Hello, we are both over 20, we like each other a lot and we have a good time. We've been dating for a few months now and I'm starting to feel weird after we don't have any intimate relationships other than kisses. She doesn't even let me kiss her on the body except her neck. I started thinking things like is it possible to be a virgin? Or does he just want to be friends? But he keeps kissing me passionately and gets aroused and says that the time has not come yet, and I'm already thinking what ... and even that he's having sex with someone else.
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There is a female maxim that women (most I think so) invariably follow. The longer you don't let him, the better. Some attribute it to the fact that sex after a few months of relationship will make them "light". Others use it as a weapon ... that is, the more time you don't give him, the more interesting you become. Every woman has a circle of girlfriends. Here are some of the most common phrases that can be heard in such circles. - how will you let him go in the second month, if he respects you - he will be waiting for you. - Keep it roasted as much as possible. This way you will see if only sex is in his head. - How about the third month? It will pass you by, make you happy and then leave you. Men do not like light women. "Keep it up." After all, is sex the most important thing? if so for him, sorry, but look for another. etc. Of course it can be: - virgin - anxious - brought up in this way - not to want you - to be afraid of old bad experiences Whatever the reason, you should turn your questions to her, not to us, because here we can only guess. Success!
Number 1 is right, unfortunately. I'm not one of those women, but I always know what I want. When I saw my husband today ten years ago, I knew immediately that He was. I didn't play him and in the second week I "let him go". If I could go back in time, I would spend at least a month, because honestly for a woman it is not a problem for 1-2 months, even more to stay without sex, and now he dies of jealousy because he was left with the impression that I was almost easy. I've only been with him for ten years, but I can't go back those 2 weeks and do them for 2 months to keep him calm. I know quite light women who play for months in parallel a lot of men, and at the same time do not stay dry. Who did it ... And yet ... no one knows the exact situation. The girl may be a virgin, she may be with someone else, but everything is up to the character. When I fell in love, I didn't want to harass the man and play games with him - and I was like that with my first friend. However, if a woman, say, has no real desire for a man, but is looking to say interest or has another motive - why not delay sex as much as possible? I have a lot of acquaintances who manipulate their husbands like that - they just deny them sex until it happens to them. There are also women who are asexual. There are a lot of reasons.
virgin ... :)))
I just don't want to hurry. That's how I was with my steak boyfriend. We went for 4 years and I didn't let him go until the 2nd year. Not that I'm saying it will be the same with you, but it's just that it's somehow harder for us to relax so much that we give something quickly.
She is 100% virgin when she pulls. Predispose her ... tell her you've been together for a long time and you think it's time to become even more intimate ...
Most likely she is a virgin or does not have enough experience - she is normally 20, not all of them are super open in those years :) Otherwise comments 1, 2 and 4 are crazy if we are talking about a person with experience over 25 - it is not normal to unravel someone on purpose so that he wouldn't take you for a light woman (obsolete !!!) and to torture yourself for more than a month by postponing something as natural as sex. Well, if you do not fit in the end, there is still a high probability that things between you will not work out and there will still be abandoned. Number 1, unless we are talking about schoolgirls and young girls, such reasoning is really limited - the woman was "light" if she slept after 3 months with her boyfriend: D. Maybe we should cover up and wait for the wedding to have sex with someone: D
Either she is a virgin or she is crazy: D