I just wanted to share it. So far, I have not had a relationship that would last more than a few months, nor have I had a long-distance relationship. It will hurt a lot if he replaces me in a few weeks or a month or two. Besides, she is sexier, she will be in a dormitory, surrounded by all kinds of people. There will be coupons. And yes, she's bisexual, so I have twice as much to worry about. She has mentioned to me many times that she lives. She's only 20, and I'm almost 27. We're going to see now if she'll break my heart, like the ones before her.
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Well, go study too.
Well, as long as you want to, that's how it works. Many people have long-distance relationships, but if she was just with you, she might find another.
Wow wow. I can already see her being torn apart by several fellow students. And female students. If you have no trouble falling asleep, knowing that somewhere out there your girlfriend is poking her like a fish every night, it will last your relationship.
Brother, just drop it! I understand that she is one of the modest girls who this "I want" does not mean to fuck with this and that, but just to lead a life, which means to study, to go out with friends and that's it. And I was like that, thousands of vain promises, he went to Sofia and left me. She is not one of those who want to "live", but I know, I did not understand the exact reason. Well, good health, I haven't given up, I just don't want to press her. M23
In the situation of your girlfriend, at the age of 20, I study abroad and I feel like living. However, I love my friend and I would never cheat on him!
Let's see. Keep us posted!
You will not understand what horns he will put on you
Hi, I'm a 20 year old girl. I've had two long-distance relationships - with a girl and a boy, and I can only give you advice on what I've experienced. Living away from your boyfriend sucks anyway, and the fact that she goes away from you will hurt her more. To be in a new place, but to feel alone most of the time, take the time to hear each other if you can every day, even for a while on the phone / Facebook, etc. When a person is far away appreciates much more what is he had and will look for you. I don't know what kind of person she is, but if you want to stay with her, then you see the potential for a future long-term relationship. If you had no doubt that she would cheat on you, then most likely she will not do it, if you give her love, attention, care and understanding, I see no reason for that. Try not to suffocate each other and go out with friends, but don't lose your relationship,
You are 26. What stops you from moving with her?
What does it mean to live, I have sex with different I can not say it's life. And I broke up with one when I went to study, but he doubted, although he had nothing to do with it. Later we saw each other from a distance last year and now we are still together. You cannot have complete trust, but you must not arouse distrust. I know many couples, they live in different places, but they are already elderly people and they probably don't want to live.
Number 5, I went to Sofia at the age of 19, my friend was 26 at the time and I also wanted to live and I still want to live. To this day, we are together. I'm in a dormitory, I go to discos with friends, I go to university, I go to work, I go to cafes. But absolutely every week I return to my hometown, which is on the other side of Bulgaria, to see my friend, sometimes he comes, but less often because he works. But you jealous people never have enough in a relationship! With this I turn to the Author! Well, get out of your comfort zone and go live with her in Sofia, what are you standing in your crowded city! But it's with mom and dad the easiest. We have been in a long-distance relationship for two years now and I have not cheated on him! F21
To numbers 10 and 12, from the author. I want to go and be by her side. I'm still thinking about it, because what stops me are the salaries, because I don't have an education, it's not about Sofia, but about another also quite big city. We are talking about clean BGN 300 accommodation, bills another 150-200 at most, with a salary of BGN 750 to BGN 900 for people like me. With this remaining money, I will not even be able to take her for coffee. Even if it really is BGN 750 firmly, I really don't see how I will survive with BGN 250-270 per month. My car costs a lot (and it needs to be replaced), I won't even be able to put fuel in it. The other is that we will be apart for at least a few months if I'm there, because I had offered to live there together, but he said it was still early, although he gave me hope that in 4-5 months he would be able to do it. this.
At 26, so naive? And as many relationships, as many times a broken heart ... Apparently you haven't learned much so far or you study the hard way. Don't expect anything different. Maybe it's just that in addition to men, you will ... with women.
You sound like you're sure of the breakup. Yes, such a scenario is possible, but infidelity is not a phenomenon only in long-distance relationships. Don't you have the opportunity to go to the city where you study? If it is about Sofia / Plovdiv, you will easily find a job. If you don't have a GOOD reason to leave (God forbid a sick relative or something like that), then your love is not so strong. (: And you better end the relationship now. If you have a GOOD reason not to go with her, see each other as often as possible - one weekend you go to her, another weekend - she goes to you ...
From the author to 12 and 11. My previous comment has not been approved yet, but I will write this one as well. As I said, she lives on it, but she is also an extrovert and has a terrible need to meet new people all the time. She often tells me how she met someone, etc. And she wanted to join some group, not to be alone. I don't like it when he tells me on the second day how soon the parties will start (not exactly with such words but in general), how the other roommates played great music and how she was tempted to go. Yes, non-stop parties, a hell of a need for new acquaintances. If she was tempted to do so, what else would tempt her? From the point of distrust, she is secretive and very often aroused my doubts. She herself told me that she doesn't like to be tagged, she doesn't like to upload photos so that people don't know where she is and what she does, and she likes to be secretive. You know how hard I managed to get her to upload a shared photo that she didn't even add to her profile pictures. In other words, no one will know when she opens her profile that she is with me. At the beginning of our relationship he even refused, he didn't want it to be heard that we were together. Or how, before she left in front of me, she took and put TWO condoms in her purse? Why are they for her? Since I'm not there now? Yes, number 11 raises doubts often. I don't know if I think so, but my friends said it wasn't normal. Or how, before she left in front of me, she took and put TWO condoms in her purse? Why are they for her? Since I'm not there now? Yes, number 11 raises doubts often. I don't know if I think so, but my friends said it wasn't normal. Or how, before she left in front of me, she took and put TWO condoms in her purse? Why are they for her? Since I'm not there now? Yes, number 11 raises doubts often. I don't know if I think so, but my friends said it wasn't normal.