A 17-year-old girl writes to you. Let me start with the fact that I do not enjoy sex. I don't even have that much desire anymore, I don't even get that excited. The reason for this, in my opinion, is the contraceptives I have been taking for 3 months now. I still didn't like it when I had sex, but at least I was aroused and I had a great desire. The problem is that on the one hand I don't want to stop them ... from them my breasts got a little bigger and formed. They used to be very small and I was complex about that. And now I feel much better. But if I stop the pills, therefore my breasts will become small again ... And before when I didn't take the pills we were very tempted to do it without a condom. I don't know what to do ... Stop them or not? If I stop them, I will regain my desire for sex, but my breasts will not be so beautiful and I will become more complex. :
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By your logic, half of the women on Earth do not enjoy it. If you want to understand sex so much ... catch someone more experienced
You probably just haven't come across "your" pills. I have been with Diane for a long time and I have no problem with the desire for sex, on the contrary. Look, I haven't noticed any changes in my breasts, they are the same as before. So don't stop taking the pills, but ask the doctor to change them for you, because you write that you are not a big fan of condoms and that's how they become white. So if you have a regular partner, the pills are the best, so it's best to just talk to the doctor who prescribed them and explain what the problem is.
How often do you do it? What pills do you take and how old is your partner?
From the author: My boyfriend is experienced enough, he is 20. He drinks Lindinet 20 and I have no side effects other than my reluctance to have sex. We do it every time we see each other, that is, several times a week. My problem is that I haven't had any pleasure so far, but before I started taking birth control pills, I was always aroused ... and now ... Well, I have a question, it may seem very stupid, but I didn't find an answer anywhere. I read that there are some herbs and aphrodisiacs that increase libido. Is it harmful at my age to use to have a greater desire and is it generally wrong to take herbs / aphrodisiacs after taking contraceptives?
So am I. I have been on contraceptives 4 times over the years, I have taken them with different duration from 6 months to 3 years. It's the same every time - the first months my breasts are rounded, between the second and third month I lose my desire for sex, I get much less aroused and sex is possible only with lubricant. When I stop the pills, it still takes me 2-3 months to regain my desire for sex. Everything is very different, I don't need lubricant and I finish much more often. I have been a permanent partner for almost 10 years, nothing has changed on his part. I tried to look for information on the net, but everywhere it says that there should be no connection between libido and contraception, even some articles try to convince us that with the pill we should feel calmer without worrying about unwanted pregnancy. . The feeling is very strange,
Are you taking them right now? Or how long have you not been drinking them? Did you go to a gynecologist and what did they tell you? How long have you been doing it so regularly?
Do you use any lubricant? And what?
If it is small, the package may not satisfy you
It has nothing to do with pills, your man doesn't fit. And to stop them and not until you change the boy, that's how it will be.
And that you don't get aroused is normal anymore, you are already mentally set up, that you don't finish with it, respectively the body and the brain don't react. But again, it's not from the pills.