Hello, I am a 26-year-old man. I had a relationship for 7 months, but on Good Friday we broke up. The girl is very beautiful, smart and just the perfect woman, I have never met a better partner in my life. She seemed very serious to me. We had a great time. We traveled a lot, we had fun, we saw each other every day, the sex was great - in general our relationship was 90% perfect. We fought over trifles very rarely, like any normal couple. Her ex-boyfriend, whom she loved a lot, got stomach cancer 3 years ago and has been treated in Germany until now. She hadn't seen him, their long-distance relationship had broken down, and in general, 6 months before she met me, they weren't really together anymore. She blocked it from all social networks, they communicate only on viber very rarely. She says she's doing it out of regret, and she's just interested in how it is. 1 week ago, in the morning he wrote to her that he had returned to Bulgaria. From then on, he started behaving super cool with me. 2 weeks ago he explained to me that he loves me, etc. and now he suddenly tells me on the phone, "I want to tell you something, I decided to separate, I can't respond to the same feelings, I'm not ready for a serious relationship" He told me bye, then he wrote to me, "you are a very good person, the problem is in me, I don't know what I want" I told her that I would not fall at her feet, I would not roar and beg her to think. I think there is something else, whether her ex or someone else .... I have no idea. But suddenly he pulls the hiccups in my life on the phone, which is super dumb. She called me the next day at 12 o'clock to wish me a happy Easter, told me she was feeling bad and was coming home from church. I told her that I could not speak and that we would hear from each other another day, ie today. We agreed to see each other when I returned to Sf. She told me there was no problem going out and seeing her. The idea is whether to go out with her at all, talk and try to regain my status. That is, to make her think, because it is different when she sees me live. Does it make sense to do it or just cut off contact with her. I have decided to wait for her to look for me, she knows very well that I am not in Sofia and if she does, it will be in 2 days. If he doesn't, he probably doesn't really have feelings for me. I love her very much and I am sad that we had such wonderful moments and suddenly it was over. Thanks to the people who read my story, please for understanding and advice. to talk and try to regain my status. That is, to make her think, because it is different when she sees me live. Does it make sense to do it or just cut off contact with her. I have decided to wait for her to look for me, she knows very well that I am not in Sofia and if she does, it will be in 2 days. If he doesn't, he probably doesn't really have feelings for me. I love her very much and I am sad that we had such wonderful moments and suddenly it was over. Thanks to the people who read my story, please for understanding and advice. to talk and try to regain my status. That is, to make her think, because it is different when she sees me live. Does it make sense to do it or just cut off contact with her. I have decided to wait for her to look for me, she knows very well that I am not in Sofia and if she does, it will be in 2 days. If he doesn't, he probably doesn't really have feelings for me. I love her very much and I am sad that we had such wonderful moments and suddenly it was over. Thanks to the people who read my story, please for understanding and advice. most likely he really has no feelings for me. I love her very much and I am sad that we had such wonderful moments and suddenly it was over. Thanks to the people who read my story, please for understanding and advice. most likely he really has no feelings for me. I love her very much and I am sad that we had such wonderful moments and suddenly it was over. Thanks to the people who read my story, please for understanding and advice.
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Leave her, she needed space and freedom, she will look for you in time if she has feelings for you!
I don't see any unknowns in this equation. She was a jerk to you because of your ex, it's clear as day. Already decide for yourself whether you want to be the eternal second violin, to "fight" as it is fashionable to say lately. It depends on how much you love her and how much dignity you have.
If you talk to her only in person, you know her and you will know if she is lying, you will know her and if she has feelings, etc. Forget about viibari messengers, text messages, etc ... and you can be busy enough to make an appointment and so on. But it's best not to bother ..
From the Author: We talked to her on the phone, explain to me that there is no one else, she is really looking for her freedom, she was young, she didn't want to suffocate in serious relationships - that's what she told me, and the day before she wrote I want to have sex with you , I want to see you, etc. Last night he sent me a picture of a glass of wine and at the other end of the table, a man's head. She was with her best friend and these were her friends. She told me that she was just getting up, and if she wanted me to come in to see each other and have sex. I was affected by the photo and I told her not to be humiliated like the lowest whore. Are these any female games, does she want to torture me or does she really have feelings for me?
He wants you to be friends for sex. No commitment, just sex;)
4, even if she has someone, she won't tell you. Have sex with her if you have no feelings and do not get involved in a serious relationship. If you have feelings, you better not do it at all, you will only suffer.
By 6, the problem is that I have strong feelings for her ... I don't know why it happens that when you lose someone, all the doors close for you, I've written to a lot of women and no one is particularly interested in going out, talking to Let's get to know each other ... My life fucked up in literally a week. Yesterday I removed her from Facebook, she wrote to me on Viber that it was, "very childish" "But I can't look at her photos and come back with the memories. She said that when I want to write to her or call her to see me to do it, but she explicitly told me that she did not want a relationship with me. She told me that her problem was that she did not know what she wanted, she explained the same thing. I also explained that I need 2-3 weeks to calm down mentally. and only then, let's go out. I don't know if it's a good idea in general ... I want to get it back, to get my enthusiasm back. I think it all came from the monotony. We went out to many places, I saw that she was happy with more friends, mine and hers. But lately, we've only been doing it together, maybe that's what pulled her away ... I don't know either.
Bratleeee, you've messed it up a lot, but all sorts of things happen in life, if you really want to get it back, don't just delete it from the face, but delete it from RED, she rightly told you that these are children's things, you delete it from the face , but you leave a door with viber, childish work. You didn't write how old she was, but reading what you wrote, I think she's about 22-24. And the fact that she didn't know what she wanted, along with the sharp cut, they say only one thing, she just doesn't want to tell you the truth, I've talked to a lot of women on this issue, most use these clichés when they want to save the pain and truth of the former. you are your partner. I guess you can't wait to write to her, so when you do, explain to her why you deleted your face, as you explained to us, tell her you don't want to keep in touch, eliminate all possible forms of communication between you, if you manage not to look for her within a week or two, there is a great possibility that she will do it, PERSONALLY. This with the explanation is not the best way, but I'm sure that one way or another, you will fall into an explanatory mode, you just sunk your collar. Be very careful, if she comes back, she is very likely to give you the same number, in the near future, you are already sure of her. My advice, erase her from your life, if after a while you meet by chance, and she starts to fall in love with you, just tell her that you have moved forward, that you are grateful for the good moments, and wish her all the best. you just sunk your collar. Be very careful, if she comes back, she is very likely to give you the same number, in the near future, you are already sure of her. My advice, erase her from your life, if after a while you meet by chance, and she starts to fall in love with you, just tell her that you have moved forward, that you are grateful for the good moments, and wish her all the best. you just sunk your collar. Be very careful, if she comes back, she is very likely to give you the same number, in the near future, you are already sure of her. My advice, erase her from your life, if after a while you meet by chance, and she starts to fall in love with you, just tell her that you have moved forward, that you are grateful for the good moments, and wish her all the best.