Respect for the site for shared stories! For a long time I wondered if I should share what excites and worries me for a year, but here it is possible to read the opinions of different people by age and gender. I live alone and fell in love at the age of over 40 and I am happy with the woman of my life, because we are both of this opinion and we plan to go through life with her. But she is 4 years older than me and I do not know if we will be happy until the end and will not hinder us all this .She also sometimes feels ashamed of it, although outwardly no one can tell the difference in our age.
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Hello! Can this bother you? Just think how many divorces and failed loves and families are broken even though the woman is smaller than the man. I think that would never bother me for anything in the world after we love each other and we respect, what are 4 or more years even. Does respect and love have to worry you the least. And you say that this is not obvious either, but does a woman love and she is even more beautiful in my opinion. respect come not from age but from the soul of man and boldly forward .I wish you luck and love to the end with this woman
to tell you the truth, if you are over 40, why should you worry, these are only 4 years old, what do you want, a 20-year-old chick and still worry, but then the difference will be visible, live your life once you are in love
see what, love your wife for love has no age. don't care about people, you will always find someone to "say" something. I know a family, the woman is 8 years older and they have a wonderful 26 years of marriage.
Thanks to everyone I really think like me that age doesn't matter in love.
Hello! But how can the years bother you, this is not the criterion for a happy marriage, but what those years are. It is stupid to make a problem the difference in age. from you and then you will make sure that you are wrong with your suspicion. Happiness to both
Oh oh! probably thousands would envy your "problems" and dream of your love !!!
Hi. this should not bother you - I know people with a difference in age 22 years. and live perfectly. Age (exactly the difference in year) is not a criterion for a happy marriage or cohabitation.
Are 4 years a problem, this is nothing against the background of a whole life ... Don't be surprised, don't care, don't think that people will notice it ... Also, to notice it, if you are happy - dare !!!
See, age doesn't matter in your cases.
I THINK THE AGE DOESN'T MATTER IN YOUR CASE. I AM ALSO 3.5 YEARS OLDER THAN MY HUSBAND, BUT THAT DOESN'T PREVENT US FROM LOVING EACH OTHER. PLUS THAT 4 YEARS ARE NOT A LOT AT ALL AND THEY ARE NOT LIKE YOU.
There is no age or ethnicity for love. I am in love with a man who is 8 years younger than me, and he is also a Turk. For me, however, this does not matter. Enjoy your love and don't worry about loving yourself the way you are. I wish you good luck and happiness !!!
Come on, I have a relationship with a man at 25, and I'm 37, and what? Age is a relative thing. Love each other!
I know a woman who is 6 years older than her husband. But they are very happy and have no problems.
4 years-this is not a problem at all. The following happened to me recently - an acquaintance brought me a translation document. Until then, I did not know his exact age (I set him at about 30-35). In his document on the PIN I found out that he is 54 !!!! So far, I can't help but wonder and believe, but it's a fact. So A PERSON IS AS OLD AS HE LOOKS - THE NUMBERS DO NOT MATTER !!!!!
Hey, head up and don't think about it! I have acquaintances where the lady is 7 / seven / years older. They have been together since 17 and are still in love with each other. And, otherwise, as a couple, they are great - they talk to each other like they have been boyfriends for two weeks! Good luck and don't forget that there are no limits to love! Everything else is human prejudice!
Respect for the site for shared stories! For a long time I was wondering whether to share what excites and worries me for a year, but here it is possible to read the opinion of different people by age and gender. I live alone and I fell in love at the age of over 20 and I am happy with the woman of my life, because we both agree and we plan to go through life with her. But she is 2 years older than me and I don't know if we will be completely happy and if all this won't bother us. She also sometimes feels ashamed of it, although outwardly no one can tell the difference in age
As banal as it sounds, there are no limits to love. And what is this nothing and no difference of 4 years. Family friends have a difference of 11 years, and the lady is older, but she is terribly young and does not look like them at all. I see no reason to worry at all, neither yours nor hers :) Live as you like, not as others think is best. :) Good luck going forward and don't think about it at all.
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There is no way to know before you try. My wife is 3 years younger and after 12 years and two small children she put my horns again. So, age is not a factor in happiness. The forum can't take responsibility for you if things go wrong after a while - what do you say - they advised me that? You take responsibility for yourself. Do as you feel best.
I don't need to put myself in your place ... because I'm in love too ... and he's bigger than me, we've met in clubs, outside, etc., but we've just talked - nothing more !! Everything that revolves around him goes through my eyes ... and the fact that he is in love with another makes me very sad! And yet I did not despair of the last .. guided by the thought that for love, there are no limits !! Our age should not bother you at least !! .. :)
Does Google translate use you to write this "confession"?
Love has no limits! :) :) :)
There are no limits to love! :) Be happy and don't think about it. :) :)
the most important thing is to feel happy with the person next to you. Don't think about any barriers like years, etc. Love chooses neither by sex nor by age. Human prejudices can only hurt you. Your life is yours and he is only one. Live it the way you want and then you will be happy.
For information, I have two pairs of acquaintances, in which women are 7 / seven / years older than their husbands and the harmony and understanding between them is complete. So the choice is yours. When a social evil strikes you, even if it is five years less, it will still poison your life. Good luck!
You've been making a problem for 4 years, it's like they're 40. You sound like a child and you say you're a mature man. Well, with that in mind, I don't know if you'll be "happy" until the end! Extremely limited thinking ... Happiness is a matter of mathematics that I did not understand? !!