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She's Obsessed With Me, And We Don't Know Each Other

By cabiria_ August 02, 2020 29 answers Last updated August 02, 2020

Hello! I am a girl, 17. I do not live in Bulgaria, in America. My family stayed in Bulgaria. And because I live in a room with friends, only they give me advice, but they are not very good at ideas. Well, here's my problem. A girl appeared in my class, very strange, nobody noticed her. She dresses in black, always with a hood, does not talk to anyone, walks alone, sits at a table at noon. I noticed her in an hour, she was staring at me, you ignore that. But at noon, while I was with friends, I turned around and saw her, staring at me, again. I smiled at her and talked to my friends again. When I came home I saw her following me, she was about 10 meters behind me. In the evening I received an invitation from her. I looked at a bit of her profile. She only uploads drawings, not bad, but scary. He had about 10 friends, strange ones too. And I accepted her invitation. Exactly seconds later he wrote me "Hello", one more time "You remember me, don't you?" and again "I'm the new girl", and again "We're in the same class", then again "What are you doing", I didn't answer her, I didn't even read her messages. When I went to bed, I received notifications that she was writing to me, I ignored her again. In the morning I got up and looked at my phone and saw that I had over 99 messages from her. I opened them and read the last three, "Why don't you answer?", "Are you angry?" And "Tomorrow I'll take you from you and apologize to you personally if I scared you." I wondered how she knew where I lived, but I remembered that she was following me to us. I was thinking of going to school with my friends, but they had already left. When I went out, she was sitting outside on a bench. He got up as soon as he saw me and smiled at me. I tried to smile, but I'm sure I was scared. They go to school with her, no one said anything, but suddenly right next to the school she spoke and said "You have a birthday in 3 days, right?" I was surprised that she knew, but I confirmed it. She even invited herself, I kindly said nothing, I just smiled and they entered the class. During lunch all the time it was taken in me, I did not dare to look at her. He started posting things on my Facebook wall, how we were supposed to be together, he posted pictures on my wall (at least about 30 pictures of me). He walked 10-15 meters behind me wherever I went. I started having nightmares about her and her harassment. On my birthday, my friends had reserved a table at a restaurant, and as soon as I left I was reassured that she was gone. But just as they were embracing a girl, she entered. As soon as I sat down, she sat at the other end of the table, staring at me. I smiled slightly at her, they started giving me presents and she came to me and said "I've been cooking your present for a month" I was startled, so we've known each other for a week and I was amazed. He gave me a strange necklace, it was obvious that it was made by hand, I thanked her and she sat down again. As we all talked and laughed, she stared at me. It worried me even more. After my friends and I left, she followed us. And they got scared, we went home. I came out of the bathroom and saw her under my window, opened the blinds as if I hadn't seen her. I was just going to bed and she called me on Skype, but I hadn't given it to her. I was even more startled. I didn't pick her up. She rang, rang and I got tired, and I picked up. She told me that she would draw more pictures for me soon.

As she spoke, I looked around her room, she was gluing my pictures and drawings, I told her, that I am tired and thinking of going to bed and she said well and left me. But I was worried, I even slept next to a friend. Every day he uploads drawings and posts on my profile about how we are meant to be together. He writes to me, calls me, he already has my number. She's watching me, staring at me, even when I was with my boyfriend, she was looking at me, and it was as bad as killing him. Comment on each of my photos has each of my social profiles on Instagram, Twitter, Tumbler, even my Snapchat has. He sends me drawings everywhere. She even processed my photos and made them look like we're together. Well, I can sleep from it, it scares me. My friends told me to tell her to get lost. But they have to be rude, and I don't want to. How can I make her stop stalking me, what's wrong with this girl? Why is he stalking me? Does anyone have an idea or advice on how to get her to leave me alone, I'm going crazy.

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cute_twink67 answered · August 02, 2020

   Hi, I think this girl is rejected and misunderstood and when she saw your smile, she felt somehow accepted. Its essence is hardly as scary as it seems from the side, because artists, especially artists, are quite specific and are often rejected by society because of it. I think you should go and explain to her in the most humane way that you were not created to be together, that you are committed, that you do not fall in love with girls (if so), but remember that she is no less a man of you and also seeks love and understanding like all other human beings. I am sure that under the reputation of a cold person she is a sensitive and intelligent girl, she just wants a special approach that no one has. I've been in a similar situation to her for a few years, and what I can guess from that position, is that she probably hides pain in herself, is depressed, and is afraid to reveal herself because she may be rejected. That's why she shrinks and waits for someone to notice her. But here, you did it and that's why she stuck to you. Anyway, be human with her and tell her! Black Sabbath

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bigsiskatie answered · August 02, 2020

   There is such a horror movie, it is from 2016 or 2017, it seems true that 99% of the pearls here are invented either by psychedelic paws or by complexes. Admins, check a little more thoroughly, something you can't do to be admins.

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lux_15 answered · August 02, 2020

   There are two options, because the new one is more disturbing and the only person she liked in the class is you and the second one is a lesbian and is in love with you. As you describe it to me, it looks more like the latter. In my opinion, the only way to leave you alone is to listen to your friends and tell her directly to get lost, if she continues to bother you, complain to the police! This is harassment! I endured such a suffocating person for years and I regret that I always bent over and did not show firmness earlier to show her the way. No matter how much I blocked her, she kept creating new social media accounts and harassing me. She has already calmed down after I gave her to a prosecutor.

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hottslovecumxxx answered · August 02, 2020

   Supposedly big women with make-up and boyfriends at 17, and you can't fix a stupid *** problem ... Tell her that you don't like her company, and are you even more of a lesbian ??? You can also tell her that you have no inclinations towards your gender. Even if you call the police, be sure that they will do the job.

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amandapresston answered · August 02, 2020

   Is this a retelling of a movie?

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boobsandass4fun answered · August 02, 2020

   God, sweet, terrible story. I'm starting to worry about you, too. This girl, I think, is in love with you. She is obsessed, you have to seek help. Doesn't anyone know her? Can't the teachers or the principal help you? I absolutely understand that you want to be nice to her and you don't want to hurt her, but you have to think about yourself first. Now that he does that, imagine what else could happen. I mean, if she's really in love with you, she can take someone's life, and that's not impossible at all. You should seek help before something happens, but I wouldn't tell her directly. She has a sick brain, has mental disorders, no doubt, and can do something to you and your friends. Are you actually in high school or college? Write what's going on, I'm very worried about you. I'm not sure if you should follow my advice, if it can be called that at all, but I just want you to know that there are people with you and your friends. I hope someone will give good advice for you, I will follow the topic.

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carolinajoy answered · August 03, 2020

   Ehh, let's just say I've seen a lot of movies. I don't know if anyone else will catch your story, but it's definitely made up. I think so. I've read similar things in fenfiction, ie stories in which teenagers write about celebrities and how they pursue them, fall in love with them and so on. And that was a long time ago. It just sounds unreal. From the very beginning, when I read that you live in America with your friends, and yours are in Bulgaria, it became clear to me. I'm sorry if I attack you and your story is true. And in real life there are such persecutors, but I have never heard such things.

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bowlofoatmeal069 answered · August 03, 2020

   I have little doubt about the truth of this story. You just stole the script for "Friend Request". Cool movie, watch it one dark night alone ... you can at least learn from it and not accept bullets and bullets in friends on social networks and how dangerous the internet can be.

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mixxedican answered · August 04, 2020

   This is from a horror movie I watched recently, 1 to 1, try harder next time! :) The movie is called Friend request. :)

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nastylilmilf2000 answered · August 04, 2020

   I advise you to go to a psychologist and consult with him, because this girl can be dangerous.

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madeboobs_x answered · August 05, 2020

   This is a movie xDD .. I forgot its name because it was crazy

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highclass92i answered · August 05, 2020

   I read the comments and if the story is a fiction from a movie, then I screwed up a lot with my first comment. : D; (Black Sabbath

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polishboi87 answered · August 05, 2020

   Ahahaha I watched this movie friend request is quite good

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lexy_london answered · August 06, 2020

   Okay. I don't care who trusts me how much! I just wanted to see if I would get decent advice. If photos could be posted here, I would show you what it says to me every day. As for whether I'm a lesbian, no, I'm not, I'm bisexual (and she can't know). And in America (which I don't believe I study there) I left when I was in 10th grade, with a test, I had transportation and accommodation. When I went there I had roommates and this came closer! You can search the internet for tests to go to study in America there are both high school and college.

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little_mermaid19 answered · August 06, 2020

   As long as they can really harass the girl in cyberspace. There are many on FB.

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thickdickshooter answered · August 06, 2020

   And again from me (the author). I talked to the principal, she said that her parents insisted that she study here and told me not to be rude to her. And my friends told me she must be mentally ill ... but I don't care. And without your advice I can do it, I just wanted advice with which not to lose it rudely!

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logan_thunder answered · August 06, 2020

   Probably when she saw you smiling and fell in love;)

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diaane answered · August 07, 2020

   This is a lesbian to know. If that's how she looked at your boyfriend. Go out with him more often and kiss in layers while he looks at you and if he continues go and tell her. Don't you realize I'm not a lesbian anymore? If she continues, either your boyfriend has to beat her up or call the police. And if you don't want to be rude, this one will continue to haunt you forever and may one day come to your bed with a knife and kill you. So think about it. If this story is not a fiction, then this one is watching too many movies and you can expect everything from it.

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ttrool answered · August 07, 2020

   I read your story again and some things are not related to me. You write that you are 17 and live alone in a dormitory in the United States. I wonder which normal parents will let their underage daughter live alone abroad? At least I don't know any. At least if she had said you were a student, I would have believed you more. When you lie, at least make it like people to make it look more believable! One more thing reduced horror movies obviously do not reflect well on you!

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kendollboy answered · August 07, 2020

   "Hello! I'm a girl, I'm 17. I don't live in Bulgaria, in America. My family stayed in Bulgaria. And because I live in a dormitory with friends" And how are you 17 years old and you live in America with friends, and your family in Bulgaria . You are completely crazy, it is best to go and check yourself that you definitely need help.

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gameofbones answered · August 07, 2020

   Abe girl, are you normal at all? You watch a lot of movies, don't expose yourself. 100% of the written content is complete fiction, falsehood, phantasmagoria. Stop taking film-coated tablets and get into reality, good luck lol.

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thehole50shades answered · August 07, 2020

   Friend Request: p The movie you advertised is not bad. Are you checking how many people have watched it, what?

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heeeyjude answered · August 08, 2020

   Haha and I recognized the movie.

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nikitacica answered · August 08, 2020

   You're the only one crazy, don't you know that when you leave a comment, a hash is noted here? You write your own comments and think that you will deceive someone, look for attention elsewhere.

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kirabellemetisse answered · August 08, 2020

   As a sybisexual, what is your problem? And I looked at Friend request I liked.

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westvalleyguy54 answered · August 08, 2020

   And people were thinking that it could really happen to her. Even if she is a little beautiful with nightmares, this girl can really haunt her. And if it happens to you and everyone tells you it's from a movie. It's not cool. Get her advice on what to do, instead of saying "I know this movie" in 2 comments. You are big idiots, no offense. As for the fact that you don't believe he's in America. She seems to be a little sister who is 15 this summer going there with a test, so see her on the Internet a little detail before you say that the girl is lying. And you just tell her to spend time with her country friends she had on Facebook. And tell her that she scares you with persecution and constant writing. To all who do not believe, if it happens to them, I wish everyone to tell them that it is from a movie.

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martinlutar420 answered · August 08, 2020

   Hey, I found a movie to watch tonight. Don't lie about such things, because who knows what could happen to you. It's like lying that your stomach hurts so you don't go to school, and then it really hurts. You will start to see various pursuers, don't do that ...: D

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wetalysha answered · August 09, 2020

   You become a producer. You retold the film well, but with other details. I watched it, obviously you too .. but the plot of the movie is better;))

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jastine69 answered · August 09, 2020

   A little later I get involved in the topic, but girl, look ... it's just weird. Like in a horror movie. Say that it scares you, but if you like it, continue to communicate with her in spite of everything and do not try to hurt her and still do not stay alone with her. It is not known what it is, everyone is crazy with his number. Good luck. And if you have a developer, tell him how you feel, he can give you adequate advice.