I need advice on how to get rid of a terribly stubborn and seemingly harmless suitor who takes down my husband. His contacts are mostly in women's groups and I am used to having many women I know and friends. Everyone flirts with him, but within reason. However, this one has been his friend since he was a child, and even as students they were together, albeit for two or three weeks, because, according to him, they did not fit in at all and constantly quarreled. She is also seriously engaged, but she is always looking for an occasion to see or hear from him, and I feel powerless because, according to him, she is just his girlfriend. I don't know how he doesn't see that she's just taking him down. He is great with me and I have no reason to doubt him, because he demonstrates his feelings in every way. But she annoys me with her shamelessness - she calls him in the middle of the night to invite him out (the last time was even at midnight), she complains to him about how badly her friend behaved (I know very well for what purpose), pretends to be a victim in front of him, flirts with him, and when we are both there and meets her, she treats me with contempt. So far, I can't afford any serious comments, but he seems to feel uncomfortable. My concern comes mainly from the fact that there are others who, for example, bother him "friendly" on the phone, but on them, for example, he does not always pick up or write, and on it every time. Many times he declined her invitations to go out, he never hides when they talk and if they are outside I always know and the seeing lasts at most an hour, but I am still restless. I ask for your advice! but he seemed to feel uncomfortable with me. My concern comes mainly from the fact that there are others who, for example, bother him "friendly" on the phone, but on them, for example, he does not always pick up or write, and on it every time. Many times he declined her invitations to go out, he never hides when they talk and if they are outside I always know and the seeing lasts at most an hour, but I am still restless. I ask for your advice! but he seemed to feel uncomfortable with me. My concern comes mainly from the fact that there are others who, for example, disturb him "friendly" on the phone, but on them, for example, he does not always pick up or write, and on it every time. Many times he declined her invitations to go out, he never hides when they talk and if they are outside I always know and the seeing lasts at most an hour, but I am still restless. I ask for your advice!
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You don't have many options in which you don't go out like a crazy and ferocious woman. The stupid thing is that you don't have much to do. It is the man's job to play such brats, not to stalk you. Apparently the one in question gets off, and he lets her go, going out and talking to her. Through his behavior, she climbs on your head and jumps on top. Things like this have happened to me more than once, and it's really infuriating, because your husband's behavior, even without second thoughts, is interpreted quite differently by this woman. In her eyes, she surpasses you because he pays attention to her, picks her up in the middle of the night, etc. It's pretty stupid of you to have to tell him, not him to think, but put the question in front of him. Be calm but insistent. To think carefully about whether it is normal for them to chat at 12 o'clock and for her to treat you with contempt, because in doing so, insults him too. You are the woman he has chosen, and by showing disrespect to her, you are showing disrespect to him. For starters, I would ask him to stop answering her at any time. A "I'm hugging my wife right now and it's not comfortable" will scald her intentions. Separately, when you spot her, how does he behave? She ignores you nicely, but it would be great if he hugged and kissed you from time to time while they were talking. Let them see and hear each other, but show her that she has intentions only for you. if he hugs and kisses you from time to time while they both talk. Let them see and hear each other, but show her that she has intentions only for you. if he hugs and kisses you from time to time while they both talk. Let them see and hear each other, but show her that she has intentions only for you.
I don't know how you put up with that. Take it and you find male friends.
Obviously, you have a man who meets once in a million - kind and friendly to everyone, but without crossing the line. Please, just don't make his life bitter because of some ridiculous jealousy. So far, you've been perfectly normal, just keep up the good work. As for the one that is put on him - it is clear as day that it means nothing to him. No matter how hard she tries, this one. By the way, if he's a nice guy, it's normal for women to stick to him. That should flatter you, nothing else. :)
To take it off, it's important that her parachute doesn't open. If you are annoyed, then you feel it as a threat and competition, why so? Don't you have self-confidence? With a hint you will only make your husband hide, let him take care of himself, and you be on a level, smiling, understanding ... success!
Annoy her and you girl. Be nice to her, but under your nose and in front of your eyes, and be intimate with your boyfriend. Go crazy. Let her watch from the front row how you have what she is trying to steal from you. Even I would pull her for a "girlfriend." Share some piquancy ... let it go in passing ... but there is a shaker in the bed ... Abe, drive her crazy. Never stand up to her. He will take to protect her and you will come out the bad one. And that's exactly what she wants - to run to her and save her.
It sounds crazy, but follow it when you see each other. Be very careful, and see with your own eyes what is going on between them. Just talk like he says, or something else :) In general, you will be aware, and you pay attention to how you look, how you dress when there are so many girlfriends. I just hope they are like that because some time ago a "man" introduced me as a friend, but I also had such a friend, hell dear, but his girlfriend did not last. He always listened to me and everything, and after many years of friendship, his crazy girlfriend appeared, imagining things, insulting me and what not, and there was never anything more than friendship between us. We were like brother and sister, he always supported me, she said, because I knew that he loved her and I got into a situation, I always advised him to be kinder, that people do not know what they are saying. I was never against her despite, to put it mildly, her vulgar attitude, but in the end I couldn't stand her anymore, it's safe, dramatic. So see how things stand and then judge people, it is felt sometimes and accurately, so check it so that there are no hesitations. Nobody knows how it is, but you can understand. Make sure with your eyes the best :) otherwise you can be wrong and if you make dramas you will repel him, even with so many women .... And if he speaks and raises in front of you? But the question is different if the calls are frequent. ... And if he speaks and raises before you? But the question is different if the calls are frequent. ... And if he speaks and raises before you? But the question is different if the calls are frequent.
I haven't read anything that sounds like a download and nothing to worry about. But you sound like a cerberus, without friends. If anything had happened between them, it would have happened by now. Instead of wondering how to get rid of your girlfriend, make sure you have your own circle of friends. If there was at least one friend of yours who would ask you for help in the middle of the night, what was happening would not impress you at all. Instead, when the girl called at 12, you would invite her, you would pour her a drink, and you would listen to her with your husband, showing that you are one with him. That's what normal, confident women do. They do not intrigue and do not issue ultimatums to get rid of friends.
If your husband is a man on the spot you will not allow such liberties, and make the woman next to you feel insecure. Talk directly to him about how you feel and hopefully stop these cracks.
What is this man, so many suitors ... isn't he Brother Pete ?? Either you're too jealous or your husband is a star. If it's the latter, get used to it and enjoy its attention while you have it.
What is written to happen will happen! Guessing in advance is stupid. If you are fine at the moment, live your time, and no one knows what will happen!