Let me start here ... some time ago I "shared" a story about me and a boy ... from the chat. The point is that everyone advised me to meet him and then decide whether I love him or not. I hesitated for a long time ... I'm not a girl who gets along with strangers in the chat after all, but anyway .... in the end we went out, we talked. Then (again in the chat) he told me that he loved me ... he asked me how I felt ... and here comes the moment when I am faced with a choice. The thing is that as a character he is everything I can want ... I really like him a lot ... I can talk to him and so on ... However, as a vision he is nothing that I like. In a sense, it is not ugly ... it is beautiful even if only ..... I am tall (175 cm) and whenever I look for a boy "my type" in my imagination comes up the image of some tall, and he is not.
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In the chat you can say everything! I don't believe much in "I love you" in the chat from a man who hardly knows me .. But there is also the fact that more shy people can admit it ONLY in writing, not face to face. He's all you want-ok. And do you have a thrill, an attraction ?? Because I know a lot of men who are "everything I want", but since they don't attract me, I can't feel anything for them. You like him as a man, now think like a man do you want him? If the answer is yes - don't care at all how tall he is and what he looks like! It would be childish and unfortunate to miss it because of such nonsense.
And as for "not being your type", you contradict yourself! The type is not determined by appearance, but by the character, and you yourself said that it is everything you can want. But maybe you would feel if there was more than admiration for his personality. When I want someone, I don't care at all what he looks like, because he is stronger than me ...
Lately, I see more and more couples in which the man is shorter than the woman. This shouldn't be a big deal if you really like it. Well, unless the difference is really huge.
If you're good with it, everything else doesn't matter. The same thing happened to me. He turned out to be awfully tall for me and an athletic guy, and I imagined him as fat and short. When I saw him, I swallowed. Not to mention the color of the skin and eyes-a complete discrepancy with my ideas. However, he turned out to be the most intelligent and great person I know. Success!
If you only know how familiar your story is to me ... and not just familiar - I'm in the same situation. It is very difficult for me as well ... but how are things with you ... in the sense of whether you feel attracted, ie when you ask yourself if I can sleep with this person or if I want him - the answer is yes ... Extremely It is important that you like the character of the man, and I can't give you advice about height, because I'm also a maniac on this topic, although I'm not tall, otherwise I imagine ... Well, I wish you success, I hope you find the right solution .. .
You should when you see him, your stomach shakes, if you don't have this thrill, then it's not him. You are not superficial to tell you we almost never choose the one that is in our imagination but the thrill is the most important.
I'm already making plans for a family with a boy who is not 'my type'! I'm happy and every moment makes me happy with something! That's it ... there are no such men anymore! And I always imagined someone strong, big dark brown with brown eyes :) hahaha.But fate offered me weak, elegant, green-eyed, dark-haired and very charming and gentle! I adore him! Love does not drink!
And what of the fact that it is lower? Look, there are no perfect people; see how you feel when you're next to him, are you okay? Ask your heart?
And my friend is not very tall. I am 172 cm, he is probably as big as me, but when I put on heels, I definitely overtake him :)))) But he is very cute and I appreciate him highly. Appearance is not so important.