek because of these crazy pimples. My father saw this and saw that I was very upset and now he kisses me all day on the cheek. This is the most enjoyable part of the day for me. At school what to say. I'm scary looking, literally. I am very ashamed. I walk past the boy I like and greet him and wonder what he thinks of me. Who would like me at all, no one is so stupid. Nowadays, when I know that everyone looks at their appearance, I just don't know how I have girlfriends. I don't even know if they're real, they can just use me. I've never had real girlfriends, these may be - we share things, we help each other and they help me a lot, that seems to make them right. How many times have I heard "do you do anything about pimples". I hate to hear that, like I don't know I have. You must be thinking, "She's being shaken by hormones now," who knows, that might be true. And this, I'm currently on a cycle is right the icing on the cake. I don't like myself at all, I hate myself, who knows if I'm depressed about them anymore. Even the ugly duckling is better than me. And I can't compare myself to Shrek, how can I compare myself to such a beautiful creature. Compared to me, Shrek is a wrist. I'm just tired of how many years I've been struggling with these fucking pimples, they go away and come out again. My self-esteem is as low as the height of an ant. Just no more leg to go on, I think that's enough not to last very long. That I can barely see the letters from my tear-filled eyes anyway. And for that I apologize if there are mistakes I just wanted to share, if there is anything to say, I will gladly listen to you for how many years have I been struggling with these fucking pimples, getting rid of them and going out again. My self-esteem is as low as the height of an ant. Just no more leg to go on, I think that's enough not to last very long. That I can barely see the letters from my tear-filled eyes anyway. And for that I apologize if there are mistakes I just wanted to share, if there is anything to say, I will gladly listen to you for how many years have I been struggling with these fucking pimples, getting rid of them and going out again. My self-esteem is as low as the height of an ant. Just no more leg to go on, I think that's enough not to last very long. That I can barely see the letters from my tear-filled eyes anyway. And for that I apologize if there are mistakes I just wanted to share, if there is anything to say, I will gladly listen to you

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ariahayze answered · September 08, 2020

   Try salicylic alcohol and creams for relief. It takes time for the skin to respond to its healing properties.

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ilovedirtysexhehe answered · September 08, 2020

   You are still very young. Yes, this is important, take care of yourself and look your best. But have you ever wondered how many people today had nothing to eat? How many have not had the opportunity to sleep in a warm bed like you, and to put on some normal clothes. How many people voted yesterday. Mothers, children, babies. So many things to thank God for. You have to grow up

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ben_hung_uk answered · September 08, 2020

   Darling, I understand you very well! I am 22 years old woman and I am still struggling with this problem. It came to me even much later. At puberty I did not have 1 pimples and I had baby skin. They appeared to me 2-3 years ago. I went to beauticians, the best dermatologists in Sofia and NOTHING. I threw so much money on ointments, medicines and expensive cosmetics that I do not think .. I tried to treat myself and try different ways and the truth is that I am successful with the following scheme: 1. Go to cleaning absolutely every month with a good beautician . 2. When you can, don't put on foundation and get an expensive and nice one not from Lily, etc. My personal "Yves saint laurent" is expensive, but it's not rubbish. 3. Wash your face nicely in the morning and evening with cosmetics recommended for your skin by a dermatologist and beautician (cleansing gel, tonic plus cream) so that you don't have any dirt on the cotton 4. Do not use cosmetics from Lily, DM, etc. only medical 5. Do not eat at least until you get better dairy products, salami, chips, greasy, chocolate 6. Wash your fungus, brushes and things that you put on makeup every 2-3 days 7. Do not touch your face alone - to squeeze, pick and so on. You can just rub a pile of ice and then let the water dry on its own! 8. Don't rub your face with the bath towel that everyone uses. Have a separate one only for you and your face (change it every 2-3 days) 9. MANDATORY WATER! He drinks a lot of water. Avoid juices, cola, sodas and drinks with a lot of sugar. There is quite a big improvement for me. Good luck. I squeeze my thumbs and head up :) I know that whatever I go and calm you down won't help. For me personally, it ruined my self-esteem a lot, especially in those 19-20 years when everyone has perfect skin, past puberty and are no longer expected to have such problems, but UVI. It's not just you believe me!

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vixenharlot answered · September 08, 2020

   Hello! Read the topic: Ugly, annoying and permanent acne - help this link http: // spodeli. net / 7 / story-143446. html There are many useful tips. Success! One piece of advice from me (I am the mother of a struggling girl with acne) is to test your hormones and monitor your cycle. You may be surprised, but a lot depends on it. My daughter had a broken cycle and a lot of pimples came out during that time. I also took her to a gynecologist. They gave her pills, which she took for three months on a schedule. Things got better. Talk to your parents and look for a solution together, but don't do anything alone. Good luck and write what happens!

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girode answered · September 08, 2020

   There is not much to do. The most important thing is to accept yourself. The light in the tunnel is the fact that after puberty you will not have this problem. In the interest of truth, the preparations do not help you, they are more often harmful. Nutrition is far more important, as is the lack of stress. Most of all: NO sweet. If you eat desserts, then you are fine in its current state.

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dareah_ answered · September 08, 2020

   Honey, believe me, it's normal at this age. It depends on many things, just some people have more pimples and others less. But it will fade away. Don't worry about the boys, they have this problem too. It's not worth crying and thinking the world is over. I am a man, if I fall in love with someone, there is no way any pimples can change my feelings. Tiny, drive it more calmly, don't worry and be careful.

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paolaturani answered · September 09, 2020

   Pan Oxyl 10% Benzoyl I was worse than you and this American cream destroys every pimple quickly and the spots too and they start to appear less and less on your face and body until they disappear. I have been applying it for 5 months now and I don't have a single pimple. I continue to apply prophylactically only once a week to kill the bacteria that are responsible for acne on my skin. I ordered Pan Oxyl 10% from Amazon and I also ordered from Ebay. The 5% cream came too weak, but try it if you want.

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andybovine answered · September 09, 2020

   Dear girl, I am 22 and I also went through a problem similar to yours, I had pus pimples and they affected my self-esteem. When I went to school, I wore a ton of makeup on my face to look like a human. I went to the doctors all the time and wondered what I was doing. Maybe your age is such that you now get pimples. My advice is to go to a PRIVATE dermatologist to prepare a treatment especially for you. He doesn't go to the state ones because he doesn't care about them. I personally did this for a while and came across a doctor who prescribed me Acne Out and I used it to clean my skin in the morning, and in the evening I took a cotton ball and soaked it in salicylic alcohol and went all over my face. Alcohol rests the face and dries the pimples. Years have passed like this and now my skin is perfect, I don't have a single pimple. Another thing you need to do is emphasize your diet. As I know you teens eat only pizzas and donuts. Start eating healthy, stop bread, soda, chocolate and junk food. Eat more salad, vegetables, mom's cooking, fruits. Pimples are a major problem of poor nutrition, personally I have changed my diet. Another important thing is to talk to a dermatologist to let you have hormone tests. In hormonal problems, pimples kill. There are antibiotics that are drunk and help cleanse the skin. Read what I wrote to your parents and they will better understand what I mean. Do all this and I am sure you will succeed. Doctors will also advise you not to put on any makeup, which is correct, but I applied tons of makeup and recovered again. As I know you teens eat only pizzas and donuts. Start eating healthy, stop bread, soda, chocolate and junk food. Eat more salad, vegetables, mom's cooking, fruits. Pimples are a major problem of poor nutrition, personally I have changed my diet. Another important thing is to talk to a dermatologist to let you have hormone tests. In hormonal problems, pimples kill. There are antibiotics that are drunk and help cleanse the skin. Read what I wrote to your parents and they will better understand what I mean. Do all this and I am sure you will succeed. Doctors will also advise you not to put on any makeup, which is correct, but I applied tons of makeup and recovered again. As I know you teens eat only pizzas and donuts. Start eating healthy, stop bread, soda, chocolate and junk food. Eat more salad, vegetables, mom's cooking, fruits. Pimples are a major problem of poor nutrition, personally I have changed my diet. Another important thing is to talk to a dermatologist to let you have hormone tests. In hormonal problems, pimples kill. There are antibiotics that are drunk and help to clear the skin. Read what I wrote to your parents and they will better understand what I mean. Do all this and I am sure you will succeed. Doctors will also advise you not to put on any makeup, which is correct, but I applied tons of makeup and recovered again. Mom's cooked fruit. Pimples are a major problem of poor nutrition, personally I have changed my diet. Another important thing is to talk to a dermatologist to let you have hormone tests. In hormonal problems, pimples kill. There are antibiotics that are drunk and help cleanse the skin. Read what I wrote to your parents and they will better understand what I mean. Do all this and I am sure you will succeed. Doctors will also advise you not to put on any makeup, which is correct, but I applied tons of makeup and recovered again. Mom's cooked fruit. Pimples are a major problem of poor nutrition, personally I have changed my diet. Another important thing is to talk to a dermatologist to let you have hormone tests. In hormonal problems, pimples kill. There are antibiotics that are drunk and help to clear the skin. Read what I wrote to your parents and they will better understand what I mean. Do all this and I am sure you will succeed. Doctors will also advise you not to put on any makeup, which is correct, but I applied tons of makeup and recovered again. Read what I wrote to your parents and they will better understand what I mean. Do all this and I am sure you will succeed. Doctors will also advise you not to put on any makeup, which is correct, but I applied tons of makeup and recovered again. Read what I wrote to your parents and they will better understand what I mean. Do all this and I am sure you will succeed. Doctors will also advise you not to put on any makeup, which is correct, but I applied tons of makeup and recovered again.

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anabell_15 answered · September 09, 2020

   It helps me cleanse my face with a tonic and then with an ugricept. Try it, Russian cosmetics are and are of high quality and cost BGN 5 success and don't worry so much about some pimples, they will pass in one stage, build as a person and upgrade

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kuanhung_ answered · September 10, 2020

   i use vertera. my problem is skin too. I drink from the basic gel and you can also use it as a mask. find a person who is a partner and order

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sambuca_7 answered · September 10, 2020

   Hello lovely girl! Do not despair, you will deal with acne and everything will be fine. I had severe facial skin problems that suddenly appeared when I was 20 and the torture lasted 6-7 years. I know what it's like to look in the mirror and roar. I don't know what city you are from, but I can recommend the dermatological clinic legeartis, they helped me. This is not an advertisement, it was just my last stop and these people are really looking for an adequate way to deal with skin problems. Do not doubt your friends, they probably accept you as you are, this is the real friendship and it does not matter who looks like what and who is what kind of person. Do not give up on yourself, everything will be fine :) You have a lot of time in front of you you are! :)

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bigboyblue123 answered · September 10, 2020

   Stop eating bread, snacks, pasta and dairy products for a month, drink at least 2 liters of water a day and the problem will disappear! Proven and effective after a year of struggling with all sorts of expensive recipes and smearing myself with all sorts of things, which only burned and peeled my skin without the nasty pimples disappearing. Only a sharp change in diet helps.

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ecjacuipenseoficial answered · September 11, 2020

   Hello dear girl, I am a 20-year-old boy. I have been battling damn acne since I was 13 and I still have pimples to this day. Of course, it used to be awful. I remember very well how I woke up and my first job was to go to the mirror to see how many new pimples I have. I remember not looking people in the eye so that they wouldn't see my face all the time. Like you, I had tried everything. From the cheapest to the most expensive cosmetics on the market. Nothing worked ... However, over the years they decreased. They are now almost extinct. I can offer you some tips that you have probably heard hundreds of times. First, avoid sweets and especially chocolate. Drink larger amounts of water, but do not overdo it. Stop all kinds of processed foods like chips, snacks, etc. Reduce or stop caffeine. Carbonated drinks are your enemy too. And lastly, but not least, don't forget to smile, because that's how you are the most beautiful :). Good luck, you have my support!

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masked_siren answered · September 11, 2020

   Try taking Vitamin C and Zinc. He helped me. Otherwise, I would like you, as long as you are kind. : D Real things are not visible to the naked eye.

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voluptuousvictoria answered · September 11, 2020

   Dear girl, calm down, everything will be fine. You are only 16 now, believe me in 10 years you will have forgotten about all this. It's just that you have more acne-prone skin and your hormones aren't normalized. Everything will be alright! Try to drink vitamins for skin, hair and body. They help a lot. Try drinking brewer's yeast as well. Remember that the problem comes from within. Exercise more and enjoy life! Success!

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bpdbitchez answered · September 12, 2020

   I had a similar problem with acne, it turned out that I just had to stop any food with sugar in it and milk. After about 2 weeks the result was already visible, and after a month I no longer had pimples. (also reduce pasta if you plan to try)

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giuliettacavaglia answered · September 12, 2020

   Hello dear. It's really unpleasant, I understand you perfectly, but I don't think it's worth hating yourself for something you're not guilty of. I know, it's hard for you, but don't hate it, because it will have consequences for your future as well! I say it from personal experience. For example, from a young age I started to lose a lot of hair. At 12 I already had an awful lot of hair on my arms, legs, stomach, chest, I had a visible mustache and I even had a lot of hair on my cheeks. I had a lot more hair than the boys. I was a forest of black, thick hair. At school and in my neighborhood, I was ridiculed, told that I looked like an animal, called a "mustache," "hairy hands," and similar names I didn't even want to remember. Every day they reminded me that I was hairy, as if I didn't see it. I felt terrible, miserable, I hated my body in no time, I stopped perceiving myself as a girl, let alone a beautiful one. All the girls around me looked so good, the boys treated them with respect. Then I had the feeling that I was the only one who felt bad, everyone seemed so happy. I hated myself more than anything and was too harsh with myself. I created complexes, I lost all my friends. Over time, I began to get rid of hair. Her from a beautician, her from home with an epilator, wax mask, strips. I bleach the hair on my cheeks with hair dye. All this is an incredible pain for a person with so much and thick hair, but I grit my teeth. And at one point, I looked like a human. I went to new circles, people no longer associated me with hair, I looked better now, I could wear whatever I wanted, I even slept, I looked like a beautiful girl, but you know ... I didn't stop hating myself. For these years I was so used to not perceiving myself, to despise myself in front of the mirror. Makeup, long hair, beautiful dress, slim waist, compliments, nothing helped me to perceive and love. Deep injuries from the taunts remained. I continue to be harsh with myself, to have low self-esteem, and this prevents me from living a normal life. I keep thinking that someone will still make fun of me for something, so I curl up in the corner. You know there's a girl in my class. Her face is full of pimples and blemishes, but that doesn't stop her. She sings, dances, has self-confidence and looks happy. Girls, boys, everyone talks to her and accepts her as nice company. The pimples don't bother her. I don't have pimples, but almost no one wants to talk to me, nor have I had a boyfriend. Another girl from my former class also had a lot of spots and pimples on her face. But she had confidence, she was fun, and that's why a lot of guys wanted to go out with her. What I mean is that if you don't like yourself - and people won't like you, if you don't respect yourself - no one will respect you. Even if your pimples disappear, you will start looking for other "flaws" because you will be used to despising yourself. So please don't make my mistake of hating yourself, then the wounds get deeper. Don't think that others are more than you. We are all equal. It's hard to love yourself, but start to respect yourself little by little, just don't hate yourself. If people like your character, no one will see the pimples. Once again, I am sorry for what you are going through and I wish you success. I believe you will find a cure. F20 that if you don't like yourself - and people won't like you, if you don't respect yourself - no one will respect you. Even if your pimples disappear, you will start looking for other "flaws" because you will be used to despising yourself. So please don't make my mistake to hate you, then the wounds get deeper. Don't think that others are more than you. We are all equal. It's hard to love yourself, but start to respect yourself little by little, just don't hate yourself. If people like your character, no one will see the pimples. Once again, I am sorry for what you are going through and I wish you success. I believe you will find a cure. F20 that if you don't like yourself - and people won't like you, if you don't respect yourself - no one will respect you. Even if your pimples disappear, you will start looking for other "flaws" because you will be used to despising yourself. So please don't make my mistake of hating yourself, then the wounds get deeper. Don't think that others are more than you. We are all equal. It's hard to love yourself, but start to respect yourself little by little, just don't hate yourself. If people like your character, no one will see the pimples. Once again, I am sorry for what you are going through and I wish you success. I believe you will find a cure. F20 So please don't make my mistake to hate you, then the wounds get deeper. Don't think that others are more than you. We are all equal. It's hard to love yourself, but start to respect yourself little by little, just don't hate yourself. If people like your character, no one will see the pimples. Once again, I am sorry for what you are going through and I wish you success. I believe you will find a cure. F20 So please don't make my mistake of hating yourself, then the wounds get deeper. Don't think that others are more than you. We are all equal. It's hard to love yourself, but start to respect yourself little by little, just don't hate yourself. If people like your character, no one will see the pimples. Once again, I am sorry for what you are going through and I wish you success. I believe you will find a cure. F20

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syn_summer answered · September 12, 2020

   Hi, I'm a girl your age too and I totally understand you. And I have pimples that I struggle with every day. But in so many years of battling acne, I've learned something I'm going to share with you now: "Having pimples is perfectly normal, we're developing the most right now, so calm down. Don't lose your self-esteem because of the pimples. on your face, just smile at them and know that there will come a time when you won't even have pimples at all, think only about this day and don't take pimples as the most horrible thing in life, believe me. bad and traumatic events happen to people.This with pimples is the smallest thing.In the beginning I thought just like you, I hated myself and I didn't even feel like going out in front of people at all.But to make it easier for you I would advise you to buy Acne Out on Biotrade. This is a lotion with activated charcoal that is applied to the pimple area in the morning and evening with a tampon. In the beginning, when I had a lot of pimples, a dermatologist had advised me about this lotion. You can find it in cosmetic pharmacies. I advise you to buy it, because thanks to this lotion I have almost no pimples, of course I could not have any pimples at all if I use it constantly, but since I have not used it for several months it is normal to have small pimples here and there. If it didn't work for me, I wouldn't recommend it to you, but if you decide to buy it, you have to be patient. There is no way it will have an effect from the first or the second, the third time. But you will see that your face will gradually improve. If I helped with something at least a little, I would be very happy. the little thing.

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dangerouslady answered · September 13, 2020

   Hi, I live in Germany and I can tell you that creams and anything don't make sense. Your doctor is right that everything is hormonal. I know it will be strange for you, but here you go to a gynecologist and he prescribes you contraceptives! He understood me exactly .... Only that they are also hormone-based and this will help you smooth the skin, but not get rid of it 100%. They will completely disappear when you have a permanent partner. I know it sounds ridiculous, but I know people who have been battling acne all their lives, and whatever it is. So it's your choice and at least be afraid of contraceptives .... If it works, you still lose nothing and good luck DM