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Should I Cheat? Or To Be Faithful

By reehab18 July 27, 2020 26 answers Last updated July 27, 2020

A 24-year-old boy writes to you. I have a serious problem. I am actively involved in sports (fitness), I don't know if this is the case, but it happens to me terribly ..... Many times I have found myself in awkward situations because of this, for example at work after a colleague "involuntarily" bends down or public transport when she saw the lavish shapes of a schoolgirl. I have a girlfriend who I like very much and I care about her. She's very sweet to me, a little chubby-abe super, but in sex it's pretty bad, she can't last more than 1 hour, she finishes 2-3 at least and then she says that it hurts, and I manage it myself (manually), and I really want to go crazy until I go crazy, because I have air and I get very hot, and she can't, darling, I even pretend that I'm dirty or a pervert, that she wasn't some whore, some of them I talk and I feel so bad. I had a previous mistress, 2 years ago, a Turk, she lives in the Netherlands.

We met there, I was an intern in a Dutch company and she was my boss. I used to do up to 4 times a night with her and I really like her. The bad thing is that she is in Bulgaria now and she calls me all the time - see you, and I don't want my girlfriend to suffer. If I respond to the offer? Is it a sin to want crazy sex? And I don't want my girl to suffer. If I cheat, will he perceive it exactly as cheating? Should I try with the Turk just for sex? I DON'T KNOW I'M MUCH CONFUSED. GIVE ME ADVICE, PLEASE and I don't want my girlfriend to suffer. If I respond to the offer?

Is it a sin to want crazy sex? And I don't want my girl to suffer. If I cheat, will he perceive it exactly as cheating? Should I try with the Turk just for sex? I DON'T KNOW I'M MUCH CONFUSED. GIVE ME ADVICE, PLEASE and I don't want my girlfriend to suffer. If I respond to the offer? Is it a sin to want crazy sex? And I don't want my girl to suffer. If I cheat, will he perceive it exactly as cheating? Should I try with the Turk just for sex? I DON'T KNOW I'M MUCH CONFUSED. GIVE ME ADVICE, PLEASE

Answers 26

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grantuk answered · July 27, 2020

   "If I cheat, whether he will accept it as infidelity" - well, what should he accept it, in your opinion.

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tcklmyanus answered · July 27, 2020

   standing on your ass

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victoria_scott answered · July 27, 2020

   Why "like infidelity"? It will be infidelity. Put yourself in her shoes.

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happyhandslbc answered · July 27, 2020

   Very true - stay on the D. Did you know that the stimulants you cram into make you want to do it crazy? And you don't think the girl is a machine ??? For 1 hour she got tired ... As for that debauched Turkish woman - are you okay to think that you will do whatever you want with her, and your girlfriend will be happy for you - Of course you will hurt her. I don't think it's bad if this link is real for you in "Manual Control".

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innocentshawn21 answered · July 27, 2020

   in my opinion - if your girl can't keep up with the pace of davai with the Turkish woman, it's not your fault that you're so pissed off

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vegasron3453 answered · July 27, 2020

   The important thing is that you like it. The others are irrelevant. Shake your Turk

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julianne_lawrence answered · July 28, 2020

   Cheat, and not just with the Turk. One day when you get married, then you will not cheat.

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antonia_brunni answered · July 28, 2020

   So your girlfriend is straight for a medal - to last an hour! What are you blabbering on about? You obviously have a problem. What do you drink? Don't you know that it's been abnormal for a long time?

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esme_and_oliver answered · July 28, 2020

   Well, I think you need to talk well and understand each other - to compromise each other! Do not betray why you will be ill and will betray6!

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sledadora answered · July 29, 2020

   Grab an athlete, one who doesn't look like a woman, put her legs behind her neck, and fuck, fuck, fuck. Can you fuck at all. It's not just about swinging, getting in and out. Knowing in 10 years will not work for you. Don't take drugs.

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tinybabbeee answered · July 29, 2020

   Abe, don't listen to them, sex is very important in a relationship, if the current chick doesn't meet your needs, then she may be your friend, but for a partner you have to find a machine like you :) whether the Turk or not doesn't matter, the important thing is to make your life good, not to bother.

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ohmymia answered · July 29, 2020

   I think you need to talk to your girlfriend about your sex problem, because if it's not someone else's, you can still cheat if you have sex problems. If she doesn't understand you, she will be guilty of cheating on you. It's best to tell her, because lying is the ugliest thing in life and there is never an excuse if it is up to us to solve our problems :) Good luck!

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petitecharlize answered · July 30, 2020

   Abe, if I look at the comments, there are pros and cons. I think you would really struggle with this friend of yours. If she can't stand you from now on, what will happen later. And life is short. Find a chick for whom fucking will be a pleasure and not a torture, whether it will be the Turk does not matter. And what if she's Turkish when she gets up in bed. Abe is not surprised and walks and scratches her pussy life is too short.

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carlasensual10 answered · July 30, 2020

   I have a 5 year relationship and I have cheated at least 50 times and believe me I have no remorse but I love my wife and I would not replace her for any blood. THIS IS NOT CHEATING !!! You're a man, so fuck it so it doesn't turn out that your girlfriend is doing it for you.

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lolalopezz answered · July 30, 2020

   Think about whether you hold on to yourself. It's not the girlfriend you're cheating on. If a person is true to himself and believes in some values, he would not betray. I wouldn't do it even if my girlfriend cheated on me - I believe in myself, I believe in her and even if I'm wrong it doesn't matter. I'd rather believe something than doubt it. Think about it. Regards;)

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loves_weet answered · July 31, 2020

   How can you even think about infidelity? Apk number 14 even justifies you with the unshakable "you are a man", which has the absolute weight to release you from any responsibility obviously ... What if your girlfriend was insatiable and squeezed you? What if she was constantly cheating on you because you couldn't satisfy her? Worse, if you didn't feel any guilt after that and you excused yourself with "What can I do, I'm a woman, it itches me and that's it."? Don't cheat, don't listen to these "MEN". Just have a very serious conversation with her and tell her that she doesn't satisfy you, not because she's not pretty, but because you can handle more of her. Talk to her about other ways to satisfy you - blowjobs, this - that ... I've heard that even some men are more likely to cum than a blowjob. And she can try to be more proactive, not some sex doll ... To caress you, to show you that he wants you, to be rude at times ... I'm not bragging, but I've made a man cum only from a gentle caress, but barely - barely, my breath on his genitals and very, very dirty tales! There are thousands of ways to take care of your pleasure. If she won't, then she doesn't care about you, but dump her. But don't cheat! Better break up with her and then go to another. so at least nothing will be behind someone's back ...

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bobbi_black answered · July 31, 2020

   Number 16 splits the darkness :) Typical female opinion on the matter, but in general I agree: D .... Number 15.

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babymoms343 answered · July 31, 2020

   I'm number 16. I'm sorry if I sounded aggressive or aggressive, I just found out about my friend's infidelity a month and a half ago for the same reason and I'm still recovering. He can't finish for at least 3 hours and flatters me like he's furious, and I can't finish at all because at the 40th minute I'm already in pain from so many "tendernesses". We talked about it and he supposedly relied only on plowed love and manual gratification, and in the end it turned out that once he cheated on me there with one, where the fame of the city is (they made a "carriage" with her - 5 boys and 1 girl ) and then started a relationship. a friend saw them, called me and told me, and I unraveled everything later. I know what it is, so I tell you not to do it. I apologize again if I sounded rude. Don't understand that this is my attitude towards all men,

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candyland3 answered · August 01, 2020

   it can be, it can be, but it's so insatiable .... If you don't care so much, why didn't you take a whore? You better leave the girl as your sex is not going .. 1 hour of sex do you know how many useful things you can do in 1 hour? And he wanted sex for 1 hour as you want so find a prostitute that's their job to satisfy tanned: D A normal sex lasts 5 minutes or 10 but not more :) If I had something like you, God forbid I would fuck him more on the 3rd day when I find out who she is -_- But if you don't have money for the prostitute, hide in some bushes somewhere where there are benches where women sit, beat your chicks and enjoy them, and if you wind up, it's great for you! : Д

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homie_girl answered · August 01, 2020

   1 hour is a super long time, 30 minutes is enough for me, then I'm dry again and I get tired. I am amazed that there are people who do not have enough time. don't you have other activities? And it's not like I don't like sex ... I imagine someone who has a lower libido than mine would be quite scared of this passion of the author.

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jack_bigballs answered · August 01, 2020

   Be faithful :) www.budiveren.com

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just4katie answered · August 01, 2020

   I agree with number 14: D bodvai bate women pain some day when you find out that she cheated on you at least you will be clean no matter how much you love everything is up to 1 moment 1 2 3 10 years if you want how long it will last ...

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pinky_pink answered · August 02, 2020

   sex is not the most important thing on this earth. Unfortunately, I am also a little impulsive and when I see a beautiful weak girl with an angelic face, she arouses me and involuntarily I want to at least kiss and cuddle, I love women, fortunately in sex with my girlfriend I have no remarks and I do not want to have sex. even to kisses, but I sympathize with all the beautiful girls, well-groomed and sexy, I can't change that, it's stronger than me :) But if I cheat on my girlfriend, then I'll be unhappy because she didn't do it and we have had good times, she will suffer and be hurt, that's why I can't, some people don't understand that.

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aalisa_tt answered · August 02, 2020

   Infidelity - violation of the expected fidelity in an emotional and / or sexual relationship! It depends on the expected fidelity. Mostly yours and to some extent to your girlfriend :) In your place I would not miss the Turkish woman and I would work in the direction of a threesome with her and the incumbent. I hope I was useful :)

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red_morning_star answered · August 02, 2020

   Depends on how smart your girlfriend is. If she is a well-developed person, she will not care who you do it with, but if she keeps the carnal pleasures between you and you do it with another, forget about this relationship already. In general, most people are so similar that they have been together for a long time. So put yourself in her place. How would you react if she cheated on you with someone else? =]

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nahomi_smalls answered · August 02, 2020

   She is already suffering. And you have already cheated mentally many times. What advice do you want and what sin are you talking about?