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She Lied To Her Husband About The Number

By golden_diamond September 04, 2020 50 answers Last updated September 04, 2020

Hello! I'm happily married, but I'm hiding something from my husband ... he knows I've slept with 5 men before him, and they're actually 16 ... and to this day I lie to him, and he doesn't even ask me. I tell him everything, but I can't do that. I lied to him because I wanted to not look inferior like everyone else .. but that makes me inferior .. I didn't want that to be the case .. give advice Thanks! F25

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vbooky answered · September 04, 2020

   Yes, I have your problems ... Live in the present, not with the past ... What does it matter how much you were with, if everything is fine now? If you had less, would you be better now? My wife and I have never discussed who has been with how much before. It used to be a matter of boyfriends, but never with specific numbers, names and details. I guess 10-15 is normal and enough to get to know the opposite sex. And relationships are much more important than whether you slept with someone or not. Lower was ... Make her a nice family. Give birth to and raise 2-3 beautiful and smart children, bring them up, educate them, and those who are great moralists to eat their ears ...

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pacificwild answered · September 04, 2020

   Just forget the subject, he can't understand that you lied. The important thing from now on is that he is the only one. :)

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kleshko answered · September 04, 2020

   Big leek, what if he passed 16 girls before you? Will you take it for how it was - lower? Lower? I've had enough of nonsense ...

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deussalveorei answered · September 04, 2020

   You did the right thing. Don't tell him and he won't ask you.

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seemapandey answered · September 04, 2020

   It is pointless to lie to anyone, because you yourself have no respect for yourself and consider yourself inferior, rightly in my opinion, but ... ”I tell him everything, but I can't do that. I lied to him because I wanted not to look inferior like everyone else. ”Some strange symbiosis between conscience and self-criticism, and criticism of others.

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joshsundquist answered · September 04, 2020

   When I read what Neanderthals are in spodeli, you are right to lie. The past is past, you can't change it, and only the losers dig, not look ahead. Whether a woman has been with two or twenty does not make her inferior. In principle, to lie is bad, and to lie to a husband or wife is twice as bad, but in this case it is justified. There are certain types of people to whom such a figure can have a very toxic effect on self-esteem. If he doesn't ask you, you don't have to talk to him. Grandpa Torbalan

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chocl8babi answered · September 05, 2020

   find another man.

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le_pierrot answered · September 05, 2020

   This is not something you have to tell him the truth about.

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princes_bunny answered · September 05, 2020

   "I lied to him because I wanted not to look inferior like everyone else ..." Just wait for those women who bragged about another topic with 50-100 copies to read it :))

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hilannasmile answered · September 06, 2020

   Look now, everyone has mileage. The important thing in the present and in the future is to be true. In principle, five is a normal number, but nowadays you have to kiss many more frogs to find the prince!

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clairesstores answered · September 06, 2020

   My husband never asked me and I didn't tell him, although only two.

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dildoboy4you answered · September 06, 2020

   it's insulting not to tell him, I would be upset, especially if I found out later that the truth is different. Yes, some people say that history doesn't matter, but it always does. Licking where 2 meters of dicks (actually 16 people) almost 2 football teams have entered is unpleasant at least for me and I would not accept such a girl, but if she lies to me, of course I can't know and I will accept her. I would even accept her if she didn't lie to me, but I would be sick, somehow the value of the woman is lost when she has played so much, sex without feelings especially. I would accept a woman and 10 to have, but it was a relationship with feelings on both sides, not just sex ..

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andreskloster answered · September 07, 2020

   Grandpa Torbalan can't miss a topic about numbers.

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schoolgirlwow answered · September 07, 2020

   There is always a mismatch between who you are and what you want to be. Presenting what you want for reality sometimes helps you achieve a normal relationship. Crushing would send you into that life, but if you like it, things will come to light.

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kyliekissesxoxo answered · September 07, 2020

   and why do you raise the subject at all? the past is past and must remain there. Nobody asks you how old you were, live, obviously you don't have serious problems once you stop to deal with your number and don't dig back.

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bbwrosechaos answered · September 08, 2020

   Number 12, so you have a problem with 16 dicks, but you don't have a problem with a girl with two dicks. Both of long relationships in which, unlike the one with the sixteen, there was trust. And if the one with the sixteen took them with a condom, then the chaste woman took pills, they trusted each other and the two people she was with ended up in her. How do I know, 2 meters of dicks with condoms, is it more disgusting than a bucket of semen? Bon appetit ... Grandpa Torbalan

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harrystylesdaily answered · September 08, 2020

   My grandfather believed that he was an understanding writer, but he still did not know what the problem was and that it was not in the number itself, but in the mentality that leads to the numbers. And the mentality does not change from today to tomorrow. Or it's just that it's convenient for him, because his wife and she drove a mile before him, as he himself said. And if she stopped spinning while she was with him, we can only guess, but let him believe.

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fafmusica answered · September 09, 2020

   Grandpa, grandpa, you think about capacity, but you're as smart as two dumb people. It is a pity that you are part of the huge percentage that encourages this type of behavior. But it's good that they have it, so that Mara can find a fool for her husband. And Stanka to say - Sejm shit. On the subject - although it is fashionable for this whiner who comments here, if you want to be a decent person - be honest. There are people for whom numbers are not a problem. But I don't know people who like to lie to them. Be a brave and worthy person. Your partner has a right to know.

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lopezdoriga answered · September 09, 2020

   <15> Well, to brag;) If a woman doesn't brag about how good she is .. it's true on an anonymous site, but .... they will still envy her;)

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j.c.hong answered · September 09, 2020

   19 :) That's why he took her all the way to Norway. There, in the great cold and at night for half a year, her hormones do not come to life at all. And so he will wait until he turns 50. And then she will catch a young boyfriend like the student with the doctor from a neighboring topic. :) And again, there will be know-how for writing.

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jayhot9999 answered · September 09, 2020

   It has always been strange to me, to put it mildly, that women with many men are whores and men with many women are whores. Well, I'm sorry, but you're Oriental, not even Seltaci. It's not that it's a problem for someone to be very moral, but that this one probably measures a double standard. Which means he's a liar and a trickster. For a woman to have many men, it means that half of them were useless, and the other - that they were countmen who did not want to commit.

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genevacall answered · September 09, 2020

   I would have the problem with the number of women, based on the following logic. Imagine you have a cute little fluffy kitten that they gave you. Time passes and it runs away from you, because it can't evaluate you, it's stupid. After 3-4 months you find something else. It annoys you because it is shit on the carpet and you throw it in the Pearl River. You cry inconsolably, your conscience bites and you quickly take a new kitten, but even the ungrateful one disperses and hops - leaves your home. Great anger, you already want to prove yourself and just the next kitten has no chance to move. And the 4th you see a fragile organism and dies of terror and the rules of the mistress. She breaks her fingers, the challenge intensifies, that her friends fuck her: "You can't keep a kitten - where did you go ..." She takes 5, 6, 7 and so 16, one hundredth. Questions to the audience: to which kitten the caring, a cool, beautiful and lowly housewife with stopped feeling love? Does he love the 16th, the hundredth as the first 1-2? For slower reotans: after a certain number of identical stimuli, a callus is taken so that the irritations are not felt, ie. the kittens in question will be just a number of kittens. She would only be seduced if she was a rare breed (cool dude with mangoes, a cool car, a cottage and whatever you choose), so that all her friends would envy her and so much more. This is the problem with numbers, that then the husband / partner is not an emotional value, as any normal person would like to be for the woman of his heart. The dicks and buckets of semen themselves react with the epidermal (superficial) layer of the skin of the vagina / breast / mouth / anus, which after a few days seems to die and disappear, but the emotional callus remains forever - well, in rare cases complete amnesia gives a new chance ,, but don't count on it. I think the above for both women and men and I think you should run away from whores and whores if you want to be emotionally valued, ie. loved truly. For cormorants, children will jump - especially for you - you are the exception to the rule - breathe calmly.

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_mechaphilia_ answered · September 10, 2020

   In addition to my post above, I want to ask you if you have heard the line: "I want to make a living before I get married / tied up / thrown off the bridge."? Don't you think it means, "I want to catch an emotional callus so I don't care, so I don't love." People, love is a strong emotion, not for weak stomachs. It even hurts. Some suffer suicide out of grief. Others are waging wars. Isn't it easiest to get rid of it and live easier? One way is with many pieces. Then you don't care about the next "client". The exercise makes the master. Many would ask, "Abe, uncle, how will I know which one suits me best if I don't test them hard?" And if, the best option was the first, but because of the idea of ​​not passing, did you miss it? There is a risk, there is no way. Having pieces is also undeniably great, but it comes at a price. I am personally a supporter of the small number. I may be lying. If so, then they are lying to me well. The end result is more important - I feel loved. M35

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sophiaculpo answered · September 10, 2020

   Even though you did wrong for his good ... you better not tell him the truth, because he will begin to doubt your other words and the things you told him. Personally, if I find out something like that ... I probably won't be the same as the girl next to me. To tell me that she has slept with 16 since she was 5 and is 25 years old ... if I start to count how much she has done every year after she has turned 16, I will feel bad. Bad image, but what to do. Of course it was before, but it's unpleasant to know about something like that. Moreover, you are with this man and you love him, and he lied to you.

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romarioonze answered · September 10, 2020

   Keep going. Don't let the past hinder you in the present and in the future. However, a lie is a lie. I think it is right to be one, not to have lies and secrets. I have heard that there are hereditary curses. For example, if my friend's mother has cheated even once, then my girlfriend, if I marry her, will certainly have such problems ... 100 percent and she will cheat on me.

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pinnaclesports answered · September 10, 2020

   23 I haven't seen anyone here claim that a man with many numbers is a dude.

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deepikapadukone answered · September 10, 2020

   At one time it was normal at 16-18 to catch your first boyfriend, to go with him for a year or two. Then after another year, for example, to catch a new boyfriend. And so every 2-3 years there is one piece. And for example at 25 it was normal for the number to be 3-4 maximum. There was no such thing as friends with privileges and one-night stands in the disco toilet. Such were the exceptions, and they pointed at her like sluts in the neighborhood. And now with less than 20 they are considered saints, and there are quite a few with 30-40-50 and here and there with 100 and up, as she had boasted in another topic that she had over 100, and her friend decided in advance to marry a man number 100. Perceives men as a conveyor belt and decides exactly on the 100th anniversary to stop.

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pimtha answered · September 11, 2020

   And the duty on duty "well, how many are 100 pieces - 1 per month".

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emma_2002 answered · September 11, 2020

   Author, these are your personal topics and experiences. Enough with this middle finger morality. Once you are a family, he has seen in you certain qualities and stability. Don't admit anything to him.

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andi_atthira answered · September 11, 2020

   Are you crazy? 16 is not much nowadays. Of course you won't tell him. So he will decide that you lied about other things or that the 11 were after marriage

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oxgothickittenxo answered · September 11, 2020

   If a woman has many partners, it means that she has been abandoned many times. A man of good does not run away. If she dumped them because they were not a commodity, then the woman did not have the right judgment for men. This in turn shows other deficits. Sex is sex. Men can do it without feelings with one or many women, so the number does not matter as long as it is not forced sex. Women can too, but it beats the shit - so who pays. This is my opinion in a nutshell.

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huffingtonpost answered · September 11, 2020

   I'm not surprised, I read the forum every 2-3 years for a month somewhere, here the bloody behavior has always been defended, but now it has become even worse, as I look, since 2016 I have not read. And men who mind, declare themselves complex, with small dicks or unable to have sex. Well, I'd rather have some anonymous people declare me a complex here than steal the sludge and toys left by other men. I fully support number 29, very accurate comment. Number 27, that's right, I don't take it as a curse, it's a fact, the daughters of all the light women I know are the same as their mothers. Having sons is the opposite, super quiet and meek boys. Of course, these are personal observations and facts from my life experience, for others it may not be so ...

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osprints answered · September 12, 2020

   How many of the "moralists" have deliberately not lied or simulated feelings for a girl just to have sex! This, is it moral, "moralists", what do you think !!! Morality, do you think it should be observed only by women? And you to lie to them, manipulate them, simulate feelings so that they sleep with you! Where is your morality? Or do you not need it, you are moral in general because you were born with dicks? !!! Double standards do not pass! Either you keep it in your pants or you accept that the other party can do the same! This is the situation! If you don't like it, don't wave it left and right. And the worst thing is to try to blame other people that you are overwhelmed and succumb to primary passion! Others (women) have no right to do so, so that "moralists" can lie to them that they are in love, worship in several camps, and for the girls to roar heartbreakingly out of affection, they took the picture of their beloved when he was with another !!! Yes, yes, yes, dreams .... but only men :))))) Either behave morally or bear the consequences (married to whores) MORALS is a dimension of human relationships. He has no sex, he does not give privilege to some at the expense of others. It is for PEOPLE (both men and women)! It's not nice to look in the mirror, I know, but "moralists" now at least know the truth :)

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ren_tomoyose answered · September 12, 2020

   If he doesn't ask you, don't tell him, but if he asks you, don't hide from him ... Congratulations to your husband ... He took a developed car with returned mileage.

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markuswheatonnfl answered · September 12, 2020

   Well, all women lie about it specifically.

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peachvibesgirl answered · September 12, 2020

   It's no coincidence he doesn't want to know. All men suspect such things and do not want to ask, to live in a blissful illusion, at least as long as they can. As long as he avoids the topic, you avoid it too. But you have to decide for yourself if he still asks you what you will tell him. If your relationship is good enough, whatever the number, it won't matter. The problem, as already mentioned, is that the number usually speaks for the person ... Your number, as you know, already speaks for something, but it still depends on you whether it was a fleeting state or a definition ... It is never too late to be who you want to be, and the past should not pull you back, as long as you have the right decision for yourself.

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editafinley answered · September 12, 2020

   I have the same problem - I lie to my wife about the number, but in the opposite direction. I tell her that she is my 15th and only my third. I don't want him to consider me a mold. I guess on a conscious level you won't accept it as a problem, but subconsciously women are attracted to men with more numbers.

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evieandlouis answered · September 12, 2020

   Very interesting how one measures the numbers by summing the penises in meters and another in liters of semen. I have read another interesting theory. And it is that the female body has the ability to preserve the genes of all men with whom the woman had sex. As a child becomes pregnant over time, there may be a mixture of the genes of different men. Esoterics explains it with the exchange of energies. The plausible explanation is that when they take sperm into their body, the sperm, carrying the DNA, is absorbed by the woman's cells and she stores that DNA in herself. If the woman was with 10 lovers, she will have a memory for 10 DNA models. As he can even make combinations between them. This also applies in cases where the sperm enters the mouth, then the body assimilates them again. Therefore, the female body is something like a seed base, which nature created it that way. Yes, becomes pregnant by fertilizing the egg, but the genetic information is preserved. In this line of thought, the numbers with a condom may be more acceptable, despite the "footage". Abe is the purest version of a virgin, but it rarely happens anymore.

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tedxchambery answered · September 13, 2020

   Number 40, this is not a theory in principle, a lot of experiments have been done and proven, but most do not know, so let's change how much they want.

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irenemorgan answered · September 13, 2020

   The strange thing is that there are some such sacred numbers that women are obliged to report without asking them at all. Up to the age of 22, the previous one must be one, she whipped him a lot, he was .... Over 25 the previous ones are necessarily five, the first was a Boy, and the fourth - the great love. So far, one of the two versions has been served to me at least 20 times. There is obviously a standard.

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timcarroll answered · September 13, 2020

   How cynical it just sounds "" so that I don't look inferior like everyone else ". So the author absolutely realizes that she is inferior and lies to cover it up. "A man has the right to know that you are quite developed and to judge for yourself. When I look at it, there are a lot of women who support such behavior, which is unfortunate. This world is not going well."

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adam_a_zango answered · September 13, 2020

   Specialists in genetics, I read here to express an opinion, to ask during DNA transfusion surgery whether the DNA changes or the DNA is only in the semen ....

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vaustinl answered · September 13, 2020

   Number 44.40 did not explain in detail the exact reason why the woman, having had more partners and giving birth, did not always look like the father. There was a movie about it, 10 examples were given of women who gave birth to children with other skin and of course their husbands were sure that the reason was infidelity, but after a paternity test they saw that they were the fathers officially. These women all had a more tumultuous life, "once upon a time," and were with more than one black man. And I want to do certain things without consequences, but the reality is different.

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fitmomfaith answered · September 13, 2020

   Up to # 42 So you've listened to such versions 20 times, and how many of them did you sleep with? Men expect to sleep with countless women, but if you decide to have a serious girlfriend / wife, she should be a virgin. How do these bills come out, 20% of women will fuck with everyone, and the remaining 80% will be waiting for you to make a living and then give birth to children? What scares men is that with more numbers, the competition jumps and reduces the chance that they will continue their genes. Once upon a time, when there were no safeguards, the fact that a woman had only one man was the only guarantee. For women, this problem does not exist, they always know that the child is theirs. So, all this comes from subconscious fears, it has nothing to do with your imaginary and hypocritical morality.

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bionditudo answered · September 14, 2020

   I'm number 40. I didn't mention being a genetics specialist. I have some knowledge, but I'm not very deep, it's called death. I said it was a theory I had read and I tried to retell it in my own words. No DNA is transferred during a blood transfusion. As with the exchange of other body fluids such as saliva during kissing. Otherwise, if someone sneezes in your face and another material is swallowed again. Only the sperm is capable of this. It is the only cell that is designed for a body other than your own. Its only meaning is to pass on hereditary material. This is not only true in humans, but applies to all living bisexual organisms.

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laurenkittcarter answered · September 14, 2020

   It is important not to increase the numbers. Watch your family. Don't tell him the real number. As compensation, make him happy!

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nicolasprattes answered · September 14, 2020

   46 how can anyone be so simple, I do not know. If she's with me, no matter how old she was, now she decides to be with me. Who competes for whores, so many times you answer with the same nonsense and the very fact that you have 3 by 5 stars shows how many whores there are on the site.

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mlg_live answered · September 14, 2020

   If a man tells you how many women he has slept with, you divide it into 2! If a woman tells you how many men she has been with you MULTIPLY by 3!

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jooskellington answered · September 14, 2020

   As is well known, when a sperm fertilizes an egg, the father's and mother's genes combine to determine the baby's hereditary traits. The genes are arranged linearly in the chromosomes, in a strict sequence. The location of each gene is called a locus and varies from person to person. This allows the genes in the egg to join the corresponding genes in the sperm. As you can see, there is information transmission only at the time of fertilization, this is a quote from the genetics textbook. I am writing so that more people can become literate on the subject and not talk nonsense, because people who accept everything said as true also read here. How many chromosome pairs are 23 in a woman and a man, and at fertilization they become 46, Does this mean that if the woman was more than 23 years old, then the next one will not leave a hereditary imprint, because her capacity is already full, full of nonsense. Read more medical literature on the subject. Whether a woman has had more or fewer partners does not genetically affect the fetus, I repeat the exchange of genes occurs only at the time of fertilization of the egg. By this logic, a tall man in a medium-sized city will have a whole school with children who look like him, think about the opposite.

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hot_chow answered · September 14, 2020

   47, EVERY cell in the human body contains DNA. Sperm cannot live outside the body for a long time, and in a woman's body - up to several days. During this time, they can fertilize an egg, if any. If not, how exactly do you imagine that they exchange DNA - with whom and where is it stored ?? If you manage to prove this theory, you will receive a Nobel Prize, I guarantee :-) and whether the children look like the father or not depends on many factors, it is not necessary. However, it is much easier to say that the mother is to blame. Get to read serious literature, not piquancy and esoterics