Hello! I'm 17 years old and I met a man much older than me at 28. We went out once and I liked it more or less, but there were some pauses in the conversation. He talked often, and I listened to him think and explain. I know it's big, but I like it a hell of a lot and I have some very interesting fantasies about it: D I'm not a whore and I'm pretty serious in many ways, compared to my peers. He is a young man with experience, I don't know if he uses me. At the moment of writing this I realize how stupid everything sounds and I realize that it is better to forget it. : D By the way, he has big brown eyes and thick lips, which every woman dreams of trying at least once (; I think he has fun with me and I with him, we are not serious in this regard, we discussed the possibility of a relationship and we are aware that nothing would happen. I liked it a year ago and only after 5 months I found it on Facebook, we wrote to each other and it was interesting, but over time it lost interest a bit. He says that he likes direct contact between people, that's why he invites me to go out one more time, maybe that's why he doesn't write to me, because "there's a lot of point in chats if we don't see each other live." Does he just want sex? If he only wanted that, he would probably make hints and want to know a lot about me without saying anything about himself, and he was trying to have serious conversations about the rank of his life and the future he was planning? He is sensible and does not look at me as a pervert, he is good at fairy tales, in a word he has a bright look without back thoughts, at least on the surface. My question is should I go out with him again or not deal with such a big one? He is a brutal cool people, I can't describe him to you, and with those lips I want ...
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11 years is not a very big and striking difference in my opinion. Besides, I don't see what's stopping you from dating him, you're still not going to get married and whine that he's 11 years older.
The answer is simple: He just wants to open a virgin! Since you are serious (in your words) he feels that you are a virgin ... he knows that with jokes like "whore come fuck you you will not curl up" so he enchants you with serious conversations - to show you that he is not dumb, and that he doesn't want to pass you .... With these brown eyes and lips he enchants you and covers and pulls you to realize how much you fall for him, and to agree to let him go alone, without relationship ... I am a man of 26 - I tell you from experience - a man tells a woman that nothing will come out of a relationship between them if he just wants to have FRIENDLY NON-BINDING SEX! This is exactly what your "gentleman" wants - he will pretend to be kind and gallant, he will pretend to be your good friend with the idea of saying "
You better not, something bad could happen!
Why do you ask others? If you like it, going out with it is not bad, what if it's bigger. 10 years is not that striking ... when it pulls you. I am also 17 years old and I like older men, not boys.
The women here, I don't think you should comment, and as number 3 said, he doesn't want anything more than sex with you, I also wanted a girl and I've talked a lot looking at me with admiration, and since we're here to help each other, I advise you not to you deal with him, no matter how attractive he may seem if you are not looking for a purely physical relationship, he is not the person for you and in the end you decide only you, but if he takes advantage of you it will affect you later in life which it won't be nice! Good luck and I hope you judge this gentleman correctly and that he wants to see you more often than you write is a sign of desire and only for one thing, obviously it makes him nervous and when he meets you he is a nice person again, but as long as I'm wrote, I said my opinion, I hope you take it into account :)
From the author: By the way, he said that he was not good for serious relationships yet, he was not happy here and now and thought to go to another country, but how much he is worried about another question, ONE THING bothers me: Do I have a body shape at 17 woman or not? I wonder if he finds me small and sexy?
I know you don't write here to hear the opinion of others, you just want them to tell you to go out with him. Well, I would tell you to go out and have fun, just don't have sex, because if you let him go now, he can dump you. Just wait until something more serious happens between you until then. And you are big after 1 year you will be 18 you will be an adult then it does not matter so much that it makes more sense, but he will not be like a pedophile; e. It's one thing to be 13 and date a 24-year-old, it's quite another to be 18 and date a 29-year-old. Calmly, every girl falls for older men. They attract us because they are mature and it's just that it's kind of very sexy: especially if they have brown eyes like this man. I love brown eyes; 3: e SUCCESS with him and don't let him :)
Go out again and again and again with him ... But only in public places and do not drink in his presence to reduce the risk of succumbing to passion. So go out regularly for a few months and watch his behavior and his reactions to you. See exactly when he will press you to have sex, see exactly how he will do it, and you refuse and see how he will react. From this you will draw a wonderful conclusion about how he perceives you. The most important thing for a successful relationship of any type is respect. If he respects you, even if you have sex with him out of pure sexual desire, without being in a relationship, there will still be no bad outcome for you. If he invests time and effort in you, and respects your choice, then he wants you not only because of sex, but also because he has sympathy for you, and he perceives you as a person. So in time you will see if there is a chance to start a relationship, and whether your desire for it will continue after you get to know him. If you can build value relationships, think about where you want things to go. But if he does not respect you and sees you as a person, he will fuck you and throw you away like the lowest garbage. :) Well, it's up to you. And even if nothing happens, absorb his words, and if there is wisdom in them, use it in practice.
Kid, watch your lessons - don't do nonsense!
from the author: After some naked posts of some "chick" that he posted and it was his dream: D I was disgusted with him .. I'm not attracted anymore, I cut off contact with him. Even he was flirting with a 23-year-old girl in a chat and there were some sexual jokes that just made me laugh, so where am I going, so I look funny to her from our age. Did I do the right thing? I think so ;)!
Again from the author: D Lately I've been thinking about him again and we have renewed our contacts on the net, but we haven't gone out, because I'm a little scared, if he looks at me he will understand that I like him a lot. I don't want to admit it to myself, but I think I'm in love. We were on vacation and I sent him pictures, 2 were more spicy in a swimsuit and he joked that he wanted naked the next time. I think he hinted that he would if he could take some cool pictures of me. I really want to forget it, I wish I hadn't gone to that store 1 year ago, but what to do. Fate :? Help me, how to cope, it is already unbearable ...