Hello, Two weeks ago I posted a topic "How can I confess my feelings to her". The girl I like became close to a boy from our group and they seem to be getting closer. I don't know exactly what their relationship is and whether I'm exaggerating, but the two have already dated several times and have known each other very recently. True, they only went out with company, but I still haven't dated her like that, except once for coffee. I think they are also somewhere outside at the moment, and tonight they can go to a disco. She invited me too, but I'm not for such places. How is it possible that there are people who get things right away, and I do not dare to invite her to a meeting for a whole year and sit like a complete idiot. You have no idea how bad I feel right now. What to do? I am desperate. Thanks in advance! Please edit the topic.
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Author: I have confused the title, for which I apologize. I mean, she doesn't suspect my feelings.
Bray, didn't I write this topic drunk? I am in exactly the same situation.
Well, brother, she invited you, you refused ... I don't understand what you want?
When you want something, don't take your eyes off it.
My advice is to act boldly and show the girl that you like her and want something more. Out of shame and waiting for the right moment, there is no use! If she likes you too, things will work out, if not - naughty, but that's life sometimes. That's why you invited her out! > М.31г <
Don't idealize a chick and think about her for years (I've done it and it's not productive at all). You invite her for coffee, if she comes you start to press her lightly and if she responds you start thinking about a second date. If not - the next. You don't have to think that much. You know: a duck thought thought and finally died.
Author: Apart from being extremely sick, I am also terribly confused. On the one hand, I want to get her out of my head, because I know that she would not be happy with me and the relationship between us would not last long for a number of reasons, but I really like her and she is one of the most decent girls who I have met, as I mentioned in my previous topic. What should I do? To fight for her or to try to forget her? I'm so sick right now that I've seen her with someone else, it's like I feel like we broke up. And imagine what it would be like for me if we went together and actually broke up.
I am again 7. As I said, thinking in such cases is contraindicated. I have fallen into such situations. I think about a girl, I idealize her, I start imagining how we are together. I imagine the romantic way we spend our time and so on ... That's why people said "movie". That is, you filmed. Like me, I've been filmed many times. Things never look the way you imagine them in dreams and idealizations. So instead of choosing to suffer, choose something more productive. When I fall into such idealizations, I start playing computer games and I feel much better. After a few hours of play, I look at the girl in a completely different way :) That is, distract yourself with something.