Should I Have An Abortion ?!

   It's best to tell your friend and your parents. If you want the baby to give birth to him. Do not have an abortion. You will manage as long as you want and you will give a new life, which is always the better choice. Good luck.

   You are 16, and it is not known in 1 year whether you will be with the same boy ... What will you offer this child? I think he shared it with his friend and had an abortion ... But fate is in your hands ...

   Tell him, of course! He has a right to know. But do you have any idea how you will take care of this child, you are still very young and you are probably studying. Abortion is the sensible solution, you have a lifetime ahead of you for children and family! If you keep it, your whole life will turn into hell and a big mess! You yourself are still a child! Have an abortion and then protect yourself. There are pills, condoms, all kinds of means! I'm 24 and I still can't decide. The child is a great responsibility. Think well. How will you and your child survive, where will you live? How will you finish? What are you going to work? There are much more important questions than whether to give birth to him. Anyone can have a child, the question is what kind of parent will he be ?! You are still young, do not ruin your life! Good luck :)))

   Talk to him and your parents do not make a decision alone!

   Hello darling .. I read your problem .. I want to tell you that I understand how hard it is for you ... some time ago in my school they projected a movie about abortions and their consequences .. Darling babies feel pain from the 4th week, and abortion in such advanced stages as yours requires dismemberment of the baby before it is removed, ie. to have his legs cut off first, then his arms, etc., or to be sucked out with a vacuum tube .. the pressure in it is so strong that it tears off the baby's head .. I was shocked when I saw all this on video .. if you want to show it to you or just to share with someone my skype is SsSsSimonka :)

   It's very bad here. I will try to slap one shoulder :) For starters, you are confused and do not make your own decision, whatever it is (I'm talking if it is related to the child). Talk to your friend (this is the most sensible decision for now). As much as you have a right to know about the child, so does he. I think you did it together, you have to decide together what to do. Talk to yours if you think that they will help you and are good parents and you understand each other naturally, if you do not seek help from his parents, if they are better :)) Remember one thing from me, I tell you from personal experience. In most cases, abortion is not a solution !!! Remember this, abortion in most cases is the mistake :) I wish you success and then write to us :)

   Share with your parents! At 16, it will be difficult to look after a child alone if you do not rely on them! You haven't set foot yet. How will you support the baby? The bad thing is that you didn't take care of yourself, but you are still a child and you could have waited a while before you became a mother. motherhood is a responsibility, a complete surrender of your life in the name of another being. Are you ready to miss all the good moments of youth without regretting them later ?! Also, are you sure this boy is ready to be and wants to be the father of your child? What if it isn't? And is he 16 like you? You need to talk to him too, but hurry because you don't have much time before the third month comes and it's too late. If you still decide to keep the child, many difficulties await them. I hope you are strong and ready for them. I can't advise you to have an abortion. Abortion would be your easiest way out when you're 16, but I wouldn't do it in your place. Still, I think so from the position of a woman in her early thirties, married, whose attempts to have a child for years have failed. Whatever you decide, you need a lot of inner strength and peace!

   TELL HIM.

   To number 5. I am intrigued by the movie you are writing about. Contact me at [email protected] I will give you my Skype.

   Hello! I don't know if you're still reading the comments and if you haven't made up your mind, but I'd like to give you my advice. I am a 19 year old girl and I have often wondered what I would do. To be honest, I've always prayed that something like this wouldn't happen to me until I wanted it myself. The solution is really very difficult, you ask yourself thousands of questions ... if, if, how ... Look, my parents are doctors, and they told me that by the end of the third month the fetus is not developed enough to be able to called a man. And I think number 5 has written too much, especially considering you're already so scared right now. I think you are very small for such a responsibility because you complicate your life. The child is not just a birth, you have to raise him and be able to give him everything. Which I'm sorry about but you are not capable of doing so yet. And it is not known whether you will stay with your friend. I'm not telling you what to do, but think carefully about what is better for YOU and not for the baby, no matter how selfish it may sound. I'm just telling you not to think about this movie and how "his limbs are cut." Enough nonsense, let's not be in a horror movie. And one more thing, if you decide to have an abortion - choose a good place where professionals work. And tell your mother - she will help you get through the difficult period. I have a girlfriend who, like you, got pregnant at 16. She had an abortion, everything went well, now she is fine and happy. Think ... and good luck! If you can, tell me what decision you made. Chrissy and not for the baby, as selfish as it may sound. I'm just telling you not to think about this movie and how "his limbs are cut." Enough nonsense, let's not be in a horror movie. And one more thing, if you decide to have an abortion - choose a good place where professionals work. And tell your mother - she will help you get through the difficult period. I have a girlfriend who, like you, got pregnant at 16. She had an abortion, everything went well, now she is fine and happy. Think ... and good luck! If you can, tell me what decision you made. Chrissy and not for the baby, as selfish as it may sound. I'm just telling you not to think about this movie and how "his limbs are cut." Enough nonsense, let's not be in a horror movie. And one more thing, if you decide to have an abortion - choose a good place where professionals work. And tell your mother - she will help you get through the difficult period. I have a girlfriend who, like you, got pregnant at 16. She had an abortion, everything went well, now she is fine and happy. Think ... and good luck! If you can, tell me what decision you made. Chrissy And tell your mother - she will help you get through the difficult period. I have a girlfriend who, like you, got pregnant at 16. She had an abortion, everything went well, now she is fine and happy. Think ... and good luck! If you can, tell me what decision you made. Chrissy And tell your mother - she will help you get through the difficult period. I have a girlfriend who, like you, got pregnant at 16. She had an abortion, everything went well, now she is fine and happy. Think ... and good luck! If you can, tell me what decision you made. Chrissy

   Според мен направи аборт, наистина си много малка, кажи на родителите ти, те ще ти помогнат най много от всички нас, също кажи и на приятеля ти :) успех ;) Ж18

   Please do not have an abortion. Whatever it is, look at it from the side, that you have no right to take an innocent life, especially since you want a child! You can handle it, share it with yours, I will not leave you Tell your friend, he has a right to know! Good luck, he is also a parent like you and you have to get involved in the upbringing, bear some expenses, etc. Number 5, would you show me the movie and me, please! My dear is sineoka1as far as abortion is concerned, I point out another reason - if you have an abortion now you take a 99% risk of never being able to give birth to a baby again! make this pea you will never forgive yourself and it will forever darken your happiness. number 10 and my parents are doctors, so I am familiar and know about what you wrote in the first part of the comment,but I absolutely disagree with the other. Everyone has the right to an opinion anyway!

   Nonsense !!! Do not have an abortion. I am 15, I have a 4-month-old daughter and I love her very much, I spend all my free time with her. Once I've done it, you'll do it too! Calm down.

   Tell everyone! I think it's best to have an abortion, I don't think he will want a child and that you are ready to live with this boy (I'm only 15 :))

   No do not! the top is old maybe you've already done it. Just people see this and judge for yourself what you are doing! Do children have to pay for our mistakes? It happened, Ok. I can't imagine what it's like to have to choose to change your life like that, but it's so selfish to do something like that to a child who didn't even have a chance to open his eyes. Now you may think that you will not be able to cope, that your life will be different, that it will be difficult ... And it will be so ... But what did the child do to cause it !? Just think a little! This is a murder taking away the child's chance to see the world! When it happens, you can't return it, you don't have to! Just think when you see your baby's eyes hugging him, I'm sure it would be very difficult to look after a child alone, but in the end, doing it was good for you, wasn't it! ? The child should not pay you for the mistake..I don't want to judge you and don't judge you, I have no right to do it, just don't you feel sick looking at the pictures of the babies and yours will be like them .. I am convinced that your mother and father you will help you know a girl on the 17th summer gave birth to a daughter mother and helps her a lot .. The father is not the child behaves with the girl like a whore does not sleep for the baby but she does not care looks after her child and copes she was looking on the net for something to help her make a decision and now she is looking after her baby and she is missing nothing. So THINK if you have someone to rely on, give birth to your child, and in the end it is better to give it for adoption.

   Hello again .. I read your comments late, I made the wrong decision .. I had an illegal abortion in 3 months ..; (how sad ... I feel like a murderer .. they even told me that maybe I won't be able to get pregnant anymore .. I wander aimlessly in the world of drugs and alcohol ...; (I failed sowing ...

   Crazy how can you want this stupid baby WELL LIFE CAREER YOUR FIGURE EVERYTHING WILL GO TO HELL BECAUSE OF THIS DAMN BEBER I WILL NOW GIVE YOU A PHONE WHEREEVER ANYWHERE

   That's nonsense, no murder. If you want children, you don't matter now or later, the decision is yours. I just didn't understand why you wouldn't be able to get pregnant anymore: X

   How can she not get pregnant? !! Because she had an abortion illegally and who knows what incompetents did it! Yes, darling, you rightly feel like a murderer, then this is pure murder and there are two murderers - the doctor who performs the abortion and YOU! I can't and don't want to imagine how you feel, darling, but I'm nobody to judge you and tell you what's right and what's wrong with you. Maybe if I were you and I would do it, I have no idea, I hope I do not understand what it feels like, but once you have decided that this is the best, then it should be so. It will be difficult to experience , this is so, but life goes on, you should not despair. Think of as many positive things as possible and don't go back to that moment. Besides, it is not 100% known whether you will not have children. At a given moment, when you are more mature and settled, you may get pregnant again and be happy. I wish it from the bottom of my heart! :)

   Abe, number 17, excuse me, but you're pushing your pussy !!! What are you, a snob or a brainless model who is afraid of her figure? Bass and the superficial man, you're very bad, do you really think so? Go explode and get rid of the world from an unhappy and unnecessary creature !!! You are so stupid that you even wondered why she wouldn't get pregnant, there is no point, however, in dealing with hollow canteens like YOU !!! I agree with number 19

   Number 20, don't apologize at 17 when you start writing. 17 is a cousin of the devil.

   Here you are completely crazy

   Can anyone write me where I can watch this movie

   Be strong and give birth to your baby!

   Dear girl, many things have already happened to you during these 2 years of abortion, but if you decide, write and I can talk to you or connect you with some organization that will help you and keep your anonymity. I want to tell you that you have already made your decision and you should not regret and stop living because of it! The baby is gone, one day you will probably have something else - when you are ready. You have decided not to give birth, and this will give you a chance to study, to develop, to have a career - you should not waste this chance out of guilt. It is important to take responsibility and move forward! It is a pity that many people speak anonymously (and not only) and change a person's life with an opinion, unreasonable and unsubstantiated, sometimes very unreasonable. This girl needed support, not people to defend extreme positions, to make her feel guilty and to confuse her further. With regard to abortion - yes, it is done exactly as she wrote n.5 - and the fetus has a heart at the end of the first month, and at the end of the third is a fully developed baby. But that's not the point - every girl in such a situation just has to make a decision. It is not necessary for different known and unknown people to tell him - "have an abortion" or "keep the child". It is foolish to hide from parents. It is clear that the fear is great, but they are the people who created each of us and deserve to know about it. Almost every parent would support their daughter and help her, especially aware of the health and mental risks of her decision. If the choice is abortion, then with their knowledge and help it will be done in a qualified institution. And there is a risk of sterility, but is significantly smaller than in illegal abortion. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES DO YOU HAVE AN ILLEGAL ABORTION !!! As for the baby's father - of course, he deserves to know and take responsibility for accepting the baby and being his father or being a coward and giving up. But his decision does not necessarily affect the decision of the pregnant girl! Girls, there are many organizations that can talk to you, inform you about opportunities and support you, and will keep you anonymous. This is a difficult and important decision, do not risk deciding in a state of affect. Good luck to all! But his decision does not necessarily affect the decision of the pregnant girl! Girls, there are many organizations that can talk to you, inform you about opportunities and support you, and will keep you anonymous. This is a difficult and important decision, do not risk deciding in a state of affect. Good luck to all! But his decision does not necessarily affect the decision of the pregnant girl! Girls, there are many organizations that can talk to you, inform you about opportunities and support you, and will keep you anonymous. This is a difficult and important decision, do not risk deciding in a state of affect. Good luck to all!

   It is better not to have an abortion, because abortion can harm you in the future ...