Hello, I will try to explain my story as briefly as possible and I hope you will answer me exactly so that I know what to do. When they combined my and another school, I found myself in a new class and at first I didn't like anyone as a friend because they were smokers, they drank, they went to discos, in general there were muffin boys and girls. But there was a girl who I thought was decent and that she was going to be a real friend, but she turned out to be insensitive and she didn't care about anything like metal style and those weird things like "Invitation to Friendship" she didn't look like scared from the movie, but a little bit of the attitude and what he likes and paints is scary, and I didn't like the fact that he has such friends with such a devilish style, but I was not surprised because this rough music turns people into such I do not want to offend anyone, it is just proven, for example, that the chalga is one bad extreme that leads to debauchery and so on. And now what happened suddenly my classmates asked me what kind of music I listen to and I answered them then she heard and we started asking what else we like and it turned out that we have in common, but it turned out that her values are different .. And I asked her whether he wants to sit next to me because I like him and I thought he was not like the others, that he thinks more maturely. And so, months later, she only misled me, once she paid attention to me, and another time she didn't even greet me at all, and I wondered and thought that she was so ashamed of her and couldn't speak a normal conversation as if looking me in the eye. impressed me now that he decided that I am also the better choice for a girlfriend over others who are complete intriguers and follow the crowd. Now she sits next to me and constantly looks at her phone as if hypnotized on this Facebook, which irritated me a lot. I don't know. music on her phone and is never the initiator to talk to me to be interested, and I always try in every way to please her to understand that she has nothing to be ashamed of being more open and that in order to get to know each other we have to we talk about questioning, not keeping quiet and getting complex, and she told me that when we entered high school she would be more open-minded to be sociable and show other people that she is not some secret coward who smiles insidiously. ,, and I wondered if she wanted to change so much, she would do it, and now, even in this school we are in now, she wouldn't wait for the summer to pass and then look at herself. And she doesn't do anything now, she still doesn't pay attention to me unless I talk to her, and when I ask her something important that I want to know about her, she always answers in a limited way, she doesn't say words with which to understand what a person is and with time I started to get tired because there was nothing on her part and I wondered what to do to get my attention, I sometimes bought her delicious organic desserts and gave her useful advice on what to eat because she had gastritis and had to eat certain foods with which to heal I told her to play sports and I wanted the best for her as a good friend, I also bought very nice gifts for her birthday, of which she was a T-shirt of her favorite music band, she was happy and I really liked that I was generous, but I didn't say that as a kind of hint that I bought things, but that I care about her and I'm already trying on everything a way to get her to talk now like I'm talking freely to my sister. And she only talks about this group as if they are perfect, that just because they are famous, she likes them and she is completely obsessed with them and irritates me, and I told her: Well, those who like them have a hard life like is afraid to go out because they have billions of fans waiting for them to attack them, besides she doesn't know them as people, that she even says that she loves them and if a valuable person appears in her life she won't pay much attention to him , no longer and for school no longer cares respect for teachers, because she's looking at her phone all the time, I don't know how she doesn't care if it hurts her head, she doesn't even write anything anymore, it seems that she doesn't care about anything, then I asked my mother and she answered that according to her, except that the music she has turned it into such, she has some problems in the family, and how did she think that she was ugly and constantly complained about her appearance, as it is not so at all, she is just a very weak character and I'm tired of constantly muttering well
She wants to raise her self-confidence, but something else went through my head, her character may be secret, suspicious, etc. She doesn't do anything ..; ((I did everything for her, I wanted to go out, she still didn't have time for me, she has time to sit at home, but she won't go out, and I was angry because my own enemies are out and I see them with their friends and mine can't come out and I don't know if she's my friend anymore. Do you think she is like that or just let her see if she will ever call to wish me a happy birthday, or ask me how I am or if we go out somewhere? We never went out with her, and she lives very close to my block, which sucks for me, even if there is no time. I don't want to get tired anymore and I think that going to another school will be better, because I can finally find normal people. I'm sorry if I offended someone or had any spelling mistakes, I was in a hurry. I ask the moderators to approve my story because I need advice. Girl 14 years old or to ask me how I am or to go out somewhere? We never went out with her, and she lives very close to my block, which sucks for me, even if there is no time. I don't want to get tired anymore and I think that going to another school will be better, because I can finally find normal people. I'm sorry if I offended someone or had any spelling mistakes, I was in a hurry. I ask the moderators to approve my story because I need advice. Girl 14 years old or to ask me how I am or to go out somewhere? We never went out with her, and she lives very close to my block, which sucks for me, even if there is no time. I don't want to get tired anymore and I think that going to another school will be better because I can finally find normal people. I'm sorry if I offended someone or had any spelling mistakes, I was in a hurry. I ask the moderators to approve my story because I need advice. Girl 14 years old I was in a hurry. I ask the moderators to approve my story because I need advice.
Girl 14 years old I was in a hurry. I ask the moderators to approve my story because I need advice. Girl 14 years old
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Слушам метъл и не знаех, че съм груба. О. о И въобще в метъла има много нежни песни като на Nightwish, много балади на Metallica, Accept, Scorpions, много песни на Epica и Bleak House, но то е доказано, че такива като теб знаят най- добре! Груба била музиката! Колко песни чу, че да изказваш некомпетентността си? ! Това, че "приятелката" ти е слабохарактерна и си бърше седалищитето с метъла, е нейн личен проблем, лошото е, че дава лош имидж на нас истинските фенове на тази музика. Много е тъпо да етикираш някой според музиката и всеки човек с поне средна интелигентност го знае. Аз слушам метъл от утробата на майка си и имам приятели, слушащи всякаква музика, включително и чалга, и ти гарантирам, че не са развратни! А най- близките ми приятелки никога не са харесвали метъла като цяло, но това никога не е представлявало проблем. Колкото до твоята "приятелка" - седни и проведи един нормален човешки разговор с нея. Попитай я каква е причината да бъде такава, защото проблема може да е доста дълбок или сериозен. Има вероятност да в депресирана. Говори с нея за всичко, което те интересува, и от там ще направиш генерално заключение дали да продължите вашето приятелство. Има вероятност от нейна страна да няма желание за приятелство. Black Sabbath
As far as I can tell from your writing ... you quickly become attached to people and learn to treat both you and them. It is impossible!! Let the girl find you don't seem to care and she just doesn't want to break your heart and make fun of you !!
Look now, you're just very obsessive. Dap, read correctly. This girl is obviously the more withdrawn type and is obviously much more introverted. You put labels on people ("She's a muffin, she's a hypocrite"), etc., and you don't look at yourself. From reading it, I think there is a high probability that the problem is in YOU.
WTF ?? Man, not that anything, but do you know how selfish you sound? Emmy, as you are so much better and more mature than your classmates, stay alone. No one is obliged to de dondurka ..
What if you see on her part that she has no desire, it's best to dump her so that you don't torment each other!
To number one That's how I first listened to metal, what do you think? I can't be quick to say my opinion about music I haven't listened to, can I? It would be stupid, I know most bands, and I know what they represent, so you proved by your speech that you are rude, you felt, I was incompetent: e, learn to accept a negative opinion about "music" you. I know about this group of Nigthwish and I know about Nirvana and I know about the other thugs and now it is very clear that if you are not a believer, you will think so, I am not surprised by the worldly people, that's what I expected. Everyone has an opinion, but I don't think you need to attack me for what I said. So I tried to talk to her in a normal conversation, but as I said, she doesn't have much information, and since we're at the beginning of a friendship, I don't want to spur her on, it's bad, that it's hard to talk to her and I thought if it makes sense, I don't know if to ask her what is the reason for her secrecy, she can cry, or she can say to herself: "She's wrong with me", and no I know I will wait more can change. :) The author
Author, your "competence" for my Music (with mainly "M") is clear, because Nirvana does not make metal, but grunge ROCK, and where did you hear them shouting? And where did he hear Nightwish yelling, as well as Scorpions, Blake House, and Accept? Because, dear author, the vocalists of these groups do not "shout" anywhere, but sing, and you stick the label of "shit" to them, precisely because you do not understand this music at all and precisely because your intellect is well below average, as much as and to hint to us in your confession that you are above your peers. And to fight in the chest that "you know the other scoundrels", you have hardly heard more than 5 songs of a maximum of 15 bands, and this is far from enough to be called competence, given the thousands of groups around the world and all over 120 varieties of metal .. In this regard, since you're very familiar with things, I'll just tell you it's not called "peeling" but screaming / growling. How, dear author, did you realize that I am a "worldly man" and that I am not a believer? Ah, your intellect (rather the lack of one) tricked you into telling me, didn't it? Well, I have news for you, and it's that not only am I a believer, but I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't shake, and I've never been drunk, intoxicated, or drunk, and pubs aren't to my liking at all. Defining me in this ugly way, because of the music, speaks only of your misunderstood and flat worldview. An intelligent person will never allow such ugly labeling of someone he has not even seen in a photo. Who were you to determine my way of life and my religious views? And one more thing - it will be very difficult for someone to be kind to you, like you before you met him, you called it rude, just because of your musical preferences. Most people, no matter how friendly and open to the world, would withdraw from such an attitude and would be more or less rude to you. That's why I'm rude to you and in fact all the provocation comes from your "opinion" in your post. I am open to any opinions, but when I see that the other party is wrong, I say it directly. In return, I will receive ugly labeling that speaks to your refusal to accept other people's opinions or people who are different from you. The other commenters are right that you sound selfish. If you are like that in your attitude towards others and especially towards this girl, it is no wonder that she keeps you at a distance. You better leave her alone. Black Sabbath no matter how friendly and open they are to the world, they would withdraw from such an attitude and be more or less rude to you. That's why I'm rude to you and in fact all the provocation comes from your "opinion" in your post. I am open to any opinions, but when I see that the other party is wrong, I say it directly. In return, I will receive ugly labeling that speaks to your refusal to accept other people's opinions or people who are different from you. The other commenters are right that you sound selfish. If you are like that in your attitude towards others and especially towards this girl, it is no wonder that she keeps you at a distance. You better leave her alone. Black Sabbath no matter how friendly and open they are to the world, they would withdraw from such an attitude and be more or less rude to you. That's why I'm rude to you and in fact all the provocation comes from your "opinion" in your post. I am open to any opinions, but when I see that the other party is wrong, I say it directly. In return, I will receive ugly labeling that speaks to your refusal to accept other people's opinions or people who are different from you. The other commenters are right that you sound selfish. If you are like that in your attitude towards others and especially towards this girl, it is no wonder that she keeps you at a distance. You better leave her alone. Black Sabbath no wonder he keeps you at a distance. You better leave her alone. Black Sabbath no wonder he keeps you at a distance. You better leave her alone. Black Sabbath
but everyone has the right to an opinion and can say it directly, and with this girl I treat her in the best way and I have not offended her with anything, I just can't help but want to be friends, and when I was at school everything was different and it was obvious that he wanted to contact me, he even laughed at me, we talked and she finally understood me and I think everything is fine, she told me that she will not be ashamed of me anymore and so on and stanzas. She told me that she just wanted some time to think things over and be able to relax, and that she was just very shy and that she wanted us to be friends. This makes me very happy, . :) And to number three, be sure that if I put labels on people in my class, then there is a reason why you, not knowing what they are and what disgusting things they do, would be of the same opinion and I never judge before I see the person in action, tax, that I would not deal with people who will upset me and constantly intrigue such cannot be friends. And I looked at myself very well and my actions show me what I am, neither you know me in real life nor anything. From the author
Lucifer was created through music. Music is one of the mega-techniques for infiltrating the population, music can create or destroy (Jericho) and this has been proven by many modern studies. So there is a spirit behind every music of truth, I myself am a believer and the author is right about what she said, about metal, because the real metal, which consists of more aggressive singing and skull-black clothes and murder videos, is satanic, I'm not talking about bands described by Black Sabbath, because they don't look bad or abnormal to me, rather bands like Vampire Rock, as the author BabyMetal said, there are others that are terrible, but the topic is not about music, the girl she wanted someone to answer her maturely without nagging, she is more direct and right, but apparently some people are easily offended, I used to listen to a band a long time ago, I forgot the name because it was in my teens years ago, and almost to become a monster metal made me easily nervous, I got angry easily and so my girlfriend infected me because I was bad with her for which I'm very sorry and then I tightened up and saw that something was wrong with me. And I thank my friend a lot for explaining everything to me, and now I'm calm and I go to church regularly, and I'm thankful to God for getting me out of the mud. And now next to the Author, dear girl, I see that you try to be good with your girlfriend and go on, in my opinion, there is nothing and on the contrary she wants to be your friend, there are just people who are insecure and wonder what to ask you because they are shy, but this phase passes quickly and you will see how things will be arranged I see you say that things were different, obviously as you say, it really took her a while to think a bit, don't worry, there was such a situation before and with me only that with a girl I liked, time passed and she started to be open to talk normally. and everything is fine, I believe with you. You're cool, different. Thank you for not being like the others, don't listen to the villains. :) Male 24 y.
Author, I did not say that you are unintelligent because you do not like my music, but because you define it before you have really studied it and because you label me an unbeliever and a worldly person. You can't put over 120 varieties of music with over 20 different main themes, of which politics, literature, history, mythology, legends, folklore, philosophy, society, Christianity, devil worship and Satanism (there is a difference between the two!), anti-Christianity and anti-religion, war, murder and much more under one denominator. I can give you examples with dozens of other groups such as the Russian Arkona, Epica, Lacuna Coil and Twisted Sister, in which there is nothing satanic; Iron Maiden are quite melodic, and Manowar sing mainly about metal, if they themselves put quite large divisions in the music. And these divisions have to do with Baby Metal, as well as many other bands like Slipknot, Bring Me The Horizon, Chelsea Grin, Whitechapel, etc., which your girlfriend probably listens to as well. The reason for these divisions is that such groups make metalcore and detcore and modern metal in general, and for some fans metalcore and detcore are "poseur" metal and in their eyes most modern bands have no talent, so they raise Old School bands like Venom, Slayer, Megadeth, Testament, etc. There is a so-called war between styles based on these things. I am also a supporter of the Old School, but I also like many groups from the New School and I do not set such restrictions because it is stupid. As for Baby Metal - they are a bit slimy and there is nothing satanic in their clothes. Rather, bands like Mayhem have similar notes in clothing and music. I read that they throw parts of animals and water the audience with sheep's blood, which, as long as it is true, is terrible nonsense, but the Scandinavians are a little cruel. There is another detail. There are bands like SA Slayer (I emphasize NOT Slayer, but SA Slayer) and Original Sin, which are quite melodic but sing about the devil, as well as a lot of bands like Anno Universum or Pantera, which make music with heavy sound, but generally nothing satanic in it. Not to mention the Christian black metal bands. From here I will answer number 9. You say that exactly these groups that make heavy music and dress in black are satanic? And what about Christian BLACK METAL bands like Horde, Anseator and Holy Blood, who also dress in black, make music with a heavy sound, but are they Christian and are their texts based precisely on religion? That's why they are Christian black metal. I've also heard that Fit For A King and August Burns Red also make Christian metal, at least one Christian friend listens to them. I will share with you something else that I discussed with one of my best friends - also a Christian. Not the devil, but God is the Creator. He has given every style of music in the world from metal, through pop and rap to chalga, to attract people to himself, but the satanic thing in the whole situation is that the music changes one or more tones and this turns the music itself from a wonderful art in something ugly. This is probably about 80% of the music and applies not only to metal, but to almost any style. A few years ago, I was about to say yes to the dark side, but faith saved me. To this day, I'm not particularly attracted to religion, because I'm not into these things, but I listen to the bands of that period and I perceive them in a very different way, and all sorts of thoughts of devil worship disgust me. So it depends on how you accept the music and whether you are looking for its good or bad side, not to mention that I am not particularly excited about the lyrics. I can write for hours on the subject, but I stop there. Black Sabbath
BABYMETAL are very good. Anyway .... omg ... They don't even sing about demons. No, no ... Just not. She may have problems, so she behaves like that. Family is the reason?
Here we become three fans of BABYMETAL, unfortunately not enough to come, at least watch the concerts in Mexico or France, filmed by fans or the official dividends from Wembley and Tokyo, amazing!