Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year, in the beginning everything was great, but for about a month now I have been wondering whether to break up or not. Although I want to break up, I feel that I still have feelings for him. He hasn't looked for me often for about 2 months, he finds excuses that he was tired and the like. We have only seen each other twice a month, at my insistence. I caught him in adultery once, but I'm ready to forgive him. At one point I want us to break up, and at another I don't. He tells me he loves me, but he doesn't show it to me. Please advice on how to proceed. PS He is 26 and I am 24.
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Break it!
Hello! Don't you think that if he has cheated on you and is not looking for you, he has any feelings for you at all?
"We've only seen each other twice in a month, at my insistence.", "I caught him in adultery once, but I'm ready to forgive him." - Well, in fact, you've already broken up, but you haven't. realized ... It follows from the above two sentences that he is no longer interested in you at all, he has found sex and everything else, but he has not officially broken off his relationship with you either because he does not want to be rude, or because you are something like a "spare tire" for him, and if something else drips from you - it drips ... Accept the facts and stop self-winding. I bet you say that if you don't look for him next year, he won't think of you at all. Point!
Don't forgive him .... lapechki things, break with him naturally, the big dilemma ...
Drop it! Infidelity, he is not looking for you, what else do you want to happen to realize that you are not important to him :)