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   It is normal to have such desires - yet, as you say, we have biochemistry, not just a soul. Besides, man is curious by nature. I have a very similar problem. I have a wonderful man, whom I love very much and whom we understand perfectly, the sex is on the level ... But a year ago the profession met me with a man who ignited my imagination to the point of intolerance. I restrain myself and try not to give in to my desires. I know that in time things will pass, the question is how to endure so far. At first, I felt terribly strong and ruined my sex lover, but I still felt dissatisfied. Now - a year later, I'm a little calmer, but my desire has not passed. I still hold back. Don't do this to the woman next to you, she doesn't deserve it. Not to mention how hard it will be for you to bear your guilt ... Alpha, 25

   what do you work? Don't worry, it happens sometimes, just know what you want, don't take action, don't think if she will like you, you still stick to the relationship ... It happened to me too, you can't help but like it and someone else, but in life you can't have everything you want ...

   I felt this way to a colleague and asked myself your questions. I wondered what was happening to me. After three months of wondering and cheating, I felt struck by thunder, realizing that this lack of control over my feelings and behavior toward the person had a name. You are in love and reasonable arguments cannot affect the way you feel.

   "You can seduce a man who has a wife. You can seduce a man who has a mistress. But you cannot seduce a man who has a lover!" - Omar Khayyam Draws his own conclusions.

   Probably pheromones, but also sexy arousing. This is the moment when the mind must intervene so as not to screw up life.

   From the author: I am a pharmacist in a hospital pharmacy. Thank you, you are very cool. In each of the comments I found satisfaction and food for thought. She definitely didn't seduce me, I think she's my ego-, she's beautiful, I hope you like it, prove to yourself that you can "". I have no points of contact with her, I imagine her body and ... She won't squeeze me if she finally offers me, for example. I want a secure family, a faithful and responsible woman. I am a conservative Capricorn :))) Deep down I realize that I can be manipulated by the beauty of an unknown woman with a good upbringing ... a little fear of mine :))))

   Author, n2 said it very well. We cannot have everything, and we are not saints, but living people. Temptations are possible, part of life. However, we are not children and we are not animals to pounce on anything we like. To ruin your family or relationship for the sake of a beautiful body or someone's sensual look is not worth it and is immature and irresponsible. In moments of weakness, I tell myself that I want that man to do what he wants, but then I come to my senses and understand that the temptation must be fought. And I lead. I wish you success and a good life with the woman your heart has chosen. Alpha (a conservative virgin)

   There is nothing wrong with attracting you, beauty is created for us to enjoy, but try to be friends with it, so you will earn much more than if you start courting her. However, if she asks and offers you, there is nothing wrong with respecting yourself, physical attraction has nothing to do with love, and if you are aware of yourself, there is no reason to feel any discomfort, doubt or shame.

   You know ... listen to your heart. Or it may be that the woman next to you is not the right choice. If you are with the right woman, there is no other way to confuse your thoughts and emotions. Think about this option as well. Don't be a horse with caps. People come together and separate every day. So - see the next one turned out to be the right one and the one with which you will build a home and a family.

   From the author: Thank you !!! The temptation begins to fade .... I began to think about my partner, I began to steal moments when she cooks, when she sleeps, when she feeds stray animals, when she takes a position on a certain case ... and her kindness and responsibility blinded me ... again :)) I was desperately looking for a responsible person and she is definitely like that :))) The "temptation" in question turned out to know very well how it affects men and shared that she prefers to "fence" with men because, , did work '' :))) OK miss, not bad, at least for now. With my behavior I came to the conclusion that she is a teaser, a girl who likes to take it off and maintain her reputation ... I understand that :)) After two personal conversations between us, of course, I realized that like most beauties with a decent job (although there is still a LOT VERY MUCH to study) there is an unrealistic assessment of myself :))) sorry, but the assessment is really unrealistic. She prefers tall and influential men, although she didn't have a definite 'type' :)) So in the engaging network Facebook it also turned out that this girl is constantly posting texts, so how do you see, decent women are coming to an end, come eat me, more am i good from your ex? !! '' For me, a slightly immature behavior .... separately, I think he's looking for princes, which is not bad ... So I transferred this to the little gourd and somehow cooled down :)) Alpha - SPECIAL GREETINGS for the engaging comments :)) success of everyone :)) Be yourself )) So in the engaging network Facebook it also turned out that this girl is constantly posting texts, so how do you see, decent women are coming to an end, come eat me, I'm better than your exes? !! '' For me, a little immature behavior .... separately I think he's looking for princes, which is not bad ... So I transferred this to the little gourd and somehow cooled down :)) Alpha - SPECIAL GREETINGS for the engaging comments :)) success of everyone :)) Be yourself )) So in the engaging network Facebook it also turned out that this girl is constantly posting texts, so how do you see, decent women are coming to an end, come eat me, I'm better than your exes? !! '' For me, a slightly immature behavior .... separately, I think he's looking for princes, which is not bad ... So I transferred this to the little gourd and somehow cooled down :)) Alpha - SPECIAL GREETINGS for the engaging comments :)) success of everyone :)) Be yourself

   Author, calm down. Men are pigs and although we love one woman, we want to fuck all the beautiful ones. Me in your situation. I have been together with a good and beautiful woman for half a year, but the desires for others remain. I have beautiful colleagues, young and sexy, who flutter their eyelashes and constantly put flies in my head, but for now I hold on. My boyfriend is jealous and I know that if I cheat on her, even if it was just sex, she will end our relationship. I stick to it and I don't do nonsense about it. The whole point is that it's hard for us men to be monogamous. To overcome your attraction to your colleague, just concentrate on her negative traits. Like everyone, she has them. For example, I have several great colleagues, but I look at the flaws in each of them and so my desire for them decreases. One walks with short skirts, heels, she is always nicely made up with nice red curly hair, but with a terrible character and it is clear to me that a connection with her is possible. With another, I had a brief affair before my boyfriend. It is nothing special in bed, but it is able to ignite such a fire in the male groin that ... She has short black hair, has an incredible magnetic radiation and is without a famous beauty is able to turn the head of any man, just can to pick it up for you with just a smile. Abe women for sex everywhere, but if you hold on to your boyfriend and want to be with her, don't do nonsense !!! It's not worth ruining a good relationship with a good woman for one fuck. By the way, female sexual predators are often bare water in bed, and good and quiet girls are often real furies (we know the story of calm waters). And for a woman to fuck nicely, in the end, it depends on the man next to her how much he aroused her, relaxed her and how he himself treats her and predisposes her. I can say that my current girlfriend was bad at the beginning, but when we met and I found out exactly what she likes, now it gives me incredible pleasure.

   Well done number 11! Happy is the girl you are with because of the way you think :) Respect to be respected!

   ha - ha, the girl has noticed everything, long before you, beautiful girls know their price ..., there is nothing wrong with liking influential men, sooner or later she will find one, and you obviously are not.

   Number 13, anonymous friend, thanks for the "sobering" comment (say) :)) I needed that point of view :)) You're probably right ... I'm obviously not influential. " -surely so :)) For a week now I have a good relationship with the girl in question, we are friendly and that satisfies me :)) I'm not interested in her personal life and it helps me stay away from temptation, I feel better :)) It's nice to have beautiful women around a man :)) I also realized how over time beauty is more of a good bonus to start an internship / career, but then things take on a different expression if she (beauty) it is not backed by perseverance and a desire to learn, say, a craft, yes. I have absolutely nothing against finding an "influential" man:

   I know the basic rules, but I do not intend to follow them necessarily.