Hello. I'm 23 years old. I have been in a relationship with a girl 3 years older than me for about a year. For a negative time, I fell in love like I never had before. During this we had problems, we parted once, but we got together and everything was fine until a few days ago. She told me that her ex was coming home from abroad for two weeks and that I shouldn't look for her during that period because she wanted to see him and she wasn't sure what she wanted, she wasn't sure how she felt about me and whether she still loved him. What should I do, should I wait, does it make sense in your opinion?
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If you have to wait for her to decide what she FEELS, then you have already lost the battle. If she hasn't understood in 1 year that you are the person, when do you think she will understand it? Don't waste your time, that's my opinion.
Are you seriously asking if you are waiting? !! So the girl in a straightforward text tells you that you will always be second, filling time until the one she thinks is drunk, no matter whether the former or the other. If she doesn't confuse you during these two weeks, then have fun with others, then if she looks for you, if you have already adjusted to fill time with her. To be sexy without unnecessary emotions. If, however, you cannot see her in this way, you better beat yourself with a whip and even if she looks for you after that time, do not go back. Tell her that a page is already closed for you and this is it. To do this for you, she speaks very clearly about your relationship, you - an obedient and faithful puppy, always available for her, she ... your ridiculous, unrealistic hope . It will not change, you cannot trust it now or in the future. Point and end!
What does "should I wait" mean - you will wait for the favor of WHO? What is this brazen duck thinking about? Do you respect yourself ... and does she respect you ...? Do you enjoy being a backup option? She is not sure what she wants - but first she has to grow up to learn that she cannot have everything and everyone when she wants and be responsible for her decisions and choices! How do you like the situation from the side ?? But you can't see her from the side because you lost your heart .. It sounds to me like "wait for me to fuck once with the ex, if I don't feel something specific - I'll come back to you (so that someone can run to me) after the ass), until I find someone else - more suitable ... I know that it hurts and you are confused, but if you can gather strength and beat her jester with force!
She knows very well what she wants ... she wants him! Don't be the backup! Have a little dignity and leave.
boy, get tight if you don't want to watch her and the child from the previous one in time
Unfortunately, it is very clear to me what she wants ... Her ex will come and she wants to be with him during this time, without disturbing her ... And then she can come back to you without "weighing" of conscience "that she cheated on you. My advice is not to let yourself be trampled in this way. Either you tell her to decide now, but that you won't wait for her, or you just drop her and move on. I wish you to meet mutual love, in the face of a more accurate babe. Success! F26
Abe dude, how can you let some bastard play you like that? !? !? If she tells you such things directly, you are nobody to her. There is nothing more insulting than a woman holding you on the bench! Now she will fuck with the man who is a thrill, and then if she gets bored and has sex, she will call you and tell you them hot and cold. You fuck her like that. If it's only for sex, it's ok for you to waste emotions on such a patch, it's just crazy. The truth is, he's just trying to get you out more delicately.
Number 4- if "She knows very well what she wants ... she wants him!" - why not abandon the author and go to her ex with clear feelings? !! The answer is: Because she is a stupid sheep and thinks that she can weave on both looms in parallel, but she is too stupid and indecisive to show character and make a definite choice! Besides, she is obviously brazen to the point of outrage and insolent in essence, but since there is someone to tolerate her cheap, whore tricks and ask us what to do ..!? - ok, who ordered it in the end.