I give straight without hesitation. The problem I turn to you, the readers of the Share website, is that I later learn a lot about the boy I have been in a relationship with relatively recently. According to two of our mutual friends, he changed women often, was not serious and often lied. And that's what decent and good guys we've known for years tell me. One of whom knows my friend very well because they grew up together. I don't know who to trust, I'm between a rock and a hard place. In principle, I do not rely on people's tales about a person until I personally judge him, but these tales began to bother me. I shook my trust in him because these things were told to me by people I trust. In honor of the truth, I once caught him lying to me, but it was for something very small. Ever since they told me these things, I doubt what he says, whether he is lying to me and who he is with in his free time.
We've been together recently, but what if it creates the illusion of love for me and I bond? If it's all about getting me in bed to have me in my numbers? I like it a lot, we have a great time together, I got into this relationship very enthusiastically, but if it's all a staging, I'd better understand now and step back, because I'm starting to fall in love. When I hinted to him that I had heard that I changed them a lot, he jokingly and with a smile told me: I change them yes, what should I do. He didn't take it seriously. Which, however, does not reassure me. We live in a city, I have never seen him with a girl. Although he admitted to me, for one serious relationship and another 4 for one night. Otherwise, his family is good. What to do, should I ignore my friends' comments? How to behave, I do not want to be anyone's number.
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Don't believe people's stories. In this case, don't trust them, because what kind of friends are they who say bad things about their friend? If it's bad, why do they go with it in the first place? Men generally support each other until they want their neighbor's wife. Most likely the people in question just want them for themselves. Separately, even if what you are told is true, it applies to this person's past relationships. Everyone has had some mistakes in the past and especially a young person is normal to wander. It doesn't matter what his relationship was with other girls, it is YOUR relationship. Think a little about this - YOU what do you think about him, YOU how do you feel with him and let this be decisive Guarantee otherwise no one - only time will tell whether your relationship will be maintained or not Success
Don't believe people's stories. In this case, don't trust them, because what kind of friends are they who say bad things about their friend? If it's bad, why do they go with it in the first place? Men generally support each other until they want their neighbor's wife. Most likely the people in question just want them for themselves. Separately, even if what you are told is true, it applies to this person's past relationships. Everyone has had some mistakes in the past and especially a young person is normal to wander. It doesn't matter what his relationship was with other girls, it is YOUR relationship. Think a little about this - YOU what do you think about him, YOU how do you feel with him and let this be decisive Guarantee otherwise no one - only time will tell whether your relationship will be maintained or not Success
Haha, are you serious? He himself admitted to you that he changed five, don't you think that's common? : D The sensible person sneezes after the first failed relationship, and the breaker changes them without napping.
Girl, instead of bothering, tell your friend what you heard from his friends and remove them from your environment. What he told you on your provocative question (for many girls) can only be a defensive reaction and a reluctance to discuss past things. Everyone has been scalded in the past by something. Men are also vulnerable, read it how many guys share on this site for all sorts of cases. You and your boy share all the vulnerable moments of the past and promise each other not to do this to each other, no matter what the sword shows. Promise yourself not to lie, not to take offense, to trust yourself unreservedly and you will see that everything can be different from what "friends" wish you.