She is a wonderful person, a friend, always ready to help, kind, good and loves him very much, although she does not admit to suffering from his disinterest. The other one - my old "girlfriend" with a serious relationship, who is constantly hovering around him, not because he is interesting to her, but only to irritate me) (what a friend, right) I - another fool in love with the wrong… He - everything I want… or maybe not, I'm already starting to think… And to be jealous, I go crazy I want to be with him, I don't want him in the "friends" column, I want something more ... And he He doesn't seem to know what he wants, but he seems to stumble on option №2 and that's the worst… Maybe if he had chosen the first one, I wouldn't have felt bad, I would even be happy for her, because even if I just wanted to there is nothing wrong with her. And here we come to my main question:
Answers 1
I will answer your question from experience. And I think everyone goes that way. And not just you girls. If you haven't heard the saying about "nice apples" (and if you haven't, it sounds like this: "Nice apples, pigs eat them!"). Know that it applies to pretty girls. I mean, I could ask you the same question. See how it turns out: Why at first glance good and decent boys, if they have the opportunity, always choose the naughty types? I'm not exactly one of those, but when I had to turn things around so that I could "lead the dance," I took on the right role just to show my current wife that these "bad boys" were actually ordinary cowards. She, on the other hand, turned out to have used the same tactics to impress that bubble ... Fate ... My opinion is (nobody likes advice), first to get acquainted with the qualities of man, to find out if it is worth it. Turn off the preconceived notion that he is a "dude" just because your (supposedly) girlfriends support him. And if it's worth it, all means are justified. Make every effort - in the end only one survives. If it turns out to be "compressed air", as there are many, just do not waste your time - let them enjoy it. Oh, don't miss it. One cannot always win. Rather, there is always someone more prepared for the situation than himself. Therefore, failure should not bring you despair, but only a desire to reveal your shortcomings and the ambition to succeed elsewhere. Just aim where your goal is achievable and enjoy every success from the heart. as there are many, just do not waste your time - let them enjoy it. Oh, don't miss it. One cannot always win. Rather, there is always someone more prepared for the situation than himself. Therefore, failure should not bring you despair, but only a desire to reveal your shortcomings and the ambition to succeed elsewhere. Just aim where your goal is achievable and rejoice from the heart in every success. as there are many, just do not waste your time - let them enjoy it. Oh, don't miss it. One cannot always win. Rather, there is always someone more prepared for the situation than himself. Therefore, failure should not bring you despair, but only a desire to reveal your shortcomings and the ambition to succeed elsewhere. Just aim where your goal is achievable and rejoice from the heart in every success.