Hello, I am writing for the first time on such a site and I will be very grateful if you give me some other advice. I'm a 23-year-old girl and I'm a virgin, I don't wait for the prince on the white horse or take care of my first wedding night, it just happened. I've been thinking of doing it with a friend recently, but our relationship is a bit complicated. We've known each other for a long time, but we haven't dated together. Recently he started writing to me and we spent a lot of evenings writing .. Naturally we opened the topic of sex and he admitted to me that he had a desire before, but I did not want to not feel ready for him and refused him several times. Very recently he has changed a lot, we went out a few times, everything was normal, even a few times I thought how seductive his voice is and when he touches me it's like an electric shock. However, he behaves strangely, there is always some work to be done, his friends are getting more important (normally I guess). I realized that I wanted to be with him, but in these circumstances I don't know how to tell him or what to do ... given that I refused him several times, he may have given up or I don't know. We wrote to each other recently and he aroused me a lot and I guessed that with these words he still wants us to have sex .. This is my story, if you can tell me how to approach, I really want it a lot! THANKS IN ADVANCE! PS Please write for the second time and you do not approve of my story, at least this time. Thanks :) We wrote to each other recently and he aroused me a lot and I guessed that with these words he still wants us to have sex .. This is my story, if you can tell me how to approach, I really want it a lot! THANKS IN ADVANCE! PS Please write for the second time and you do not approve of my story, at least this time. Thanks :) We wrote to each other recently and he aroused me a lot and I guessed that with these words he still wants us to have sex .. This is my story, if you can tell me how to approach, I really want it a lot! THANKS IN ADVANCE! PS Please write for the second time and you do not approve of my story, at least this time. Thanks :)
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I am a boy and I was a virgin until quite late. In the typical female style, I refused girls, I just waited for the princess. I advise you, if you have driven so far like this, to follow your life path in this way, and not to pervert now at these years, these things are done on 17-18-19, it is too late to expose yourself and tomorrow you they point a finger, and you don't miss anything either, because you're not used to the habit of sex and this life. Listen to your heart and fall in love, then give yourself to someone, but then you may regret it if it is the wrong person. Continue to live with dignity, morals and values, since so far you have done so, I personally aimed at very tall girls and had good moments with 2, intimacy, but not sex, I'm in love and for me this is the important thing, I saw what sex is, I saw what love is, live as you please
As soon as you get aroused, go ahead! Just don't expect a serious relationship with him. Apparently he just wants to ... the right word is OBLADAE, he felt "macho". I guess it's not too good, usually they are looking for exactly virgins that you have no basis for comparison ...
If you trust him, go ahead. For us men it is different. For example, I broke up with my last girlfriend because she was playing me and she wasn't ready. The wait doesn't last forever because life goes on. :)
if it attracts you and you want it, I don't see why you shouldn't. however, do not have high expectations for a long-term and serious relationship. just let things happen and see what comes out. Success! F43
Do it. Your boyfriend is a friend, you lose absolutely nothing, you will even like him. And sex brings you very close - there may be a connection between you that he will be your first sexual partner. :) Try it, if you don't give yourself to it you will be a virgin for another year ... you hardly want it. :)
Familiar story. The boy wants to spend more time with you, to predispose you, to sleep and of course to dump you afterwards. Judge for yourself if you want to have sex with him without a serious relationship after that. Ignore the things he says. Everyone knows that women love with their ears. M27
Yes, do it. You probably won't get married and live together all your life, but it's time for you to try the pleasure of sex. There is nothing wrong about that. Go bold and good luck.
I didn't add that I only want sex from him, maybe he is more in love than me ... The author
Hahah, don't be fooled by the author. All men are "in love" until they "knock". But if that's all you want, what's your problem - act.
Don't sleep with him. You think you will give him the sweetest and you will expect him to be grateful to you. And he will just think that it helps you to become human. Do it with someone random. If it's impossible for you, do it with me. I `m not joking. I know what this is about. Sensual tremors are in younger girls. You are already mature and you need a man to introduce you. Then, if you still hold on to this boy, have sex with him. But you will no longer be the fool who is crazy about the first one, but you will be a full partner in a relationship. You will indulge in pleasure and you will find your true feelings. And if love comes out ehee And in the end have sex. Give and receive love. Be gentle. Don't be stupid.
17 I get upset by people like you counting just to use
To number 17 ... My question now is how do I get him involved?
Do it!!!
Look, I'll tell you quite frankly that the first time is not a big deal. You are nervous, sometimes there is blood, it is painful. If you do not have a serious friend and this boy excites you and you like him, do it, but do not enter with any great feelings and expectations, because you will suffer if you are not fully aware of his intentions. It is better to specify from the very beginning who wants what, if it is only for sex, it is not bad to consume attraction when it is mutual, but women in most cases fall in love and it becomes complicated, so if he does not want a relationship, and you are not sure that you will be able to leave without any problems, you better wait. I personally did it with an older man, to whom I had an attraction and some feelings, but they disappeared after sex and I just left him, so the situation turned out the other way around - he fell in love, he was looking for me and so on, which was kind of unfair to him and his expectations, but it turned out that I didn't want a relationship with him. So follow your desires and don't think much of him. The most important person for you is you, do not compromise with yourself to make others feel good. I'm telling you this because you don't know what might actually come out. I hope you get exactly what you want and expect. Success!
Your question is from 6-7 months or more ago. I will not advise you to do it. Do it with him or with someone else. Advice on how to proceed. Sit him down with a gesture - be closer to him during a conversation, touch him, take his hand, look him in the eye. Kiss him when you're next to each other, or goodbye. That is, tell him that there is a change - that now is not the No, but rather Yes. Men are stupid and do not notice when a woman wants us. You can even drive bolder. Tell him you're ready to contact him. Or even more boldly - "I wish you, you are terribly arousing" Be sincere and you will find out what the result will be. You lose nothing if you try to be braver. I am 2 times older than you - a friend and colleague shared that her 13-year-old son is braver than his uncle and wants his girlfriend to behave like a boyfriend - to kiss and hug him in front of others.