Even matchmaking is a strong word, but ... Hi, I'm a girl of 23 and I have a younger sister of 14. Unlike most of my peers, I've always got along very well with my sister (I don't know how the trick works: D) . I have always been studious, quiet and shy, and my sister, although a kid, is a great lover. The problem is that three months ago, her boyfriend (if you can call it that at all) broke up with her, but wanted them to remain friends. And she agreed, even though she still liked him. And now, for two weeks, her ex has been dating one of my sister's best friends. She personally collected them, I DON'T KNOW WHY. Her friend had liked the boy in question for a long time, but she dared to tell my sister about a month ago. My sister was very understanding and promised to help her, and when she got home, she was furious, screaming, crying - she was crazy. Anyway, she talked to her ex about her friend - I don't know what she was trying to do, to show him that she felt sorry for him, what ... Anyway, with a lot of help from her, the pigeons gathered now they are inseparable - even I often see them outside hugging and kissing. I can't understand how my sister can be such a masochist. She treats them kindly and brags that she has collected them, and when she comes home she cries and calls them by some disgusting names. I feel like she's going to get sick and I don't know what to do to help her. She is too young to experience such dramas, but what to do, today's teenagers are like that. In any case, with her great help, the pigeons came together and are now inseparable - even I often see them outside hugging and kissing. I can't understand how my sister can be such a masochist. She treats them kindly and brags that she has collected them, and when she comes home she cries and calls them by some disgusting names. I feel like she's going to get sick and I don't know what to do to help her. She is too young to experience such dramas, but what to do, today's teenagers are like that. In any case, with her great help, the pigeons came together and are now inseparable - even I often see them outside hugging and kissing. I can't understand how my sister can be such a masochist. She treats them kindly and brags that she has collected them, and when she comes home she cries and calls them by some disgusting names. I feel like she's going to get sick and I don't know what to do to help her. She is too young to experience such dramas, but what to do, today's teenagers are like that. to help her. She is too young to experience such dramas, but what to do, today's teenagers are like that. to help her. She is too young to experience such dramas, but what to do, today's teenagers are like that.
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Well, the drama has survived :) And that will pass. In time I will remember this with a smile. And the only thing you can do is be close to her and help her. :)
And I don't know why she did it. I guess your sister is too noble, and she wanted to show that she had already overcome it. I am her age and I have experienced love pain many times, I know how she feels. I liked a boy for 4 years. It was unrequited love, even he behaved disgustingly with me, finally he stopped paying attention to me .. I fell into nervous crises, broke, screamed .. it was scary. Try to calm your sister down, be by her side, tell her not to suffer so that she is still 14, she will meet a lot of boys, this one will not be the only one, just think so for now. It really happened to me - I met another boy and I liked him. And the one I liked for 4 years and cried every day for something - to look after his work! And I thought I would never forget it, but here it is. * Yasa
I understand your sister and I was like that (a girl of 14) I would collect the love of my life with my best friend. The idea was for her to understand that I was suffering and to tell him. Let him come back to me. Your sister's goal is for him to realize the sacrifice she makes and to love her again. Talk to her and - good luck! Please write what she told you ..
Your sister wants to be a dude, broad-minded, but she's not. What she's doing is hypocritical and fake.
Yes, I have experienced it too. I broke up with my ex, and then I would choose Valentine's gifts for his new one. Just to keep him at least as a friend. To be close to me, to know what he is doing. Even the thought of him being well and happy made me happy. The pain of embracing another more and more cuts right into my heart, but I would never tell him. Sit down and talk to her, ask her the reasons. Teenagers nowadays don't think about anything. Anyway, she had already done it, if it weren't for her friend, she would have been someone else more terrible. So at least she knows she has a good and decent substitute.