I am a girl of 17. 4 years ago (November 2015) I started liking a boy. He liked me from July 2015. According to everyone, our relationship was "childish" because we did not kiss, did not hold hands, did not dare to hug in front of adults, rode bicycles together, went to pick up green junk and then we ate with salt, we went fishing with our bare hands by a small river, etc. It was a very important part of my life. We parted, we got together again, in a word - we couldn't do without each other. We hung out, we chased each other - that was our love. There were no lies or intrigue. Every little gesture meant a lot to us. In 2017 I introduced him to my best friend. Well, you may have already remembered what happened - he went with her. I stopped talking to both of them, but I saw him every day because we were in the same company. After a few months we left again. I thought it had changed, alas. He wrote to me the other day that he regretted everything and wanted us to be the same again. He asked me to give him another chance. My question to you is - if you were in my place, what would you do? On the one hand, if we try, it can hurt me again. On the other hand, it may have really changed. After all, I still love him.
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No. Don't give him a chance!
If you still love him, give him a chance ... Otherwise there is no point in continuing and digging into the past! М.32г.
Do not.
Take a knock like people and then whatever the sword shows.
You are children. Everything will pass, whether you will be together again or not - you will certainly not grow old together, do what you think is necessary. In your place, I would remove him and my 'girlfriend' from my life. Sorry it comes from pity, not from gel. Are you already starting relationships at the age of 13 ... Good luck
I would give him a chance, as long as there is no beef and tension between us, but I would not let him near me ...
People don't change, they tell you what they want to hear. If you believe him, you will only suffer. This person is unworthy obviously, this does not change over time.
What if you haven't reached intimacy, what do you expect? Unfortunately, it is a fact that friendships are more difficult to pass into intimacy because it is not clear what to expect from each other. If you are old enough to find out what kind of relationship you want at this stage - try it. But not with this female arrogance - should I give him a chance ... The relationship is not one-sided, you have to give each other a chance ... From 17 you start spinning these numbers, and you expect the other to "change" .. These are children's toys. You just need to make it clear to each other as adults what you expect and whether you can accomplish it. That's the difference between playing love and really loving someone ...
WOW! I don't know how I came across this site and this story, BUT it sounds very, very, very beautiful if it's true. If it is so beautiful - then this love is worth more than anything. Fight for her. Fight till the end. If in the end it turns out that he does not want to be with you, then it was all an illusion ... and ..... there is NO need to suffer - but none. I emphasize again - NO need to suffer and be sad if it does not happen. If HE is fighting for you and YOU are fighting for him ..... This is an idyll. I `m not joking. Boldly. DON'T THINK - it's either YES or NOT. ACT. In time, you may regret missing the love of your life. And if it turns out that he is lying to you and hurting you, and is rubbish, and playing with you ... At least you will have experience, very valuable EXPERIENCE - No injury trauma. You will know in the future. Read books. Train. Dream. Have a GOAL in life. These are cruel clichés, but they are true. Good luck.
After a while, when one looks back at one's past, one regrets much more about what one has not done than about what one has done. Give him a chance if you still have feelings for him. And as for whether it will hurt you or not, it is best to prepare from now on, because you will be hurt many times in your life. Not once or twice. So don't be afraid, wounds are a part of life. It's as if you're afraid of falling and not running, cycling, etc., but just sitting. Stupid, isn't it? Life must be lived without fear.