Hello! I'm 14. My mother died after a serious illness when I was 7. I live with my father and his mother, my grandmother. A lot of problems and things have happened in the family and something bad happens almost every day. My father and I often quarrel, and my grandmother and I don't get along at all, and there have been long periods in which we haven't talked. I feel that I do not want to live with them, I do not feel my love for them or theirs for me, but I feel oppression by themselves and by the house, during the day I watch almost as soon as I get up, to go out with friends and I try to I pick it up as late as possible. Do I sit in the house for a long time and go crazy. I don't feel comfortable and I don't feel like I want to live here anymore. So my question to you is: should I go to live with my mother's relatives: my grandmother (her mother), my grandfather (her father), her two brothers and her sister. I love them very much and in their house I feel happy, confident, calm, comfortable. What should I do And how to go to live with my mother's relatives, we need to talk to the court, about the case, where to live the child, as in the separation from the parents or how, because I'm not sure my father will want to let me live there and just from time to time to come to see him. If you know what to do, please help, it's very difficult for me. Thanks in advance! very difficult for me. Thanks in advance! very difficult for me. Thanks in advance!
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If after a while your 14-year-old daughter goes out early in the morning and comes home late in the evening, you will hardly greet her with bread and salt. ;)
Go. Tell them and they will contact a lawyer. At 14, your opinion should be respected.
To go live. How simple. And who will feed you, clothe you, give you money? And on top of that? And when I look, you use your native house to sleep and eat and wonder that your father and grandmother are not OK with that? Start working, make a living and then you can make similar plans to go and live somewhere because wherever you go you have to eat, right? It's no joke to feed another person at home, but you can't know it.
You can ask your mother's home country if they want you to go to them, after you explain to them what the situation is and I want them to give you a positive answer. :)