Hello, I want to share with you one of my stories, which is a horror. Almost two years ago I met an amazing boy, he suited me. I was madly in love and I still feel that thrill. We have been walking for almost 2 years. we are boyfriends, we love each other to such an extent that I have no words, it is indescribable. So ... However, there is a very important problem, at least for both of us. My parents do not allow me to go because he was a brazier and + the fact that he was 22 years old is a pedophile ... yes it is true he is 22 years old, but not a brazier ... They made a remark to me, warned me, but I did not listen to them ; x We want to get married secretly. Whether to get married, continue my relationship or give it up, but if I do, there is no point in living. And to add I am 14 years old. Thanks for your attention, if you give me advice I will be happy.
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You can't get married secretly - you're 14 yet. It is allowed at 18 or if you are pregnant at 16. But I would recommend you not to marry a gypsy. First, complete your education. And then he thinks about weddings. ~ Bloody victory ~
ARE YOU CRAZY??? He is a pedophile ... !!! Don't bother at all !!! You better dump it !!! He will only use you for one thing unspoken SEX !!! pp I apologize for the rude words but I couldn't help myself ...
really horrible, how can this madness about marriage go through your head at all. Do not think that it is a big mess, and you are still small, you need the consent of parents. It can't be that way, you're happy and let's put on the white dress. Very childish and unreasonable on your part, as well as on the part of your boyfriend, and he is already a man
You, darling, by law you have no right to marry at 14, I don't know where you went ... And only until before your last birthday your boyfriend was under jurisdiction because he has sex with you ... Interesting - 20 years old has left with a 12-year-old ...
Hi, the situation sucks. Otherwise, when you are 14 years old, your friend is not a pedophile (let the people who spoke in this direction get acquainted with the laws of the country in more detail). You cannot marry, not while you are a minor. However, if your love is real, you will overcome obstacles and one day be together. You have 4 years left, and until then hide. Be careful not to get pregnant !!!! Only then can they reveal you. You can't physically give birth, and you can't have an abortion without your parents' permission. Watch your lessons and enroll in many EPAs, ZIPs, extracurricular activities (sports, courses). Have a lot of girlfriends to hang out with. Don't date the boy for a long time until yours calms down, but let them get used to your absence and so you can still get out of this and that and meet, as well as find a girlfriend for cover. There are no limits to love! If your love is real, it will last, if it doesn't last - it wasn't love.
Don't just talk about the boy like that, but think about her too! Since I have to open my legs now, Seki will come to fix me that I am 15. As soon as she left a child with a minor and slept with him, she even thinks about getting married, then SHE is not a commodity !!! One piece of advice from me, don't get married then you'll regret it. Girl at 15.
No one will allow you to get married. This possibility is provided for minors over 16 years of age with the permission of the district court. You are only 14 years old, do you know how many things are ahead of you? Including true love
You are small and spoiled! You will regret it later
Don't you have to play with dolls more ??? ;)
Just so you know how wrong you are ... Why do you think the signature will make you happier in some way? By law, you have the right to do so at 16, but with the consent of one parent. Good thing yours don't agree. Besides, he's probably really a brazier, and you don't want to admit it to yourself and he's lying to you ... If you truly loved each other, you wouldn't care if you were married or not.
You definitely shouldn't marry so young. Will there be no meaning to lives? NO, that's nonsense. Just because you don't see the point now doesn't mean it doesn't. And the current is not visible but exists. Listen to the parents!
Your parents are right, in order to be a pedophile he is also a brazier, run away, you don't know when he is 8 years older what he can do to you and he is hiding.
I start with the numbers: 1- How did a 20-year-old leave with a 12-year-old? 2- What is the name of an oligophrenic whose boyfriend is 12 and in 2 years is supposed to have had sex !? 3- How do your parents let you stay with him? 4- Iha, they didn't beat him. I'm sorry, but if one day, in the distant future, my daughter leaves with one, I will probably raise scandals for years. 5- Child, if you are 14 in what movie will you get married *. They told you according to the law it is not possible. 6- Did you go to the gypsy neighborhood to see their standard? ,, My darling, my life ", (inflates the belly and craves) Mom your garbage lower" 7- Yep 8 years are not small, anyway you will be expected to give birth before 30. 8- According to the law is not a pedophile, but according to moral values what is it? 9- So, what do you say you will marry secretly if you are not an adult and your parents are generally against it? 10- You love each other very much, but very, very much .. to him, if he cared about you, he would let you live your childhood, to be at least 16 and then. I can list many, many more, but it's pointless. Don't try to do it, now you have a child's mind, but after ten years with a few children and bills you will not be happy.
Wow Once upon a time children at 14 were still playing with dolls, and this one is thinking about a wedding! Mila, live your childhood and then think about other things. What's more, he's 22 - You fit her, you know what it's like to be in a relationship. Tighten up and don't expose yourself. Think for a second if he leaves you and your parents don't want you because you didn't listen to them ... what do you do then? Haha Get down to Earth. Stop flying because you will fall very badly.
Are you stupid?
6, I guess you don't read, they left when she was 12, but even 14 years old, really morally disgusting. How parents allow this ....
Why be stupid? 19, and I'm the same age, for love there are no boundaries. Author, after you love each other ... no problem, and I have a friend, but he's 20 and we almost live secretly, I only go home in the evening so that they don't feel ours. Your friend, the older he is, the smarter he is than the others. Eli.
Your friend, the older he is, the smarter he is than the others. 21 .. you think very limited, but a very author, if your friend really loved you, he would let you live your childhood, where you went to get married, I don't understand, so you're only 14 ..
22, there is no age limit for love. Older people know more than those of our age. Eli.
She is 14 for God's sake what wedding?
Yes, of course, they know more than "those your age", because "those your age" kick a ball and play computer games, and the Batkovs know other things to do. I will tell you that a normal man, on the spot, will not go with a girl. Not because the girl in question has something smaller than the older ones, but because it is not right! Besides, he hasn't grown up, what can a man want from a child? Instead of experiencing their childhood, they began to have sex, smoke, get drunk like pigs, and think of themselves as adults. At your age, we played chase in the streets. There is time for everything and one day you will understand it, but I hope it is not too late. The ice queen
I will tell you only 1 thing and that is do not ruin your life, because you will be very sorry, and it may be too late to save yourself .. Mary
They beat the hormones in the head, but very strongly. You're not in love, you don't even know what you are, you have no idea how to deal with your hormones. You are not the first butterfly to burn in the lamp. Strange as it may seem, a woman's life begins after the age of 30, but it is never too late to lose your cards and chances at an early age and at the age of 30 to be ruined by life, with 1-2 children on your neck, like a millstone. , without education, without money and chances to find a really decent man. Without a career and your own income, you are addicted, and if you are addicted, you are impersonal and nobody. Nobody likes anything, so work on yourself first and build a person who is really valuable.
Girl, are you okay! ??? how can you do it and think it's like throwing away your life: X Think soberly if you can at all .. how do you imagine yourself at 30 or 25 with a bunch of children and a man who will harass you every day, it's not worth living your nice and carefree days.
Come on, I support you, get married, give birth to two or three gypsies. Stay without education, there is no problem without a profession, you will live well, you will be miserable and hungry, and not only you. Three times a day you will fight and once you will eat bread Only that until you turn 18 for a threatened wedding, you will be with a child in your arms and you will pray for yours to pick you up Horror you are another fool with an apology, go fuck your life! Keep in mind that you will have to forget about your current way of life, forget about carelessness and become a maid, clean, wash, cook and serve your mother-in-law. Do you know I am writing to you somewhere from experience with the difference that I was 20 and did not take a gypsy Now I have a child of 2, up and down we live well, but there is no freedom, I can not dress and behave as I want because I have to to be an example,
I will tell you briefly, accurately and clearly .... NO. Apparently it's not the gypsy, it's you. I am also 14 / aged /, but I have no intention of getting married at least until I turn 18. You are still a child and you don't know what you want!
A 22-year-old who walks with a 14-year-old is a pedophile. You can't marry him. He could go to jail if your parents file a complaint.
I wonder (to everyone who thinks he's only with her for sex) can't this boy find some whores to hang out with all night? If it was for one fuck, they wouldn't be together that long, and he would have left her in a few months. They have been together for 2 years, it is hardly for him to have sex, if it were so the story would have looked completely different, in my opinion. On the subject - it is too early, and to get married you will not achieve anything, because you will be financially unstable. (I leave aside the fact that at 14 you can't get married) Do you think it's easy to have a family ... it's a responsibility that is often impossible even for an adult. Not everything will be honey and butter, when you sit hungry and the quarrels will start in the cold ... there will be tension between you, there is no point in ruining your relationship in this way. Finish, have a good job, make money (no matter how disgusting, there's no way without money) and when you're both on your feet, get married. Until then, keep in touch and love each other, no need to hurry. explain to your parents that they will not live with him eventually, but you. If you like it, it's over. Nobody can do anything. :) P. P the girl wrote that the boy is not a "brazier", but only that theirs call him Gray
Why don't you just keep in touch with him? And when you turn 18 and you're still together, don't you get married? Do not hurry! If you have been together for 2 years and still love each other, then you fit in quite well!
I just don't know what to say. It really is "indescribable." Today's youth is totally crazy. How will you get married?!? No, no, I will die, I tell you honestly. --- Jesse ---
One word - FACEPALM
For some reason you and I are really very similar with small differences that mine was 17 and I was 14 and I really ran away, but I also created a lot of problems, in short, a long story, so my advice to you is custom, there's nothing wrong with that. in this but don't do something that you will regret first you will create problems with the authorities and believe me they will be really serious when he is 22 and secondly you will also hurt yourself if it hurts you but believe me then it will hurt you much more than ever and a man does not deserve such a sacrifice!
at 14? It's normal, it was a girl, she approached correctly, look, I got married at 16, I'm not sorry
You're still 14. Girl, realize. How come there is no point in living life in front of you. You will meet thousands of people who will go through your life, some will leave a lasting mark, others will hurt you terribly, others will love you madly. You can't think about a wedding or a wedding when you're young and you may not realize what you're doing.
Are you married? Are you still together how things develop? I'm very curious